My boyfriend is shy and he is afraid to talk to me. When he comes over and he'll say hey and thats about it. He is like afraid to talk to me. He always says online hey i'm really shy and i can't ever think of anything to say. And I say something like omg its just me. and he'll say just you?!? He's like afraid to talk to me in person but will on the phone and online. any advice
Are you his first girlfriend? If so, then the only reason that I can think of that explains why he is shy and afraid to talk to you is that he doesn't want to say something that will make you think of him differently. He will change, you just need to wait. You could always ask him why it seems that he is afraid to talk to you in person, rather than online and on the phone, and he should tell you. Do you spend a lot of time with him? If you don't, then start hanging out with him more so he can get used to having a relationship with you and that should help.
-Karen
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I like this guy. ill call him "carl". and i already went out with him but people told me that he cheated on me so i broke up with him. and after that i got really sad cuz i still loved him. so i called him a week later and we talked for an hour. and we became friends again which made me happy. then he asked my friend if he should ask me back out and she said yes so i thought he was gonna. then one of my friends told me she likes "carl". so i got really sad. then he asked her out and now they are going out. but she told me before he asked her out that they made out a little. i was gonna cry. and i REALLY REALLY want him back. what should i do? i rate good
You definitely need to tell "Carl" that you still have feelings for him and that you made a big mistake of believing that he did cheat on you without asking him about it. Your friend that went behind your back and starting liking "Carl" isn't a good friend at all and you don't deserve a friend like that. "Carl" probably does still like you or has feelings for you because if he asked your friend if he should ask you back out, then that tells you he does have feelings for you. Talk to "Carl", tell him how you feel, and there is a chance that you two could get back together. Forget about your friend who went out with him because what she did was wrong.
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hi, i have 3 brothers and one sister, ages 2-9, im not sure how old they are lol, but seee my problem is that i babysit when i get home which is about 4, and i babysit them to about 11:30 or twelve, and we cant hire a babysitter to help. they all have a disorder which makes them hyper..all the time, i can never settle them down, one kids in the kitchen with the hose (im serious).. another is calling 911, ..and another is making extreme bubbles in the bathtub thats overflowing!! i cant control them and i feel hopeless!!!! i keep on getting such bad grades because i dont have time to do my homework. i spend most of the day cleaning up the house that they messed while im at school, and the other half trying to get them to bed. its so hard..i live with my older brother because i dont we dont live with our parents and theres no way to contact them..long story. so what im trying to ask is for suggestions on what i should do (and i dont mean like tv..or coloring.. because thats impossible. and i have no friends to help me..but i dont want any) so thank you for any suggestions at alL!! ***sorry for making this ques so long!*** thanks. -AlExA
Wow, I am so sorry that you have to be put up with this. I cannot think of anything that could help you out with this at all. It would be different if your siblings didn't have a disorder. The only thing I can think of is that you should really call someone that you know such as a relative and they can help you out. I suggest that you ask someone else this question that has experience with children such as MFS. You can click this and ask him a question: http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=MFS. I'm sorry that I couldn't help you out and good luck with everything. MFS will definitely help you out and please ask him about this.
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My friend recently got an advicenators account. The problem is she put spaces in her name. Now I am unable to see her column because the spaces messed up her URL. Is there anyway I can see her column? Thank you.
If you want to see her column, enter her column name where it says NAME, with the spaces in this link: http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=NAME and put %20 where the spaces would go and that will let you see her column.
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What is that song.. like "i will remember you, will you remember me?" whats the name of it and who sings it?
That song is "I Will Remember You" by Sarah Mclachlan. It's such a great song and it's one of my favorites.
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What can you use to get rid of stretch marks/ and or scars? Thanks in advance!
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To get rid of stretch marks, you can use cocoa butter or Vitamin E cream and just rub it over your stretch marks and they will eventually fade. To get rid of scars, you can buy and use a scar remover over the counter and that will get rid of your scars.
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I'm on my peroid, and it's suddenly (within the last two days) become very, very painful to pee.
It's fine until I have to stop peeing, at which it feels like everything is pinched down there. I thought it might just be something because I'm using regular flow tampons right now, instead of just light, however when I try to pee even without a tampon it's still painful.
I know I don't have an STD--I'm a total virgin, and I don't have any other symptoms of any other common infections, such as a yeast or bacterial infection.
Does anyone know why I could suddenly be having so much pain? I'd appericate it.
If it hurts to urinate or if you get a painful sensation after you urinate, then you probably have a bladder infection. Bladder infections are easy to treat and since you've been having this for more than 24 hours, you really need to go see a doctor because this can lead to more, serious problems. Every female usually gets a bladder infection in their life. Check out this link for more information: http://my.webmd.com/content/article/65/72614.
