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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.
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Ive got quite a tricky situation on my hands. My girlfriend (15) emailed me (15) and told me her parents were trying to get her out of their house and that she might have to move in with her best friend. The problem is her best friend is a dude. An eighteen year old dude that could easily take advantage of her. Now logic tells me I should be upset, but on the other hand I trust in her. Then I'm also worrying because the guy she's moving in with supposedly has a "sexual addiction". In my favor, however, he has a girlfriend. Do you think I should be upset or just trust that she wouldnt engage in anything with him? It's really gnawing at me.
It has nothing to do with whether or not you trust HER. You need to be able to trust HIM. Which, obviously won't be very easy. If I were you, I'd have a talk with him. Let him know that you are iffy about your girlfriend moving in with him. Ask him if you're going to be able to trust him around your girlfriend. Honestly, if I were in your position, I'd be very pissed off and VERY against it. He's an 18 year old DUDE that has (or from what it sounds like you're saying) a place of his own. He's a sex addict... Hmm. To me that just doesn't work. You might want to have a talk with BOTH of them, let her know you aren't 100% comfortable with her moving in with him, tell her what's on your mind. Also, tell HIM what's on your mind. If you trust her enough, you know that she won't be the one to start anything. But, you should know that at any given time, he may make a pass at her.
Best of luck to you and yours.
Just curious, can birth control pills give you cancer? My mom keeps telling me its true and I actually think that they prevent cancer...
It seems as though everything these days can give you cancer.. But I checked on google and I pulled this from this website:
http://www.4woman.gov/faq/birthcont.htm
"Oral Contraceptives – Also called “the pill,” contains the hormones estrogen and progestin and is available in different hormone dosages. A pill is taken daily to block the release of eggs from the ovaries. Oral contraceptives lighten the flow of your period and can reduce the risk of pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), ovarian cancer, benign ovarian cysts, endometrial cancer, and iron deficiency anemia. It does not protect against STDs or HIV. The pill may add to your risk of heart disease, including high blood pressure, blood clots, and blockage of the arteries, especially if you smoke. If you are over age 35 and smoke, or have a history of blood clots or breast, liver, or endometrial cancer, your doctor may advise you not to take the pill. The pill is 95 to 99.9% effective at preventing pregnancy. Some antibiotics may reduce the effectiveness of the pill in some women. Talk to your doctor or nurse about a back-up method of birth control if she or he prescribes antibiotics."
I just got out of a relationship w/ a guy that I didn't talk to much before we started dating. He was a fun guy and I asked him to a dance and we got closer from there. Well, we broke up over a month ago, and he hasn't said anything to me at all really. He's smiled at me, but it's rare. I do want to keep a friendship with him even though he broke up with me. Should I talk to him first, or should I be patient and let it come...or tell him I miss talking to him? What would you do?
It's all about what you'd be more comfortable doing. I would personally walk up to him and ask him how he's been and how school has been going. Be like "I haven't talked to you in a while! How have you been?" That kind of deal. You could tell him that you miss talking to him.. If YOU would be comfortable saying that.
Just start up a conversation. Talk about projects you have in the same class and ask him how he's doing in that class. It's just small talk. Take baby steps. You'll get there. It's only been a month, so don't feel shot down if he doesn't want to talk to you.
what does swat stand for or what does it mean or what
Special Weapons And Tactics. Somethin like that.
OR
Super Wonderful American Turds =) (Just kiddin I felt like coming up with somethin random =D please humor me..)
Im having trouble making my BIO. What is the code for:
* spacing inbetween lines?
* making font bold
* underlineing font
(ex.) * heart - ♥
please ... lol Im just new to this whole site!
Some HTML codes don't work.
Spacing without *
or Without *
Bold TEXT without *
Underline TEXT
ok for health i have to do an essay on 5 reasons why americans on average are not phisically fit.
i am just drawing a blank about what to write about
please help asap!!
i rate.
2 words: Fast. Food.
One word: Laziness.
Also there is depression
Health problems (thyroid problems, etc).
You just need to come up with another reason.
Talk about the fast food and how it's SO GOOD that everyone has to eat it. How all American's (or most) are lazy. The different health problems that will prevent you from losing weight, or make you gain it.
Does anyone know what a g-string is?
I know that it's a thong, but what kind of thong? My friends make it sound so dirty...
You know what a V string is right? Where the back of it looks like a V or a triangle.. A G string is very skimpy and it's shaped like a T in the back.
As seen here: http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=SH-174261&cgname=OSKEYPTYZZZ&rfnbr=2692
They call it a V string here, but it's not.
hey i have to read 2 books by january 9. one i have already read, and the other i havent! and i dont have the book either. its about 160 pages, and i went to the bookstore today and theyre out of copies for the book. tomorrow im going to 2 different libraries to check, but im afraid that there wont be anymore. what do i do if there arent any copies of the book i need??
