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hiyuhh. my name is annie.and i'm sort of a big deal.
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okay so i was going out with this guy and he was a year older then me and we live in the same neighborhood but go to diff schools and we were sooo perfect for each other...but then he cheated on me soo i broke up with him even tho i liked himmm sooooo much and he still liked me a lot to ..((he didnt wanna break up i did ))soo then after we broke up he tryed to ask me out again but i said no cause it would be way to weird so we stoped talking and now about 2 months later he likes me again and today he said he wnats to tlak to me about sumthing and i havent talked to him in like 1 or 2 months soo im guessing he likes me again soo what should i do bacuse i still really like him but all my friends will get mad at me that i took him back i dont know what to do ..help ..thanks6
Talk to your ex-boyfriend. Pretend you were in his shoes. Pretend you are him: You're going out with this awesome girl (AKA you) and then a "seemingly better" offer comes along. (You have to remember that boys can be pretty curious sometimes :]). Anyway, you give the other girl a go and she ends up being not as pretty, kind, caring, or loyal as your ex girlfriend you cheated on (a.k.a. you again lol). So when you try to apologize from the depths of your heart, she turns away. You feel so torn inside and all you want is your old girl back again. Okay, back to you as you now haha. Confront your ex again. Say, "I really really liked you before, (name), but I was really disappointed when you broke things off with me. I'd like to go out with you again, but I don't want to be hurt again." If he seems genuinely sorry, then say you will give him ONE more chance. If he 2-times you again, then don't trust him a third time.
As for your friends, tell them: "Look, I'm giving (name) another chance with our relationship. I really like him, and he's really really sorry, but I am going to keep an eye on him. Please tell me if you find out he's cheating on me again. You all know that I can trust you girls, since you all are my best friends." They can't decide for you do date or not date him, so don't let them make up YOUR mind.
Hope all goes well!! :-)
(Rating: 5) thanks thats soo sweet