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So me (15/f) and my best friend (17/m) were talkin last night, and we got onto the topic of sex, like we always do. Well I asked him what he thought about me waiting till marriage to have sex, and he said he thought it wuz good. And then he turned around and said he would love to be my first. So he says wait till marriage, and he wants to be the first...So is he sayin he wants to marry me? or what? Cuz it sure sounds like it to me, but I'm not sure, and don't wanna get my hopes up too high, cuz I am in love with him, if I haven't mentioned that already. He wuz my first love, and I believe he is the one...So what do you think he's tryin to say? Thnx for any advice you can give me, sorry it's so long.
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In Love And Confused
Yeah, I think he's saying that!! You're right to not get your hopes up, but...you know how damn difficult guys are to get anything emotional out of. That is amazing! Maybe you should talk to him a little though - don't be all, 'OMG does that mean you want to marry me?' but say something like, 'you know what you said yesterday? Were you joking? Because, if not, would you like to go out sometime, as more than friends?'
He sounds like such a sweetie. Hang on to him hun! I wish you all the luck in the world :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
(Rating: 5) Wow, you came back like 5 minutes after I posted the question, I'm impressed! That wuz really great advice,and I'm gonna take it, and I wouldn't let him go for the world! Thank You So Much!! Much Love!!