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this girl is bugging me out
Ok, so there's this girl I used to date, like a year ago. And now she's constantly on my back, telling me stuff like she loves me (as a friend though). Thing is, i barely know her, we didn't date for that long and honestly I find her annoying. I wanna tell her to just piss off and let me be, but I can't because she seems really fragile, she had an abortion a few weeks ago too, and that doesn't help. Worst part is she even seems to like me more than friends go, even tho she has a boyfriend (the one that got her pregnant).
I've tried letting her know that she's coming on a bit strong and everything, and how she can't love me cause she barely knows me, included some nice words tho so she wouldn't be too hurt, like that she's nice, and then she drew the conclusion that i should want to see her cause I said she's nice, so she hasn't backed off.
I'm loosing my mind here and I don't know what to do. I'd be so grateful if you could help, and i'll rate. I'm 17/m, and she's 17 too, if that helps you figure it out.
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Just tell her straight up that you don't have feelings for her. I really can't tell you anything other than to tell her straight up. Who gives a shit if she had an abortion? That's her fuck up, not yours. (Sorry if it sounds rude but any teenaged girl getting an abortion to me is a slut unless they were raped. It's their problem)... ANYWAY. Tell her just to leave you alone. I personally wouldn't be able to think of a nice way to put it. If someone is pissing me off I tell them that they are pissing ne off. I try not to be around the bush about it because it seems fake. Because, for the EXACT reason that you are explaining, they will come on stronger and won't back off. Just say look [insert girls name here] You're coming on wayyy too strong for me and you need to back off because you're getting on my nerves. Done. If she goes and cries.. Let her deal with it. She's a big girl, she'll be okay. If she think's she's mature enough to have sex and get herself pregnant THEN get an abortion, she'll be able to deal with someone telling her to basically fuck off.
EDIT: It doesn't matter whether she's been with him for a year, or however long. She had sex. Having sex means knowing there is a chance you WILL get pregnant. It's called PROTECT YOURSELF. She got an abortion and there is no need for one. She should have to deal with the consequenses. There is no need to kill an innocent entity because she decided to fuck up her life. If you don't want a kid, either protect yourself in any way possible or DON'T HAVE SEX AT ALL! It's fucking common sense. Sex was MEANT for reproducing. She's stupid. Don't feel bad for her because she got an abortion. That's not your problem.
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