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It's another crazy year in my world of entropy. I am engaged now and very excited. It will be a little while before we can get married due to money constraints, but it will happen.
I like things simple. I hope to give honest and useful advice. I don't believe in giving answers just to get good feedback. 98% of all questions put in my inbox will be answered. The only ones I don't answer are those too young to be here or too obscene/disrespectful. I don't know everything, but I think I can help a lot.

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Ok...my bf is 19 and a really good guy. I am the frist long term gf he has had and I am afraid I am corrupting him. We almost had sex tonight (we both believe/ed in waiting till marriage) but only really stopped because I had to get home. I am afraid that I am going to drive him away even though its something he appears to want. How do I get him to give me a straight answer? I have asked but he just can't.

Don't do it if you really want to wait you can. It isn't easy and requires self discipline. There is nothing wrong with petting and kissing and stuff. And the longer you wait the more these other things mean and make you feel. I swear I melt everytime my fiancee touches me, and we haven't had sex.
And if you aren't going to have a good relationship, it isn't a good idea to have sex with him because if you become pregnant he might not support you. Which sucks, but it's true.

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(Rating: 5) :) i agree with you completely


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