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Hi!! I am courtney and I am 13... i am here to give you advice that i hope will help you! remember that no question is too stupid and you wont be made fun of.... because i dont know who you are... *wOw* lol

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now almost 5 months but lately we've been fighting alot and i dont like it..like everyday something new to fight about comes up..we hang out like everyday so people say its because we need to hang out less..he brought up taking a "break" or time apart..im scared..=(..what should i do..and does it seem like its gonna work out in the end?
xO ManDiiE =)

you should sit down with him and talk about it.. or maybe see him every couple of days or so.. if you two still fight a lot and you don't want to be with him anymore than you should probably tell him that all the fighting is breakiing you two apart..
RaTe Me!
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hey yall! well i did a really stupid thing! i had sex with my bf without a condom. But he pulled out before he came. But when he pulled out he got cum like on the really high part of my leg and I thought i was pregnant...but now im like bleeding(its been like a week later)...does that mean im not? PLEASE PLEASE HELP MWA!

hey! pulling out is not always the plan... it can still get you pregnant.. nd you cnt get pregnant through getting cum on yer leg... :-P... but there is a chance something got in you... if you know what i mean! but give it a week er two.. and if u see any signs of pregnancy then get a home pregnancy test!
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-- well this guy i like is really sweet! he makes me laugh and its as if i fell in love w/ him in less than a month! but he is going off 2 college and he found out that he might be having a baby!? he broke up w/ me bc of it and im really mad! i guess im just bein selfish! bc tha babi should come first!..let me know wat i should do? and it i should try and help him out or just give him space?

i think you should give him space for a while.. but if he asks you for help.. then help him.. or even if he doesnt ask for help and you know he is struggling offer your help!
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I just turned 14. I'm about 5'5 and weigh about 105 lbs. I feel I am fat for some reason even though I wear extra smalls and zero's in clothing and everything. Everyone thinks I am very tiny but I don't see myself that way. Because I feel I am fat I try to do 200 crunches a day along with running for about a half hour. Is there anything else I can do to loose weight and just tone up more? I also don't eat much. Like for maybe a couple days a month I'll eat like breakfast, lunch, and dinner. But all the rest of the time I usually only eat a small breakfast and that's it. Am I over doing the whole weight loss thing? Everyone has been yelling at me and saying I am overdoing it and I really want to know if I am. Please help and answer. Is my weight ok for my height and age? I both cheerlead and run track and want to make sure I am skinny cause for some reason I feel people won't like me otherwise. Can someone please give me some advise and help on the situation? Thanks. *Love Always Annonomous*

You sound healthy.. but its not good to skip meals.. you should eat every meal every day, have small portions and no snacks in between but in your case you are almost too skinny and you may want to even gain weight! you can still workout and stuff... but dont overdo it.. you wear 0's and weigh less then normal for your age... you should probably be around 120ish since your tall and 14...
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My boyfriends friends don't approve of me.. and he has only been ahnging out with the 2 that do this summer so far.. but now hes hanging out with the other ones again.. and there the reason we broke up the other times... I mean.. i know i have no control over who he hangs with but would it be wrong of me to maybe ask him in the nicest way possible to not spend time with them so much?? I don't want him to dump me again because of them!!!:(

I would say just try not to hang around them when your with your bf.. and talk to your bf about it.. maybe he can talk to them about it..
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ok well i asked a question bout this girl i like and how she wouldnt tlk cuz of somethin. well she started tlkin 2 me again and now my friend is tryin 2 say that she doesnt like me. she said she likes boys wit frecles, red hair, and lite skin. well my friend said that she said she was playin a joke on me n that she doesnt really like me. well my friend likes her also so i wanted 2 kno if it was jealousy or if u think it was the truth?