This is probably caused by a reaction to the brand or type of the tampons that you are using.
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there is this kid who sits next to me he is really annoying and ugly and has a staring problem...hes lookin at me right now while im typing this and he wont leave me alone what should i do?
You need to tell him that you aren't interested in him and that you want him to leave you alone. If that doesn't help, then just simply ignore him. Once he gets the idea that you don't care about him, he'll stop. Or you can just tell your teacher about this boy and she can take care of this.
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Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do?
If your boyfriend promised he wouldn't go for her, then you should trust him, since he's your boyfriend and just ignore this girl who is trying to take him away from you.
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Ok, so on my computer I am trying to get a background on my home screen of a picture of Tyler HIlton. I copy a picture from the web, save it, then go onto Paint. When I get to paint and try to set it as a background, it tells me to save the file. I try saving it, (again) but it wont let me save it so I cant get the picture as a background. Any help would be awesome, because its kinda confusing. Thank alot
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Did you save the picture in the right file? When that message comes up for me, I save my picture to the "My Pictures" file under "24-bit Bitmap" and then I go to my desktop, right click on the screen, and then I go to "Properties", then to the "Background" tab, and the name of that picture is in the list of all my other backgrounds/wall papers. When I do that, it works for me. Or I just click "Set as Wallpaper (tiled)" and that works too.
Or in your picture file, you can double click on that Tyler Hilton picture. It will then open up in an Internet Explorer window and if you right click on the picture, you click on "Set as Background" and that should work.
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Is it true that chewing bubble-gum will help your ears to pop?
Yes, chewing gum will help your ears to pop. That's why most people chew gum when they are on a plane.
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Does anyone know what I could use to clean my laptop screen without damaging it?
You can use Windex or any screen/glass cleaner and it won't damage your laptop.
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does anyone have an idea for a hair style? like a magazine i can find one or web site or actual hair style suggestions?
i need to know and fast!
plz & thank you
Cosmopolitan and Cosmo Girl have a lot of ideas for hairstyles. To find ideas on websites, you can check out: http://www.matrix.com/find_your_hair_style, http://www.thehairstyler.com, http://www.2hairstyles.com, and http://beauty.ivillage.com.
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Okey, so my parents are real strict about my grades, and all year i had a C in math. I need to get higher grades. worksheets? C's. Quizzes? Ds. Tests? F's. I need to learn how to study!! dont tell me to sit there and read, because it isnt my type, and i cant stand still. please help me i need a B!!
-N
There are so many other ways to study by not sitting and reading your math book. Try studying with friends, make flash cards, ask your parents to quiz you, stay after school with your math teacher and he or she can help you, or you can just make up your own quiz and quiz yourself. Try to learn and study something can be hard. You should also be extra attention and take good notes in your math class and that should help.
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as stupid as it sounds, i don't care! i just need help! im 13 and have been going through puberty SLOWLY. its so annoying, but my cousin is a bit older than me and is telling me when your breasts grow while your going through puberty-they hurt! and now im noticing it! my right breast is starting to hurt and grow a little more. but my left breast isn't doing anything! im getting worried that ill look like a freak because my right breast will grow faster and not gradually with the right one! i don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about it... is this normal???
-issues
Yes, this is normal. Your breasts will eventually even out and just because your right breast is growing faster, it doesn't mean that your left one stopped growing. You won't look like a freak at all because no one is even going to notice the size of your breasts, unless someone stares really close but if you wear a bra, then no one will. Most girls don't even have the same size breasts at a point so don't worry.
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Ever Since I started exerscising (about once a day for half an hour) I get really bad stomach aches in the afternoon. But only in the afternoon. I dont know why and this didnt happen before that.
Do you eat before you exercise? If you do, then this is why you are getting these bad stomach aches. Or your exercising is starting to take affect and is causing your stomach to hurt. Drinking water while you exercise will help you not to have cramps and such so try that. Your stomach aches should go away, once you get used to exercising. This happened to me too and my stomach aches eventually went away.
