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CONFUSED
I'm confused. See, i like this boy named.....S. I think he likes me too cuz he flirts wit me alot, and i kissed him b4. But then my best friend.... M, cums out of nowhere, saying everything S sed to me was a lie. Thats totally impossible, rite? I asked her how does she know all this, she sed she cant tell me. I dont know wat do to. Who's the one that betrayed me? Its just IMPOSSIBLE for eveything to be a lie, but then again she IS my b.e.s.t f.r.i.e.n.d. She wudnt lie to me, wud she? Alotta people who know her better then i do warned me about her, but i didnt listen. So who do i believe??
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Wow.. this is tough. I know you want to trust both people but obviously one of them is lying. First of all: who told you the stuff about your best friend being a liar? was it someone who has something against her? maybe they're the one's lying...
BUT... your friend could be just saying this stuff to get you to not like "S" anymore so she can get with him. Personally I would just ask "S" if he likes you or not... then you'd know for sure what this was all about. But if your too shy have another one of your friends ask him, someone you can trust. Maybe your friend had a misunderstanding from her "source"
Hope I helped!
~Lana
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Well there are reasons to not believe them both. Your "best friend" might be trying to get you not to like him because SHE likes him. She could just be lying and making stuff up- that's maybe why people warned you about her. But S could be making it up too. Maybe he's just nervous so he didn't know what to say. You still have to remember that your best friend is your best friend, and you shouldn't get mad over a guy. BUT, would this guy really say all this stuff and not mean it instead of being honest with you? Talk to S about it first, and, depending on what he says, talk to M. Hope we helped! Let us know how it goes!
.:*Em&xTina*:.
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OK! It really depends... Do you think a guy is better than a best friend? GUYS ARE MYSTERIOUS AND THEY ALSO HAVE A HIGH LEVEL OF HORMONES! SO THEY CAN KISS A GIRL FOR THE FUN OF IT! You could just straight up ask the guy if he likes you or not! Think about your options... BOYFRIEND (WHO WILL EVENTUALLY DUMP YOU) OR BEST FRIEND (WHO WILL ALWAYS BE THERE 4 YOU)??
Signed,
xxAdviceGirlxx
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Look into it a little bit more. Listen to him when he thinks your not around. Is he using you?
And could it might be that your bestest friend is REALLY jealous. Because if shes lying to you shes not your best friend
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i think you should at least come up with some fake names instead of letters...just a suggestion.
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I want to commend you foR actually getting to know heR, fiRst of all, and not just taking otheR people's "waRnings". I hope to DeaR God youR fRiend wouldn't be lying to you, but it wouldn't huRt to find out. Since she's alReady she said won't tell you how she knows "S" is lying.. go stRaight *TO* him!! If you want the facts.. go the to souRce, and no one would know betteR than him. Tell him eveRything you been told, and question him on it. I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D
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Tough situation. She might not be lying to you, maybe she really knows something but then on the other hand maybe she has like him and is now just jealous. You need to talk to one of them and find out the real truth.
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