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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.


I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

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I'm 17/f. My boyfriend of 2 years and I are going to a concert this summer and I really want to lose my virginity to him soon, so I figured why not that night? After the concert, I was wondering how I could somehow initiate it or give him a sign that I want to have sex with him THEN? I dont want to kill the moment by discussing it beforehand because I know it'd make him AND me feel uncomfortable knowing. I want to let it happen on it's own without making it seem awkward. How do I initiate the moment?

You talk to him first. I know, you said you don't want to, but you need to. You need to make sure that you're BOTH ready, and that you're on the same page.


Talking to him will show not only that you value his views on the subject, but that your relationship is strong enough and you're comfortable enough with one another to talk openly about sex.


-Laura (17-f)

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(Rating: 5) I really hadn't thought about it, but it would look like I was planning to jump his bones and go crazy like some crazy freaky sex crazed stalker chick if I did things all on my own to prepare. Thank you very much!
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