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My friends think that i have an eating disorder which i sort of did. i had thrown up once and tried many times because i felt guilty bout what i ate for instance chocolate cake or candy bar i only did it once but not again cuz its too nasty. I also tried starving myself but almost passed out. I realize those were wrong so now im dieting healthy. Im 14 5,5 or 5,6 im not exactly sure and i weigh 110 i lost 5 pounds so far but cant seem to lose anymore. i cant try on a bikinni without bursting into tears. My friends think im crazy for goin on a diet.they say that i am skinny alrady and dont need to diet They say im too depressed and thati anave a serious problem they reely piss me off sometimes even though they are just trying to help they dont understand how it feels to look in the morror and see a million things wrong. they say that i am skinny alrady and dont need to diet. dieting is hard enough as it is without people trying to shove food down your throat (not literately). is it true that if i eat like 1000 calories a day ill lose wieght cuz the average person burns 1300 so that like a pound a week. well ne way how can i get my point across to my friends. every time i try they say you dont need to lose weight when you are a size one. i definetly dont look like a size one exspecialy not when i wear a bikinni. This is so fucking stupid y dont i just kill myslef and then i wont have to worry bout ne thing! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS!
I'm definitely not going to delete this because you are probably the only girl out there that I can relate to and I can probably help you out.
We're basically alike. I'm 14 years old, I'm 5'5 1/4, and I weigh 110 pounds. Isn't that a coincidence? I used to not feel comfortable about my body and before I started the 8th grade, the summer of 2004, I tried losing weight. I didn't starve myself, I just ate once a day with a meal that was really small. Yes, I know that's bad but every girl out there hates their body at some point of their life. I was originally 117 pounds and it only took me 3 days to lose 7 pounds, since I barely ate anything. I stopped eating once and started eating healthy and exercising. My friends would always tell me I was skinny and they were just like your friends. People complimented me on my "weight loss" and more guys started noticing me and that made me realize that I'm okay with my body and I shouldn't hurt myself anymore. A few teachers and adults that I was anorexic because I looked so scrawny; you could see my bones and you could take your hand and put it around my whole wrist. Rumors were spread about me that I was anorexic and I stopped them by showing people that I do eat.
I'll stop with my story but I just wanted you to see that I have gone what you are going through right now.
Sweetie, you don't need to diet to lose more weight. You are underweight by 20 pounds, since I weigh the same as you and that's how much I am underweight. I have never heard that eating 1000 calories a day will make you lose weight but if you start eating 500 calories less in a day for a few weeks, then you will lose weight. You really just need to eat healthy and you will lose weight by doing that.
I felt self-conscience about the way I looked in a bikini because my hip bones would stick out and I hated that. Why don't you start exercising? Do some cardio exercises such as running, jogging, running in place, jump roping, etc. Go to your local YMCA and do laps in their pool or go to their workout room and run on a treadmill for 30 minutes.
Once you feel comfortable about the way you look, then your friends will stop nagging on you. You didn't even have an eating disorder in the first place but you were on the path of developing one. Since you're dieting in a healthy way, you should probably schedule an appointment with a nutritionist and he or she will give you some foods to eat and basically a diet that you can go on. Some day, you will feel good, don't worry.
You don't need to be a size one, heck, I'm a size 2 in women's or a 3 in juniors and guys have mentioned to me that I'm too skinny. Being really skinny is a bad thing and since most guys hate it when girls are too skinny, take that in consideration.
Just eat healthy, watch how much you eat, and exercise daily.
My answer is probably out of the line but if you actually read it, you'll understand somehow because I would if you gave me this answer.
-Karen
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okay well i just wrote a question about going on a diet togain weight since im only 100 pounds... well i was jw... but do guys prefer girls that are skinny... or girls of average weight??
When it comes to a girl's body, most guys prefer a girl that is average weight. Someone who isn't too big and someone who isn't too scrawny and boney. There are some guys who prefer skinny girls but if a skinny girl has not fat at all, then guys don't like that. All guys prefer different things so it just depends on them.
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its easy for me to flir with guys that i know llike me. but when it comes to just random guys and guys at school it harder because i dont kow what they r thinking and i dont know what to do?
That's how I am when it comes to flirting too so you aren't the only one. Yes, us girls don't know what guys think and it would be a miracle if someone did. Flirting is a natural thing that everyone has; it's just some people don't show it. You just need to tell yourself that these guys are just like guys that like you and this will help you flirt with them better. That's what I do and it helps and it should work for you.
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Hi, I'm going on a vaction in 3 weeks and I was woundering if you could loose 15 pounds in that short amount of time. If so can you please tell me what exercises to do.
If you actually go on a low carb diet, you can lose about 15 pounds in 3 weeks. You could lose 15 pounds without going on a diet of some sort but then again, you might not, since everyone loses weight differently but it's possible. To lose your goal of 15 pounds, you can do cardio exercises such as running, jogging, running in place, jump roping, and other exercises that get your heart pumped up and such. You didn't mention parts of your body that you need to tone so just check out http://www.toneteen.com for exercises that tone certain parts of your body.
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