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My name is Kat but you can just call me AG since thats what I'm known as here. I've been on Advicenators since about December of 2003. I give advice to the extent of my knowledge. Sometimes that can be very little but I'm honest and I'll try to help you the best I can.
If you want to ask me a question thats what the button is for that says "ask Advice~gurl a question".
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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please.
You have a right to hurt. But no matter what the mistake was to take him back the first time. He is playing you and his EX. To me it sounds like they were never over each other, When she calls he says he wants to see if it will work out. I don't think that he is a heartless guy but I think that he needs to seriously get over her because how many times will it take him to find out that they will not work. If you stand there for him each time he finds out that she is not the one your going to have one messed up heart. Right now you need to try as much as you can to get over him. I would enjoy going out with your friends and doing things that make you happy. Maybe nothing will make you happy but just try. don't stay home all the time and feel sorry for yourself (even if you REALLY want to) You have to tell yourself that you two were not meant for eachother. You may feel that he was the one but he ovbiosly is not over her and if her comes back to you BEGING you to take him back, stand your ground and say no. He has broken your heart and he has gone back to her TWICE.
Sorry for your broken heart, I hope it heals fast and you can find the right guy for yo uthat you deserve.
Don't force yourself to date right away if your not ready. just give yourself time for you heart to heal.
*Hugs*
advice~gurl
kat
(Rating: 5) thanks for all the help sweetie. it means a lot to me. *hugs back*