I think your friend is probably jealous of her liking you so he is making up things she said...
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ok well i'm jst really mad about my whole "big family" thing i got goin on here i have 2 younger sisters Kirby(11) Kiersten(9) nd a older sister Christina(22) shes actually a half sister but jst the same i grew up w. her nd nw my momss pregnant .. ok so basically im the oldest and ALWAYS have all this "responsibility" nd i hate it i dnt wanna b here to babysit i wanna go out .. plus my family owns ANOTHER PIZZA RESTAURANT weve owned soo many nd i thought that my dad would stop changin careers nd stay an electrition but no so now i have stress to work there nd my moms pregnant so i feel evn more responsibilty i feel lyk the mom alot .. nd my sister kirby i cnt stand she always tries to put me down i guess but she has no confidence .. nd sometimes i jst wish i was nevr born lyk i dunno what to do w. my feelings i tlked to my bf about it but she dsnt have a big italian family lyk me my family goes on nd im always gettin lectured about suttin .. nd i dunno how to deal w. my feelings
please help .. xO0

Don't say you wish your werent born!! Well I have a big family too.. but they don't live here.. soo yeah anyways.. Talk to your mom or dad about how you feel... or just spend some alone time.. sit in your room and watch tv, read a magazine... do something to just relax you..
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im 11 and i way 110 puonds. its really hard for me to keep up a normal body wait especially in the summer. all my friends are skinny and ive been really self concious lately. is there any way that i can loose10 or 15 pounds by september??
thanx

Diet and excersize.. Just eat smaller portions and don't snack in between meals.. eat breakfast, lunch and dinner. But don't eat at any other time.. you can have dessert once in a while but not every day... You need to also excersize.. crunches are good for your abs, do pushups for your arms.. or you can go to a workout room where you can use all of the equipment..
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im so confused. i like this kid alot and everytime we go to a party together we hang around eachother and if i sit by him he will pull me on his lap and things that that...flirting wit me and i flirt back. then his friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. maybe he was embarressed? but then later he asked me for my number and he called me twice and we talked for about 2 hours each time. we flirt and everything and weve become friends. shud i say nething to him about it? or just let it be? cuz i wanna be more then just friends...and i htink he does too.

You can either tell him how you feel or don't... If you choose to tell him how you feel you are risking him not feeling the same.. but some boys need that to ever go any further in a relationship... its up to you and how you feel!
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i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank you

masturbating it is normal.. i feel there is nothing wrong w. it.. though i don't do *it*
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Many people have been saying that proactiv works to clear up acne but proactiv is from the infomercial, and I'm really scared to try it. Do they have it available in stores? About how much will it cost?

I have proactiv! it works sooooo good! it clears up acne in like a week or two.. although it is very expensive.. 40 dollars a case and i have one that comes one a month or maybe 2 months but i know its 40 dollars for a case that comes with manuals and 3 different cleaners! but they do work VERY well!
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I MAJORLY NEED HELP! Ok heres the story: Some of my friends (4) are going to Crazy Donkey (a dance club) 2nite and they invited me to go!! The one problem is I don't know how to ask my mom if i could go b/c it would be my first time going to a club. When I asked her previous times she was unsure and said she would think about it but those times I never made a plan to go but now I did. So what should I say to her? I never did anything to make my parents not trust me or anything like that i mean jeez im a high honor student lol I just don't know how to approach her with this info... She gets home from work later 2nite but I also wanna know is it okay to call her at work?

you probably shouldnt call her.. when she gets home give her some time to cool down from work then when she is watching tv or making dinner.. just say something like.. " mom my friends invited me to Crazy Donkey or w/e and i was just wondering if i can go with them.. if she says no say well can't you trust me? you need to give me a chance to prove to you that you can trust me!" or somethiin' like that!
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muh dad manages the money around the house... my mom used to... my dad i think hez saving ^ 4 sumthin he wantz cuz he does stuff like that. ive told my mom already she thinks the same thing. shez not gunna do anything soon cuz i dont think she wants to handle the money n pay the bills cuz itz to tiring for her. im not getting the stuff i need like new clothes, shoes etc. n even food were like ruffing it on food. this week we went over like a dollar for our money cuz we only have a certain amount according to my dad. wut do i do to solve this? itz oviously a big problem. he acts like the money my mom n he makes is all his n he desides if he wants to give her money to go shopping or sumthing. hope u guys understand n u can help me.

