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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
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16/F
Okay, this is my first prom and I really didn't want to go, but that was before I had a great boyfriend and I didn't bother looking at the dresses. At first, I was like what the hell? All these dresses are kind of ugly, so for fun, I added 'lolita' to the search and I got these amazing dresses! They're gorgeous! Are there any sites out there with lolita style prom dresses?
http://cn1.kaboodle.com/hi/img/b/0/0/11d/7/AAAACzlCGhEAAAAAAR1-hA.jpg?v=1294464812000
Maybe something along those lines? Nothing too flashy, but something pretty... I dunno, I've never done this before. I also want it to be red, mostly because everyone says red is the best color on me with my dark hair and eyes.... And it's apparently my boyfriend's favorite color :)
And, I'm not all that loaded either, so anything less than 200 or 150? If not that price, I can try and work around it... I don't know, but I was just hoping someone knew some good sites with dresses like the one in the link! Thank you!
Try the website promdresshop.com
I ordered my prom dress from there and you might find something you like. The dress you posted is very busy..but if you like that style then go for it.
Have fun!
I want a nice kool
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new nick name
i want a kkol nick name lyk tiny totxD
my old nic name was nizzy
so i want a new cuz goin to a new skol.
My name strts with n
If you're going to a new school, you should probably learn how to type and spell properly :) Google would be a better help though.
Do all vaginas have a hole?
Really........?
is there such thing as saggy vaginas?
Yup, and you'll have one too when you're old :) Unless you're a guy.
My former best friend is a boy. He was the only one who could understand me. Now that we're not friends anymore, I'm confused. I'm jealous when he's with other girls, and I feel crumpled when he's laughing with others, not me. When I see him, my heart pounds and I feel happy. Do I love him or not? I'm so confused!
If you have to question it, then it is not love.
is queeping during sex normal? that kind of fart sound
Yes, it's normal and it occurs when there is air.
this site is typical right wing bunkum. people come to these sites for quick an relatively painless ways of committing suicide, not to be told "no, don't do it, u have so much to live for!!!!!!!!!!" Believe me, most of us have already thought through the alternatives, been to numerous councellors, tried antidepressants etc. these treatments just don't work for everyone. Just offer practical solutions for those who have made the moral right to choose to end their lives, or shut the hell up and stay off this forum!!!!!!!!!!!!
Are you crazy? There must be something wrong with you if you think that people on this web site will give a "solution" to how to commit suicide, you must be out of your damn mind. You need to shut the hell up and take your opinion somewhere else.
How do get bigger buttocks surgery? Can any doctor do it or do I have to go to a special doctor to make my butt bigger? How does it work?
A plastic surgeon and they put butt implants.
most of my friends have already had their first kiss but i haven't they don't make fun of me or anything but it bugs me that i have never even kissed a boy and neither has my bestest friend and we talk about that alot because we are both worried that we never will. i dont know what to do because i want a boyfriend before i kiss someone but i am almost in high school and never had a boy or my first kiss
i am 14 and a girl
You're fourteen.. it's completely normal. You will get your first kiss when the time is right. It's something you will always remember so make sure you wait for the boy you really like. The time will come..don't worry!
I'm a 14 year old chick and I have a soft spot in my heart for horror movie psychos. I absolutely adore Leatherface. This can't possibly be normal, is it?
Everyone likes different things... why wouldn't it be normal? As long as you don't attempt anything you watch in the movies, you're fine :)
my friend thinks she is really ugly and fat and worthless but she isnt she is really pretty but maybe a little over weight but she is not ugly and she said she feels this way everyday and i don't know what to do about her because every time i tell her she isnt one of those things she gets mad at me and its ruining our friendship. sometimes i think she likes all these boys and makes-out with them just to feel pretty and she always gets her heart broken after they leave her. she has lots of friends who think she is really pretty but she never listens to us i just really need help with her because i love her(as a friend) and she is one of my best friends.
p.s. she is 14 and she also cuts. i am also 14 and i am a girl.
Some girls have major self-esteem issues, and sometimes friends can't do much to help. You're being a good friend by being there for her, but honestly, some girls always make negative comments about themselves in order to get attention from other people. Tell her she's great the way she is and everyone sees it. Don't let her yell at you when you're trying to be nice, just yell at her and tell her to stop. Cutting does not resolve ANYTHING and it leaves scars. I do not see the point in that. If nothing works, your friend needs to get professional help.
I'm a fourteen year old girl who is almost a sophmore. I'm a little lost on all the technical stuff about college. I want to become a doctor, a pediatric oncologist specifically, and I dont know how to even start the progress. I'm very confused. Help?
You have plenty of time to actually decide on what you want to do and what career you want to peruse. I didn't know until I went to my college orientation. Like you, I also had something in mind but I changed my career choice. If you want to become a doctor, just stay motivated and make sure you do well in school. When you're a junior or a senior in high school, you will research what colleges would be the best options for you. You start the college process and applications when you're a senior. Don't rush it, you have plenty of time. When the time comes, you will get all of the help you need ; especially from the staff at the college you pick.
okay, so this guy... lets call him "a" wants to make out with me... in a week... i like him but i'm not sure if i want to make out with him... if i decide to go for it, how the hell do you make out with someone??
If you're not ready for your first kiss, don't do it just because "A" wants you too. You can get to know him better and hang out with him. When you start to feel comfortable around him, then do it. "Making out" isn't anything hard and there are no instructions. Everyones first experience is different, but it comes natural. You won't mess up, but just go with the flow and relax.
15F
what is the best way to prevent scars when you cut yourself?
Don't cut yourself. It's not helping you in any positive way so it's pointless. Talk to someone and get help.. you're only fifteen years old ; you have so much more to learn and experience.
If my boyfriend ask me to marry him at the age of 14 does this mean he really does love me
No, you guys are children and have no idea what marriage is.
Why does friendship hurt?
Really...?
If friendship hurts, then you need to find new friends.
if a boy ignores you but looks at you a lot what does it mean?
It can mean a lot of things... but guess he's not really ignoring you if he keeps looking?
Okay, I have had sex numerous times. And I can always tell when I'm done. But I've never actually had an orgasm. I've been close. Never did though. I've heard that it might be because of the guy, but I think it might just be me. Idk, it really bother me...
Anyone have any ideas?
A lot of girls actually have a hard time getting an orgasm, so there is nothing wrong with you. Different positions can help out. So, experiment with your boyfriend :)
can you tell me how to get my butt and boobs bigger withought getting fat???because ive been looking everywere and nothing works so can you help me??
You can't without a boob job lol.
However, you can always firm your butt my doing leg exercises.
i m ma gf induldge in oral sex on 14th feb,after dat she had nt get her periods yet,her date was 25 i m woried it 1st nw can she b pregrnant????????wht could b d reason of her nt geting periods if she is nt pregrnat????????
Your spelling is horrible, it's hard to even understand your question.
Girls can't get pregnant from oral sex. Sometimes, we get out periods a little later than our monthly "date". Even if she is pregnant, it's probably not your baby if you only did oral so chill :)