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hymen.
im a virgin and i know sex is going to hurt. is there anyway i can break my hymen so that it wouldnt hurt as much? or would that even help? or what can i do so that it wont hurt as much?
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First of all know that sex doesn't always hurt. If you are well lubricated, relaxed, and not too nervous, discomfort is what you'll feel. Not pain. On the other hand, if you are tense and nervous, the vagina opening will be that much smaller and that much harder to break through. If you aren't lubricated, friction will occur and it will hurt like a bitch. No matter what.
When the hymen breaks, there is a little pain, and sometimes a little blood. I try not to put losing your virginity and breaking your hymen under the same category though, because if your hymen has already been ripped, sex can still be painful or vice versa. To put things simply, ripping your hymen before sex does get rid of some discomfort, but not all of it together. Using tampons, masturbating or being fingered, strenuous exercise, and a number of other things can contribute to your hymen ripping though, so don't narrow it down to just sex/sexual things. I don't reccommend trying to rip your own hymen, because it's hard to tell if you already have or not if you don't know what they look like to begin with. (Which would be hard to explain.) Just don't worry about it though. Like I said, if your relaxed and well lubricated your first time (I wasn't.=) then it won't be that bad.
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Well, your hymen isn't what causes sex to hurt. It's the fact that your not lubbed up or stretched out down there. So you can stretch it out by masturbating, and using a lot of lube your first time.
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well chances are that the hymen is already broken or at least torn...but that isnt the only reason sex hurts the first time...
it's cause of pressure and stuff...
if you have used tampons; it's probally already broken
get a compact(hand mirror) and check out "down there" you should be able to tell if it's broken or not...
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