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A friend of mine has his girlfriend's birthday all planned out. Well, almost. There is one point where he doesn't know what he's going to do. This is what he has so far:

Wake her up a 7:30 in the morning; give her 30 seconds to grab anything she needs then take her out to breakfast. After breakfast he's going to take her back home so she can get cleaned up, take a shower, and all that good stuff. Breakfast will probably take an hour so she should be ready by 11am. Then, he doesn't know where he's going to take her. But, at 5pm or 6pm he's taking her to an early dinner where he's giving her her gift. After dinner, at 7pm he's taking her to his fav. local band's show who she's gotten pretty interested in. After their show, him and his band are going on stage and sing her 2 fav. songs to her; Vindicated by Dashboard and Hanging by a moment by Life house. All of that should be over at about 10 or 10:30pm. When it's over, he'll take her to her house where all her friends are waiting for her. We’re gonna party it up through the rest of the night and may be a lil into the morning ;).

But anyway, he still needs to figure out what he's going to do with her from 11am to 5 pm. That's about 6 hours lol. I want to tell him to take her to an amusement park but I don't know if 6 hours will be enough for that. Any suggestions?

Holy crap. That is too much. If he's up for it, you could take her to a couple's spa to relax. She is going to need down time if he is getting her up at 7:30 and home at 10:30. I don't care how young she is. Even a nice quiet picnic or a canoe trip (be sure he has extra suntan lotion in case she didn't think about it). Think relaxing whatever it is. Or a short easy hike (tell her to wear high socks and shoes. Let her know that she will be out for the day so that she can have an extra outfit for the evening. (Or take her shopping).

I don't think he is going to get her to forgo the shower before breakfast. No matter what. So be prepared. Tell her she has 10 minutes. That would be a lot more generous.

Whatever you do. Let her sleep in the next day.

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(Rating: 5) I'm pretty sure he's letting her change and do make-up/hair between what he's doing before dinner and before the show. Thanks for your help! I didn't even think of how tired she'll get.


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