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I wasn't really sure where to put this, so I picked friendship, since it has to do with a friend.

Okay, so it's indirectly about my best friend. Her name is Lisa. But it's also about her boyfriend. His name is Tyler.

So, recently, Tyler told me that he's wanted to ask me out since he first came to our school in the middle of this year. (I'm a girl, in case you people didn't already figure that out.) I've always liked him, but I never let on. But now, he knows.

So, today, I stayed after school, because I didn't want to go home and clean my room. (It's a MESS.) Well, Tyler ALWAYS stays after school. For reasons unbeknownst to me. (I hope I spelled that right.)

Well, at first, we were just sitting at the picknick table, talking. About nothing, really. Then we got onto the subject of us liking eachother. Which quickly turned into flirting.

I had a metal... Thing, I have no idea what it was... in my hand. Well, Tyler took it. I tried to get it back, wich turned into us holding hands. Which turned into a kiss... Which turned into a make-out session...

Now, Lisa is my very best friend in the whole wide world, and I'd rather do ANYTHING than hurt her... But I think I just did.

We both knew it was wrong. And it was. Now I'm wondering what I should do. Please help me. :(

Your right this is a terrible and with your BFF's BF? WOW. but this is SOOOO romantic! talking to flirting to holding hands to a kiss to making out?
Anyways back to the question.
Well I think that you should REALLY tell your BFF and tell quick before someone tells her first. Before you tell her though you need to talk with tyler to know what is going to happen. Like if Lisa breaks up with him where is it going to put you and him. And like was it nothing or was it something,(it sounds to me its WAY more that just something.) If it is more than just something you and tyler need to know you how you can avoid this again.

With your friend Lisa.... You already hurt her and it happened and there is no going back.
So I think you need to be COMPLETELY honest with Lisa and tell her that you and tyler talked and tell her everything that you to said to eachother.
This is a total mess and I wish I could help you more than just sitting here typing words.
Just remember these things happen for a reason and they happen and you can't stop them sometimes. Remember this quote "You'll regret what you may do now, but you'll regret what you don't do so much more"

I REALLY REALLY hoped I helped
sncerely
advice~gurl
kat

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