PS: if i order it online, it takes 7 days to arrive
You lucky mother trucker! I start on the 3rd!
Anyway, if you have your teacher's school email address you can email him/her and tell them your situation.
Most sites you can choose to have a rush delievery and it will show up in 1-2 days.
I wouldn't freak out just yet. You still have those two libraries to go to. They should have it.
Also, you can ask your friends or other classmates if they have finished the book yet and borror it from them.
Best of luck to you.
whats..
WAY TO FAT!
FAT.
normal.
a little under normal.
skinny
to skinny
Your question is a bit broad.. So it's hard to answer.
It depends on the person's height and weight. If you go to an online BMI (body mass index) calculator, it tells you what's underweight, normal, and obese.
http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm
http://www.halls.md/body-mass-index/bmi.htm
I tryed to put my picture on my advice column, and it said it was to big. I went to pant, but had no idea what i was doing. How can i resize my picture, in an easy way?
thank you!!
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When you paste it in paint press Ctrl + W. Type 50 into Stretch: Horizontal and Stretch: Vertical. Save it. If it's still too big, then do the same thing but type in 75 and it will make it a little smaller.
On myspace i cant figure out how to have my site so were EVERY BODY can see it. Its on private and i dont want it to be. So were do i go to get it off private? Thanks I rate all 5s to every body is trys to answer!
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If you are under 16, myspace will automatically make your page private. If you go and change your age: Edit Profile; Basic info. And change it so that you were born in 1989 you will have your age changed to 16.
I always wondered how long does sex usually last. like i always thought it was a while but on tv they are done in like 5 min. i mean i know everyone is dif. but what is your average or whatever?
There is never a time limit on sex. It's whenever you feel like stopping or whenever one or both the people orgasm.
It can be anywhere between 3 minutes to 3 hours.
is it true that if you get fucked in the ass there is less of a chance of gettin pregnant./ (wit a condom)
It's impossible to get pregnant by being "fucked in the ass". Your anus has nothing to do with your reproductive system, therefore you cannot get pregnant.
However you have a much greater risk of contracting an STD.
I'm 15 and i have had my period since i was in the 5th grade so i know a lot about it. I recently got my period and when i would change my pad i would notice like these what look like leashes but are bloody red...i don't know if you quite understand but its like a slimy ball thingy...is this normal? Why is this happening?
i'll rate all 5's plz help!!!!
♥nat!
You know what happens when you get your period right? Everything that comes out isn't just blood. What comes out is a 1/4 blood if not less. When a woman gets her period the lining of their uterus is being shed. Those little "slimy ball thingies" is the lining of your uterus. It's nothing to be worried about. Some days it will be more noticeable than others, and you may not even see them there for a few months.. Most women get them, if not all of them at one point or another.
i am 13 female and i think that i am lesbian. i dont want to be lesbian and i want to stop. how do i stop being lesbian? i havent make out with a girl yet but here are the things i like: 1)girls kissing. 2) "perfect" breast. 3) cute faces. and 4) hearing girls moan during sexual things. i think that the cute face and perfect breast thing is just me being insecure about myself but what about the other things? anyway how did i become lesbian in the first place? is it in my genes or something? i need help!!!!!
i rate 5"s for good answers!
You're not a lesbian. It's called HORMONES. You're 13 years old and your hormones are racing. Most of all this puberty stuff and sex stuff is new to you. It's gonna seem interesting.
You are way too young to even know if you are a lesbian or not. Some women can't even tell when they are in their 30's.
Stop assuming that you are a lesbian, because you aren't. I'm straight. When I was your age those things sorta turned me on too. It's normal, it's completely natural.
When someone is a gay or a lesbian it has NOTHING to do with their genetics. They are just born that way. It's not a mental state of mind, it's just how you are born. You can't help what you like it just happens.
Chill out chica, you're not a lesbian. It's just your hormones. I'm pretty sure all girls around your age experience similar if not the exact same things you are.
Ok, so there's this girl I used to date, like a year ago. And now she's constantly on my back, telling me stuff like she loves me (as a friend though). Thing is, i barely know her, we didn't date for that long and honestly I find her annoying. I wanna tell her to just piss off and let me be, but I can't because she seems really fragile, she had an abortion a few weeks ago too, and that doesn't help. Worst part is she even seems to like me more than friends go, even tho she has a boyfriend (the one that got her pregnant).
I've tried letting her know that she's coming on a bit strong and everything, and how she can't love me cause she barely knows me, included some nice words tho so she wouldn't be too hurt, like that she's nice, and then she drew the conclusion that i should want to see her cause I said she's nice, so she hasn't backed off.
I'm loosing my mind here and I don't know what to do. I'd be so grateful if you could help, and i'll rate. I'm 17/m, and she's 17 too, if that helps you figure it out.