you need to ask your mom to keep the money she makes.. tell her that you really need some new clothes and shoes and that dad yells at you when you mention it to him.. or sit down and have a serios talk w/ your father!
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well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 years now! WE R COMPLETELY in love.. the thing is.. is tat my parents dont noe.. my parents said i cant have a bf till i finish skool..and ill finish in 2 years so its not tat long.. my parents noe about him and i just tell them that we are really good friends.. but im scared tat if i tell them they wont let me see him.. wat to do?
xoxo angita

ok if you have gotten away w/ seeing him for 2 years you may be able to get away with it for another two years.. and also maybe talk to your parents about negotiating when you are allowed to date!
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I know it was wrong but i had sex wit my bf...the problem is i did it wit out a condom...he did not cum inside me but im really scared that im preg...its only been like 2-3 weeks since i did that..im so scared and idk what to do..i cant tell ne one well i can just not my family..im waiting for my period to start..it will start the end of this month..someone please help or tell me about preg like the signs and symtoms i really need help on it cuz its scaring me..

okay.. if by the time your period should have come you don't have it go out to the store and buy a home pregnancy test.. test yourself.. if its negative and you skip your next period too than something is wrong.. buy another kit and test again.. signs would be bloated.. throwing up.. and your stomach growing..
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Ok well in the past year things have gotten really really bad for me! Me and my parents are constantly fighting ans when ever were suppose to have "quality" time we ALWAYS get into an argument!So ive been starting to cut myself! everytime i start to cry i bring myself to cut my arms up! how can i stop doing this to my self?

Think about it- what does cutting do for you?? nothing.. all it does is scar your arms and is an attempt at suicide.. instead of cutting do something else.. what i have heard has worked is going outside to a tree and cutting that.. its like cutting your arm but different :D soo try that or go online, watch tv, read a book.. do something productive!
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i really want to make out but i dont know how and then wheni wit a guy i feel like if i make out with him he is goin to think i suck enev if its my frist time idk what to do i dont know how to do it what should i do ?? i dont want to feel stupid when i doing it???=(

please help?!!

Okay.. many people ask this.. theres really no *right way* to make-out.. it has to be at the right time and moment.. You just go with the flow.. if he says something after.. then maybe you should think about your relationship.. real guys wont care and just forget about it! just go with the flow!! lol
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Ok my boy friend iz at camp in maine he has been there since um.. the 10th of july n i love him so........... freak'n much ,but im scared he iz gunna meet sum girl there that's prettier funnier and all that stuff!!! i kno i should trust him cuz we have been togetha for almost 9 months n i trully love him to death but im not to sure i can trust him cuz he iz a HUGE flirt!!! Do u think i can trust him not to do n e thing wid anotha girl????????

-X- Caitlin -X-

-X- Caitlin -X-
I think you should not worry about anything until he gets back.. if he gets back and is acting weird ask him about it.. or if you see signs of cheating.. Until then dnt worry! You can hang out w/ friends and stuff.. just wait.. worrying isnt going to help any!
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ok well i met this boy chris at the begining of the year...and we bacame good friends...we liked each other but i had a boyfriend so nothin ever went beyond friends...well a couple weeks later me and my boyfriend broke up and me and chris grew closer...then a week later he asked me out...well we went out and everything was good but then we broke up and i cant remember why but n e ways...me and him became even closer after we broke up and we were best friends all year...well we were friends with benifits gess you can say...but then a couple weeks before school let out for summer break he started going out with this girl tasha...tasha is my friend and she has liked him for so long. well im still in love with chris and i just cant stop...he means everything to me....now hes always with tasha and barely talks to me....i dont know what to do...what should i do plezz help me....i cry everytime i think of him..

That girl is soo not a true friend.. you can't do that.. go out with a guy that your so-called *friend* likes! nd the boy... it may be tough but you really need to get over him since he isnt true either! he went out with your friend! Look for other guys.. you will appreciate you!
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i like this guy so much ever since october 30th 2002 and like its been abt 2 years now .. and i dont know wut to do . i went out wif him 6times before .. buh hes wif one of my friends now . buh like were more like enemy's now . i mean im her friend and i want her to be happy buh i dont think she wants that for me cuz i cut myself and like she does too . but at least she's happy i mean i told * dan * how i feel and still . he still sayz i love paulina and shyt ! and i hate it i mean .. wow i kryed so much over him iono wut to do anymore !!


plzz help me !!


xOXo maYa xOXox

Okay.. you shouldnt cut yourself over a guy first off! and i don't think you should waste your time liking this paulina girl, bcuz she is not tru and not a nice or good friend! Also.. never cry over a guy.. especially if they have hurt you in the past..
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