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Image and video hosting by TinyPic" align=left hspace=10> hey my name is karen and i live in miami florida... im 17 and go to miami killian senior high.. anything you need help with ask me!! im great at answering questions about friends, cleaning, and relationships.

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im starting 8th grade soon and im sooo stressed. i have to get all a's as always...i have to get into this privite school next year which means i have to apply and do well this year. i also have to do ballet..pointe..guitar..the play..and more..how do i take the stress off?

i know it sucks but you might have to quit something. you gotta have fun. your starting 8th grade. alot of ppl get stressed out for different things then that but they just make themselves stressed out like what they need to wear to field day or something. lol. well if you dont think you can quit something try and write down a scedule to schedule all your time. make sure to fit fun somewhere in there.

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when you look under "columnists" .. how do you get those stars next to your name?

you can get those stars by giving good advice... ppl have to rate you tho. it might take time but it really doesnt matter as long as you help somebody. that attitude gets good ratings. lol. good luck and have fun with your advice column.

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uhh yeah.. i have another question...how can u tell if your best friend really wants to hang out with you or talk to you? Lately, my friend has been kinda acting like i don't matter to her at all. She doesn't really talk to me, and she always puts stuff in her away message like.."jenn, nathin, and alli in a chat room, what could be better?" and it gets me mad...it seems like she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore or sumthin....i... i need help.. im confused

that happens to me too and i think it happens to alot of ppl. it sucks but the way i think of it is theirs no such thing as a best friend forever. it goes on and off. sometimes they need some time apart {{i kno i did}} well it might be hard to think that your best friend isnt always gunna be your best friend. but sometimes they need space and deside to not talk that much for a while... it sucks so much and sorry if im not making sense... i hope i am tho. its just ive been on both sides of that and i dk.

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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me

you can get pregnant when ever. as long as you had it already. i wouldnt try it. theres alot of risks. your too young... if you dont know that already. i wouldnt try it at your age. emagine having to tell your mom ur pregnant... think about it really hard and do what ever feels right. just remember you can get pregnant no matter what its not 100% if you use a condom or if you do it at a certain time witch w/e time you do it theres like a 75% chance... i think. well, think about what everybody tells you and see what seems right to you.

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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me



*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~*

i dk y you put it under sex questions but... um its kinda like you desperate for attention from guys and thats really not right... well a good way to sho guys you wear thongs... if you really want them to know that you do... but w/e. wear a pair of cute brazillian jeans. if their not dumb they'll know that you are. its not like they needa know what color thong your wearing.

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okay i love my boyfriend like sooo much and i know he loves me too...but he gets these mood swings where one day he acts like he cant live without me and the next day he acts like im just another bump in the road...what should i do? thanx so much~!
>*BaiLeY*>

it seems and sounds like he doesnt care. if you love him and everything stay with him... but realize you can get hurt.

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theres this guy that wants to go out with me...i havent said yes or no yet. i sit right next to him in one of my classes too and ive talked to him and stuff b4 but hes not like a good guy friend of mine or n e thing and idk if i even really like him. and i sorta like this other guy and want to find out if he likes me and if so wants to go out..would it be mean of me to do that??

if he's any kind of guy friend to you then i think it would... it might be hard to take that to consideration but it would suck to hurt his feelings and you never know if youd wanna go bak and go out with him and not going out with him now might mean that it was your last and only chance. he sounds like a really great guy {{the one that likes you}} if the guy that you guy doesnt like you and you turn this guy down you might regret it... think about what your doing.

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How do I delete a question from my advice column once I have answered it?

you can but they wont ever show up again. you did answer it... but if you try and delete it from your advice column the person really does get the advice. if you wunna delete it... go to edit answers and find the question you wunna delete {{and never see again}} and highlight the answer and backspace and press edit answer.

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whenever i use a tampon or take it out theres this extra skin.. its not like u can pull it off its thick.. n i dont kno what it is and im worried.. i dont wanna go see a doctor tho! Help me i rate high!

i think your talking about big blobs of blood... its not skin if thats what it looks like. well talk to your mom if its sumthing different from what i said. it might be hard... i kno it might suck to but if you really wunna kno maybe thats the best thing to do. {{if what i said first sucks}} lol. good luck and do it soon. it sucks having to think about what to do everyday till you get it over with. get it over with as soon as you can so you can go on with life.

