-- well this guy i like is really sweet! he makes me laugh and its as if i fell in love w/ him in less than a month! but he is going off 2 college and he found out that he might be having a baby!? he broke up w/ me bc of it and im really mad! i guess im just bein selfish! bc tha babi should come first!..let me know wat i should do? and it i should try and help him out or just give him space?
xxjools27xx answered Saturday July 24 2004, 10:11 pm: that had to be hard for him because he had a baby. but you gotta not be mad at him. you can give him space, but he might just need a friend, so just be there if he needs you and keep yourself open to anything he needs, even if it is just to talk. hope i helped some!
kevin1986 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 10:02 pm: Get away from this situation,NOW. If you're involved,then eventually you'll be the one having to care for his kid. His baby should come first yes. But if he's gunna have a kid,shouldn't he try to build something with the mother? You should forget him and find somebody who isn't going to be a father. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
goodgurl answered Saturday July 24 2004, 9:41 pm: hlep him out and be there for him dont leave him hangen hope i help
spoiledx3shortii answered Saturday July 24 2004, 8:56 pm: i think you should give him space for a while.. but if he asks you for help.. then help him.. or even if he doesnt ask for help and you know he is struggling offer your help!
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Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday July 24 2004, 8:53 pm: If I was in your situation, I would ask him what he'd like to do. If he's open to help (which he may not be - guys can be stubborn about that.) then do help him out. But if he isn't, give him the space he wants.
Let him make the decision, though. Don't pressure him to let you help - that may push him away further.
Good luck!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
xobabyxthang answered Saturday July 24 2004, 8:44 pm: I think that you should try and help him if he is having a baby..and show him that you love him..also you are not being selfish because he is the man u love [ xobabyxthang's advice column | Ask xobabyxthang A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Saturday July 24 2004, 8:30 pm: understand hes probably going thru a really rough time. Its hard for him. Offer him to help him with anything.. tell him you just want to be REALLY close friends. Stay in close touch when hes at college.. be sure to stay in close touch with him... send his baby a gift or something.. be really nice about it. Im sure things will work itself out and when he does start warming back up to you again, when the pain is not to strong, tell him how you still love him and ask him what ever happened.. but make sure its the right time.. and if you have trouble figuring when that time is...
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