~*Annie*~'s advice column

I have been friends with this girl named Emily since about second grade and this girl named Katie since fourth. We are in 9th grade now. One of my best friends whom I have been friends with since fifth grade is extreamly upset with those two other girls. The story is, My friend from 5th grade has liked this guy for a while and Emily knew about it. Saturday we had a Winter dance at my school and Chelsea (the one from 5th grade) Caught Emily making out with the guy that she liked. No more than 5 minutes later she started making out with a guy that really liked her. Chelsea got mad and left. I was on my way to the bathroom and I saw my friend Katie giving head to some guy that she isn't even dating. The next day we were all hanging out with a group of friends and Emily had one of those small containers of icecream. One of the guys we were hanging out with was horny (so he said) so Emily decided to give him head. The thing is, she put the icecream all over his penis before she did it because "it would taste better". To make things even nastier, Katie started doing it too. They were both giving him head at the same time with ICE CREAM. They've turned into complete sluts and I can't take how they are acting any more. Chelsea is not speaking to them and I can obviously understand why. I'm completely on my friend Chelsea's side because they've done the same thing to me as well not even 2 years before. Should I confront them or should I keep it quiet? I really don't want to start anything because even though we have a big school, things can get around quickly. They are also more of the "popular" type if you will. I don't know if I should say anything to them. They also act like five year olds when they are with eachother, they are so immature! What should I do? Please help. I apologize for the lenghth of this question.

I totally understand, and I don't think of you as being prude... I personally think giving head is disgusting, and doing it in front of people is even more disgusting, with ice cream on top?! That is gross. Do you really want to hang out with those kinds of people? I mean, this will be really hard, but gently (not angrily) tell them that you realized that they have changed, and you're not sure if you can keep up to their standards. If they are really so shallow and desperate to get the attention of a guy they just met that they are willing to suck on their dicks, then they aren't the most secure people I know. Really, if people at school find out about this, they'll be known as sluts, and then since you hang out with them, you'll be called a slut too. I suggest you avoid Emily and Katie for a while, and start hanging out with Chelsea, because she deserves nice and concerned friends like you :)

P.S. My mom's friend, who is a nurse, once treated a girl who had given head to guy. The girl had Climidia (a pussy, bacterial infection, sometimes leading to a STD) in her THROAT!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. You were the first person to answer with a good answer and not a sarcastic answer. And that is really gross what that girl you were telling me about got... that has to suck for her =/

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