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Im gonna try to make this as short as possible so no one has to read alot. There is this guy that goes to my church that plays guitar in the band.When i saw him i thought he was so cute and looked like a nice guy. I didnt know how old he was so i asked someone and they said they think he is 16.. and they also said I am to young for him becaue i am 13 but I dont think its that big of a diffrence. I wanna talk to him but im scared to and im never scared to talk to guys he is the only one. I dont know if i like him like that i just wanna get to know him and stuff because he may have a girlfriend. What should I do?

13 and 16 is a tiny age difference!! I wouldn't worry about that :)
You go up to him casually when he's putting his guitar away or something and ask him how long he's been playing, or what type of guitar it is, something like that. Musicians love being asked about their instruments :) Although it's probably best to not compliment him on it just yet - it'll look like you're flirting. If he asks then you can say, 'yeah, I thought you were great/good/pretty damn great/utter crap (lol)', whatever you want to say.
Just getting to know him is a great idea. If you get friends with him then he will most likely mention any girlfriend he has, and you might even get some guitar playing tips out of it :P Plus if you're friends, you can always ask about the girlfriend thing without seeming like you're being too forward.
Good luck!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx

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(Rating: 5) Thanks this is the best advice i have gotten
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