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My Friend
I have this friend and i love her sooo much but shes really attached 2 me...i dont wait to go up to her and tell her but i still wanan b r friend but i just dont want her everywhere i go...what should i do?
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Maybe she's like this because u've been an awesome friend to her and she doesnt want to lose you. I dont realy know..but just try to understand her side of it and dont be cruel because if shes realy attaches she'll take it personally.
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alot of ppl have that problem it sucks for you and your friend. remember that it sucks for both of you so put urself in her place and take it from there. i dont wunna tell you what to do cause i wouldnt know where to start cuz i dont know ur friend.
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Just tell her straight out that shes too attached to you
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i have a friend just like that .. that i can never seem to get away from and i havent really found a way either to get her to kind of backoff. i think the only thing to do is to tell her how you feel and tell her just sometimes you need a break
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just be real with her tell her strait out.......
i know you dont want to hurt her feelings but it the only way!! lol
xoxox crystal
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tell ur friend u need some bubble space ...tell her that she needs to go out and meet other friends!! tell her you r still good friends and will continue 2 b ..but it's just that u need space!!
<3 .*.BeSs.*. <3
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hey there...i had the same exact problem a few days ago...it was really hard because this was my best friend..but umm ok here's what i did- i came right out and said i need to talk to you because we're best friends and i want to be fully honest with you and i hope you take this the right way...i'm not coming at you from an attacking kind of way..i'm trying to show you how i feel...so i told her that we have to have our own separate lives and do seperate things that don't always include each other because we are two different people and we need to live two different lives soemtimes...it would only help us grow as people and as friends and therefore would make the friendship stronger if we weren't always together.... let her know how you feel- be calm and she should understand...she may be hurt but it will clear and she will understand..it worked for me and we have a better friendship now :D hope i helped, let me know
good luck! <3 elle
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i have a friend like that and its kinda anoying but if shes ur friend then u should try to just except her for who she is cuz its just part of her personality.just make plans with other friends and stuff and tell her that u have plans wenever she wants to hang out with you.but if u feel like chillin with her that day than dont make plans with other ppl.HOPE I HELPED.good luck
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