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Hey, I'm Elana... I'm 15 years old and I love to help people.. I know I know, everyone says that on this site, but I can be pretty good at giving advice sometimes. I'm into lots of sports, tennis, softball, and my new thing... Track, haha... I also dance, play piano (obviously) my saxophone (love it) and go online... A LOT! lol Random stuff about me: I'm 5'1 and a 1/2".. I LOVE music..favorite bands are: switchfoot, green day, rooney, foo fighters, stone temple pilots, and any jazz music, my friends and family mean so much to me, things don't always go the way I want them to..(when does it ever work like that?) bowling rocks my world!! haha even if I suck! :) I'm extremely energetic and bouncy as my friends know, and I like to laugh, at anything...
If you need any advice at all just drop a question for me or IM me and I'll try to answer as best I can... thanks!
~Lana
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my friend is really nice to me when she its just me and her but if she is with another friend she is such a butthead to me and i get mad at her all the time and stuff but then we havce a fun time or we talk o0n the phone and we r friends again like all my friends are friends with her so it sucks and now im mad at her again wut shuld i do ?
Definitely talk to your friend... For awhile 2 friends of mine were having this same problem... Does she say mean stuff to you when you're with people? It might mean that she just has a low self-esteem and actually is jealous of you, but doesn't want other people to think you're better than her. So she points out all your flaws... I would try to keep from getting mad at her and just find out whats going on. Maybe she's having a rough time at home. Oh and when you guys do have a good time together, treasure the moment and remember it when you're mad at her another time. It'll make you think about why your friends in the first place :-D
Hope I helped, let me know how it goes!
~Lana
Hi see I found this really cute guy on the net but he lives far away, and he said he likes me and that we should meet sometime. but see he asked if we could date online, but I don't know bc he might be cheating on me
What do i do , Answer fast so I could give him the answer!!!
I would say definitely do not online date... Talk to him more and become friends but online dating isn't real. Also be aware that this guy might have sent you some fake picture and is really a 56 year old perv. My friend became close to this one guy who told her he was 16 and he turned out to be 33! So be careful and if this guy wants to meet you say NO! On the upside... I could be completely wrong, but watch out for yourself and just stay friends...
Hope I helped!
~Lana
I'm confused. See, i like this boy named.....S. I think he likes me too cuz he flirts wit me alot, and i kissed him b4. But then my best friend.... M, cums out of nowhere, saying everything S sed to me was a lie. Thats totally impossible, rite? I asked her how does she know all this, she sed she cant tell me. I dont know wat do to. Who's the one that betrayed me? Its just IMPOSSIBLE for eveything to be a lie, but then again she IS my b.e.s.t f.r.i.e.n.d. She wudnt lie to me, wud she? Alotta people who know her better then i do warned me about her, but i didnt listen. So who do i believe??
Wow.. this is tough. I know you want to trust both people but obviously one of them is lying. First of all: who told you the stuff about your best friend being a liar? was it someone who has something against her? maybe they're the one's lying...
BUT... your friend could be just saying this stuff to get you to not like "S" anymore so she can get with him. Personally I would just ask "S" if he likes you or not... then you'd know for sure what this was all about. But if your too shy have another one of your friends ask him, someone you can trust. Maybe your friend had a misunderstanding from her "source"
Hope I helped!
~Lana
I'm 14 and me and my friend kristina have been friends for like ever! since like kindergarten.. Well she got really serious with her ex boyfriend. They're like made for each other.. Well they broke up and were seeing other people for a while.. She got involved with this kid jason and he's totally obsessive! Well they broke up and she got back w/ the first guy.. Now jason won't leave her alone.. If you have any ways she can tell jason to leave her alone that she's with the one she loves completley could you tell me.. I was kinda lost when she told me about this
This can be a real problem... Try having her talk to Jason and tell him the old "I just want to be friends" thing... I know a lot of times people hate this, but if he really likes her maybe he'll understand that she's happier now with the other guy. If he becomes serious though, into a creepy stalker type guy, she should really talk to a trusted adult. Someone who will look out for her well being... No one should be bothered or harassed by someone they don't want to be with.
Hope I helped!
~Lana