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Q: how come when you touch the back of your pad when your disposing it, it feels really cold? does the blood like turn cold or something? and how come we dont feel cold when we're wearing them. if anyone cant tell im talking about periods, too

also does PMS stand for premenstrual syndrome or preoccuring mood swings? my mom said the first part and some boys at my school said the 2nd, lol. im sure my mom is right..
I'm not exactly sure about the first part, I've never experienced that before.

And PMS stands for Premenstrual Syndrome.

Q: My birthday is on March 10th and I'm getting a Coach purse for my birthday. I really like this one and I was wondering if it's a good price for Coach and if it's cute to buy..? Thanks soo much!
Please provide a picture and price and we can let you know from there. =)

Q: how many credits do you have to have to graduate ? i dont know if its different in each state or what . but i live in newnan georgia . some people say its 24 , but then some say its 28 .

someone helppp !
I need 23 to graduate.

It differs from school to school.
Just try to ask a teacher or counselor.

Q: so okay. me and my boyfriend were making out. and i was straddling him while he was sitting. we were both getting really into it and blah blah blah but then suddenly he was like i have to go to the bathroom. and like ran upstairs. i just kinna sat there like ummm okay..? now i really doubt that he really just had to go to the bathroom. but maybe.. and i told this to my friend's boyfriend and he just laughed. what do you all think?
thanks!
I think he probably had to go to the bathroom.

Or maybe he was getting a little uncomfortable, and didn't know how to ask you to stop, so he kinda just ended the situation that way.

Or, he got excited, I'm sure you can figure out the rest.

Q: What are some stores that sell "sceney" clothes? but i still want to make it my own,so whats another stroe for great accesories? you dont have to do this part,but could you give me and example of an outfit thats sceney? (either by telling me or makeing one with links?) thanks!
forever 21, hollister, delias.

for accessories, forever 21, claires.

sceney outfit would consist of, straightlegg tight jeans, a childrens shirt, or something like that, little clips in their hair, flats, and massive unattractive sunglasses.

Q: are there any ways to download songs for free from a website without downloading a service (ex: limewire). i don't want to clog up and slow down my computer or get viruses
http://www.seekasong.com
myspace (some let you download the songs)
and http://www.purevolume.com

those are the only ones i can think of right now.

Q: okay yeah i didnt know what catrgory to put this in. But anyway,i feel stupid..i dont know what liek prude means. could someone pleasee tell me :]
When someone is afraid/won't do sexual things.

Q: Hi i'm making a brochure, but i don't know how to turn the page from vertical to horizontal. Do you know which place i go to change the format of the page to do this??? Thanks!
you go to File, Page Setup, then Horizontal.

Q: um well this is kinda gross lol but my boyfriend asked me to fart on his face when we were makeing out a few days ago. he told me he was into poop and pee stuff-is that normal? can i get sick from eating doo doo?
That's like wayyy too weird, um, I'm not really sure what to say.

Why would you want to eat something like that..?

I'd tell him to ask him why the hell is he into that, and you aren't.

Q: Does anyone have any good pictures of side swept bangs?

I need a picture to show when I get my haircut.

Also if you have any with like medium length hair with kind of choppy layers and the bangs.

(but just a picture with bangs is fine)

:]
What you're decribing is my hair, exactly.

you can look at my picture on my page, or go to this website..

http://www.dontfallforme.piczo.com

Q: ok i know all about like what a girl goes through during puberty & all but what do the guys get if girls get periods??
nothing?
They start getting hair (face and legs and such), and their voice deepens.

Q: im a virgin and i know sex is going to hurt. is there anyway i can break my hymen so that it wouldnt hurt as much? or would that even help? or what can i do so that it wont hurt as much?
Well, your hymen isn't what causes sex to hurt. It's the fact that your not lubbed up or stretched out down there. So you can stretch it out by masturbating, and using a lot of lube your first time.

Q: Things that I know about them pills.\
They start working after 1 month.
Girls who take them get a little bit fatter.
What other side effects are there and do they aply to all brands of "anti-pregnancy" pills?
I also know the doctors give a perscription when a girl has hormon problems. Do they make you extra horny, cause in that case I know I ll have a big problem lol!
Just to add to the person below me, they can cause blood clots, which aren't as rare though. I know someone how almost died because of a blood clot, the cause of the blood clot was being on the pill, not sure which one though.

Q: i don't know what these songs are called but i know some of the lyrics! if you know them please tell me!

1)she's bleeding in the neon and now shes polluting airways

2)would it change your mind if i changed my mind

3)this isn't how it should end if it should end at all

they are all rock songs.. alternative! please help cause i really like them but idk what they are called!

thanks!
the first two are by Evans Blue (such an amazing band)

#1 & #2 is called Beg by Evans Blue.
And the lyrics are "She's bathing in the neon
and she's polluting all the airways while I'm passed out in the hallway." & "Now are we this pathetic? you made me finally see it.
(will it change your life when I change my mind, will it change your mind when I change my life)"

Here are the complete lyrics..
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/evansblue/beg.html

I don't recall the last one.

Q: okay soo idk what to get my bf for v-day! we've been dating for 4 and a half months and he is 16 any ideas?!? thanks sooooo much to those of you who can help!! 16y/o guys advice on this would be tremendous!
This should give you some good ideas.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=472593

Q: Okay my hairs lyk pretty lOng lyk past my shulders .. yah no how everyone puts there hair up with like the top part kinda lyk stickin up lyk a bump how do yu do dat ??.. nd idunno anyother styles ? i always straighten my hair .. haha yeah im lame for asken this but i i jus wunna no if anyone got any ideas .. iight thanx much
I was luckily able to make out what you were asking, but please, try to type more correctly.

Anyways, it's very easy to do that.

Just take your bangs, or the hair next to your part, and hold the hair horizontally between your middle and index finger. Then, just fold it back and you have the poof, to hold it down, use a clip or some bobi pins.

Q: ok so i cut it "down" there and its like really itchy. what do i do to make it stop?
It's normal, and I'm not sure if you can make it stop.

Just let it grow for a couple days it won't kill ya for it to be a bit itchy. :)

Q: i can scrape them out kinda by using toothpicks.. like i have little black lines starting in the back of my teeth slowly coming to the teeth before them (so far only 3 on both sides above and down). ugh i really dont want cavities, but if they are.. about how much money is a dentist's appointment? for them to like clean your teeth and whatever they do at the appointments. in my life from what i can remember, i've only been to the dentist once and that was like.. 4-6 years ago. help! also, the teeth dont hurt or anything, but sometimes, especially on halloween, after i have hard candy, it hurts on one side, then like after a day it like stops. and i brush my teeth once (rarely twice) a day, and rarely use mouthwash too. um.. i guess i should do these more, heh.
You should make an appointment with you're dentist, you should be going at least 2 times a year.

It could possibly get worse, and cause you a lot of pain, so go to the dentist and have them check it out.

Well I have to get 2 fillings, but my insurance pays for i think 80% but for 2 fillings it's 64$ out of my pocket, just to give you an idea for cost.

Q: Can anyone help me get a serial number for Corel paint shop pro X or corel paint shop pro XI...

It would be so helpful!!

Thanks
You can't do that, it is illegal.

You have to buy the product to get the serial number.

Q: what are some good songs by hellogoodbye?
Don't rate me, but Mackenzie, Grand Theft Autumn is by Fall Out Boy.

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