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Fingering?
So everytime my boyfriend tries to finger me it hurts. Is there anyway to make it stop? Any suggestions from anyone? Or comments if this has happened to you? I also don't think it's because I'm not wet enough it just hurt when he pushes on a certain spot. Well thanks if you can help!
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he's probably going to hard or entering at a weird angle.
if you aren't wet, then thats going to cause even more pain, because of the friction.
try making sure you are actually horny before he fingers you.
and make sure he's only using one finger, two might be too much.
& if he goes too hard, then tell him to slow down.
i know some people who even lead their boyfriends finger in & in the exact place to start. it turns guys on too when girls tell them what they want.
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That "certain spot" may be your G-spot. It shouldn't really hurt if he pushes on it. If your well lubricated, your fine. Just ask him to lighten up a little while he's doing it. Just say "that kind of hurts".
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you should tell him how it feels for you and guide his hand to where you want it. it helps if you try fingering yourself first so you know what you like and stuff. if you aren't wet enough, tell him. let him know he's gotta get you excited before he goes. also, have him pleasure your clit instead of going in. anything else, just lemme know. <3
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It could be that you are tight but most girls it just doesn't feel good to be penetrated. i would higly suggest him touching your clit instead... no worries for that. <3
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actually i don't think theres anything you can do. it just hurts. i've had it done and its just uncomfotable no matter what. its not made for that.
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