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My name is Kat but you can just call me AG since thats what I'm known as here. I've been on Advicenators since about December of 2003. I give advice to the extent of my knowledge. Sometimes that can be very little but I'm honest and I'll try to help you the best I can.
If you want to ask me a question thats what the button is for that says "ask Advice~gurl a question".
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How can i become a more confident person?
Well I will be honest that I am a pretty confident and I do understand where you are coming from.
How do you feel about yourself? Do you feel you are pretty enough to have a guy like you? Do you think that your smart? Is there something about yourself that you just love?
If you say yes to more than 2 are you being COMPLETELY honest. not for me or anyone but you. In my opinion to have more confidence you need to except who you are. all of you. To be honest with yourself and to think more positive.
I have had some really hard times that no one has ever known about and when I was going through those hard times I hated myself and who I was. I thought I was ugly, totally stupid (which I still think) just a complete freak. I started thinking that if I wasn't good enough for myself than how am I ever going to be liked? I started out with the one thing that I loved about myself, My smile. I know corny but I focused on that and and some how inside myself I found that it doesn't matter what other people think this is who I am and no one can change that. It made me so happy thinking that I was me someone different than everyone else and I was special.
So the moral is just take something that you love about yourself no matter what it is and just think positive and be proud of who you are and I am completly sure that you have more confidenc. Good Luck and I hope my advice was of-use.
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