Just tell her straight up that you don't have feelings for her. I really can't tell you anything other than to tell her straight up. Who gives a shit if she had an abortion? That's her fuck up, not yours. (Sorry if it sounds rude but any teenaged girl getting an abortion to me is a slut unless they were raped. It's their problem)... ANYWAY. Tell her just to leave you alone. I personally wouldn't be able to think of a nice way to put it. If someone is pissing me off I tell them that they are pissing ne off. I try not to be around the bush about it because it seems fake. Because, for the EXACT reason that you are explaining, they will come on stronger and won't back off. Just say look [insert girls name here] You're coming on wayyy too strong for me and you need to back off because you're getting on my nerves. Done. If she goes and cries.. Let her deal with it. She's a big girl, she'll be okay. If she think's she's mature enough to have sex and get herself pregnant THEN get an abortion, she'll be able to deal with someone telling her to basically fuck off.
EDIT: It doesn't matter whether she's been with him for a year, or however long. She had sex. Having sex means knowing there is a chance you WILL get pregnant. It's called PROTECT YOURSELF. She got an abortion and there is no need for one. She should have to deal with the consequenses. There is no need to kill an innocent entity because she decided to fuck up her life. If you don't want a kid, either protect yourself in any way possible or DON'T HAVE SEX AT ALL! It's fucking common sense. Sex was MEANT for reproducing. She's stupid. Don't feel bad for her because she got an abortion. That's not your problem.
Hi.
I was wondering if anybody knew the latest album titles by these artist;
Brand New
Coheed and Cambria
&& Box Car Racer.
If you can get any of them I'd highly appreciate it.
Please && thank you.
:0)
Brand New's latest is from '03- "Deja Entendu"
Coheed- Good Apollo, I'm Burning Star IV: Volume 1. From Fear Through The Eyes Of Madness
Box Car Racer's latest is from 03- "I Feel So"
I am aware that this will not get an award for brevity, but humor me.
Background info: I am someone who is known to have an incredibly individual, crazy, random style. I love uniqueness, and I hate wearing things that I know what 1 million other people are wearing. This goes for anything of the sort, whether it's a studded belt or a short little Hollister skirt- BUT this question is mostly geared towards the latter (to clarify, the clothing that the so-called "pretty people" wear).
I'm really trying to comprehend how people can like clothing like what is sold at Hollister or those type of stores. I guess it's almost humorous since I know the majority of people ask the same question about my outfits a good deal of the time- what could she possibly be thinking with that outfit? But I just don't understand...and I'm honestly trying to be as accepting of others expressions as I wish they would be of my own.
What joy do you get out of wearing these mass manufactured clothes that aren't even worth taking two looks at? They are so BORING and unoriginal and so..lacking in any creativity. Not to mention, those skirts practically show butt cheeks and things I DO NOT WANT TO SEE! EW! Between the false advertising (Feefee's stupid ass coconut shack, etc.) and the atrocious amount of skin shown, I can only wonder what America's "pretty people" are thinking and if they really are so "pretty."
Can someone please help me understand?
I can see where you are coming from. However, Hollister just so happens to be one of my favorite stores. I don't go by what is "in" or what is supposed to "look good". If I feel comfortable in it, and if it fits me right, I'll wear it.
I completely agree with the skirts. That's why I don't wear their skirts =).
You, unlike 99% of the female highschool population, seem to have a unique style and I praise you highly for that. Most people aren't willing to take those risks.
All the girls I know that wear those clothes wear it for the name. I wear it because I think they are cute and they fit me nice since I have an awkward body.
I'm not saying that Hollister is the ONLY store I shop at. I shop at these little boutiques that no one has ever heard of and that's where I get my bit of unique style from. I mix all of my clothes so that not everything I'm wearing is from the same store. I'll shop at stores from Hollister to Hot Topic, Betsy Johnson to American Eagle. And, of course, those boutiques that no one has heard of ; )
I will disagree that there is alot of skin showing for their clothing. Yes, SUMMER stuff has alot of skin showing. They have great T's, jeans long sleeved shirts and sweaters that DON'T show anything at all. It's all about what the girls choose to wear it WITH that makes it seem so slutty.
Another thing that would contribute to the sluttiness would be girls failing to choose clothes that FIT THEM. A girl can in reality be a size Medium in shirts, but then goes and buys and XS. Hence, showing the tits and chichos (fat around the stomach... Love handels)
Sorry if I was just rambling on and on.. I hope that it helped you understand a LITTLE BIT.
To sum up.... It's all about the NAME.
is there any way for boys to "finger" themselves?
Yes. The only hole for them to shove fingers in is their ass.
Does anyone know any websites that you can go to give you healthy diets, weight loss suggestions, and other things along those lines?
automatic 5's to ANYTHING that helps!
Did you try searching google?