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I am thirteen and I am relatively short for my age (4' 11") and I'm not really pretty.
At my summer camp, there's a group of high schoolers around 14 to 15 years old, and one of them is my age, but she looks 15 and she is extremely pretty. I want to be accepted by this group, but because I look younger they treat my younger. This girl who is my age is nice and tells them that I'm the same age as her, but it doesn't change their mind. It's like the elite group: is it even worth it? They have the most fun and they are really tight and I want to be a part of that.

It doesn't matter if you're short! I'm not even 15 and I'm barely 5'0...If you want to be pretty then just apply some makeup on..(but not too much or it'll melt and smear with the sun during camp) Straighten your hair or put it up in a cute bun. I know some people may tell you that it doesn't matter if you're not pretty and that you don't need to be in a group like that and that they should accept you for who you are..but I know how you feel..just like slowly hang out with them and they will see just what an awesome person you are! You don't have to be pretty to have friends..just start hanging out with one or two of the girls in that group and they'll introduce you to the other girls. Hope I helped! xoxo

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