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okay, ive been talking to this one guy for like a month now..hes realli kool and everything, we goto different schools, have 2 very different lives, i have my lisense but he doesnt have his and so its totally hard to see eachother..i mean yeah ill meet up with him places and a few times ive given him a ride home,but its totally weird like that, i mean i want a guy to come see ME, pick ME up, drop ME off home, etc..ya know?? before when i first started talking to him i was totally interested and wanted it to work out, now i think im kinda starting to loose interest in him..its so hard tho cause i mean we hold hands, hold eachother, etc, [nuthing more than that kinda stuff] and he got me flowers the other day and hes making me this frame thingy in his ceramics class, and so its totally bad timing for me to wanna end it with him.. hes a realli kool guy but like i dont even know if i like his personality that much more than a friend.. at first i wanted to get to know him and see whut happens, and i did get to know him and im not sure if i realli like him that much now that i got to know him. i feel like im leading him on so much but now hes making me something in his ceramics class, etcetc!!!! whut should i do?? thanks alot

I don't think you have to break it off just yet. What you need to do is let him do some of the driving. Let him make the effort to come see you, pick you up, drop you home...etc. If he is truly interested and/or worth your time, he will do these things for you. You might also just want to tell him how you are feeling because guys are terrible at taking hints. You are just tired of doing all the work. If nothing changes, then dump him, nicely.

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(Rating: 5) thanks alot =]


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