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My name's Jennifer, but I'm more commonly known as Jen or Sporkster. I love lots of things/people including God; volleyball and soccer, my two favorite sports; and cheese. I also love Pi, but that's a story for another day.

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Q: well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months. we're both 14 and pretty conservative. im not sure what everyone else does but im not sure where we should be in our relationship. if you have any experience with this at all, any help is greatly appreciated.

A: Where you should be? Why should there be a certain "normal" timeline for a relationship? Go at your own pace (so long as it's not too fast) and don't just do things because other people say that's what's "normal" in a relationship. The "normal" relationship now is quite scary, so don't just go with the crowd.

My boyfriend and I didn't kiss until we had been together for seven months, and he and I were both eachother's first boyfriend/girlfriend. Take things slow and just let things happen. They will happen when the time is right, so don't rush into anything. He and I have been together for a year and a month now, so I consider myself somewhat experienced with relationships. Just take it slow and enjoy the little bit of childhood you have left!

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(Rating: 5) YES you are the type of person i was lookin for an answer from! thanks so much!
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