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Does any one here like the sims?? if so please tell me some cheats.

rosebud;;;;;; and hold enter for like forever and you can have as much money as you want. you dont have to get all the money that you think you need all at once you get some after you press enter as long as you can.

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Hey. I'm friend with a lot of guys in skool. they hate ehrn im not around. all they do is talk to me and stuff. i dont like any of them but, im a girl. should i hang out wit otha girl or stay friends wit the boyz?

its good to have both girl and guy friends. girl friends are friends are for talking about the stuff you cant talk to guys about and you never know when you need help practicing makeing out with a guy or sumthing or you want a guy friend with benefits for some reason.

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wat types of things that guys do are concidered cute or sweet by girls?

wut i think its really cute or sweet... well i think it would be really nice that every time a guy seez me he says hi and tellz me sumthing looks nice on me every once in a while but not everytime he says hi or i see him {{lol}} and maybe even giving me a call. trying to be really good friends with me is something i think is really cute and really sweet because thats really how relationships start. dont end it ever. if u decide to do all this and be friends etc. dont turn ur bak and act the same you are now. a guy did that to me recently and its breaking my heart. we only got to be maybe friends... not really close... but i guess close enough to hurt me. dont break any hearts while trying to win sumonez heart.

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I have this friend and i love her sooo much but shes really attached 2 me...i dont wait to go up to her and tell her but i still wanan b r friend but i just dont want her everywhere i go...what should i do?

alot of ppl have that problem it sucks for you and your friend. remember that it sucks for both of you so put urself in her place and take it from there. i dont wunna tell you what to do cause i wouldnt know where to start cuz i dont know ur friend.

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my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean??

ppl tell mii thats from not getting enough sleep. if you havent been getting alot of sleep lately then thats prolly it. i think it only happens if you dont always get enough sleep. id put a heart xogiggles37xo but they dont let me do that any more. lol. hope everything ends up working out for you.

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

if your not comfortable going out with him {{meaning that your not gunna like ppl laughing at you}} then dont. alot of ppl have that problem... that they dont feel right going out with a nerd. you might regret it later tho... lol. he might end up being a sexy beast that you cant stop thinking about and him not wanting to go out with you after his change. lol. but take the road that ur more comfortable with. if you make that mistake... its ok. no1z perfect. making mistakes is part of life.

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hey i like my 2nd best friend hes also my best friends ex b/f should i like him or should i froget about him she says its ok but is she really ok with it

rating your best friends is the worst thing you can ever do. it hurts their feelings. i hope you never tell them that you rate them. it can hurt them forever and i dk what grade your in but thats something you shouldve learned already. im trying to help you out with this because it can be trouble in the future for you and your best friends. well also i dont think you should go out with your best friends ex even if she says its ok. most likely its not. hope i helped and hope you take my advice about rating your friends. it took me a whole year... maybe to forgive the person that did that to me. im still not sure if i forgive her. but i know ill never forget that she did that to me.

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my friend is cuttin her wrist and stuff wat should i do to help her?

theres this method ppl use to try and stop. its where they have rubberbands on their rist at all times. when they feel like they need to cut they pull on the rubberbands instead of cutting. make sure even if you dont try and use this method for your friend that somehow you get her some help.

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What do you technically need to do you get abs?? (im a girl)

go to the gym alot. alot of my friends are cheerleaders... although sumtimes i hate to admit it... lol. but i still love em... well at least one of em works out at the gym or used to and had abs!! try doing the ab work outs and such.

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I have really thick hair and i can wear it down there is only one way i can... if i hairspray it when its wet. other than that it poofs out. and if i sraighten it then it looks bad. i am alsoo constantly pukking it back into a pony tail. what are some cute ways i can wear my hair that it isnt too much of a hassle?

pig tails are cute but theres a certain way to make em cute... make sure you think it looks cute b4 u go out in pig tails. and a french braid, or just a regular braid. also maybe you can go to the saloon and ask the person to do ur hair so you can have it down and if you like it as her/him how they did it.

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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!

its ok it happens that just means your not interested in any1. {{that you dont think anyone you kno is cute}} that happens all the time. when you go shopping look around the store or the mall for any cute guys and maybe if u do find a guy you likea t publix or whatever you can tell ur friends about that.

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