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I know its kinda early for me to be askin for help, but I dont want to screw things up. I just kinda met this guy online. We met from xanga and he got my sn and started talkin to me. I know its not good to talk to strangers online, but come on. I know that these people can be crazy or stalkers. I know all of that so dont talk to me about it. We live in the same town and we got to different schools. I'm 15/f and he's 17/m. We just started talkin today and we showed each other our pictures and tried gettin to know each other. We were kinda flirtin with each other like him callin he hot and all this other stuff. I'm only going to be a freshman and he's gonna be a senior. In my town there are only really two public high schools and we're both going to different ones. He been going to one that all my friends are at so I guess I would meet him soon. What are somethings that I can do to make him interested and so we can get to know each other better? I dont want to make him bored so what are somethings we can talk about? I jus dont want to screw anything up. Sorry this is sooo long. Thanks (link)
you should know FOR SURE with PROOF before you meet him. and if you do, go with your friends. NEVER EVER trust that their a good person, no matter how nice they seem. if you do choose to meet him, go with a friend or two. better safe then sorry. and if he is a good person talk about stuff you like, be yourself.


ok well i have this friend and her boyfriend broke up with her because he didn't feel like them 2 were actually going out anymore, cause she lives 45 minutes away. He goes to my church and like so i seem him alot. Well after he broke up with her he started going out with another girl and my friend,was so mad and she was like i hate him and don't like him anymore. So i thought she was over him. Well a few days ago that girl broke up with him. SO he comes back to my friend and is like i don't know why i broke up with you, i love you and blah blah. well he told me he was going to ask her out again and i was hoping she would say no, but i found out that she said yes today. I don't want my friend to get hurt, again. I don't how to say she made the wrong decision, i don't want this boy thinking he can brake up and get back together over and over again, can u help? (link)
yeah you really need to talk to her. At first she might think that you want him , but she'll eventually realise thats not true. talk to her about how you dont want her to get hurt again, and how you hope she understands. hope i helped


OK How do you get your hair colored like kristins from Laguna Beach.. Like how its blonde but it has like brown in it.. does anyone know what it's called and how its done? thanks (link)
umm highlights? lol sorry i have no idea, i want that hairstyle too now tht you give the idea! lol. sorry maybe you could search on google if nobody else comments.


I want to get my lip pierced but idk if it'd look good on me, alot of people said it would but i just want some more advice uhhhhh..
here's a link to my picture o_O

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v410/glitterglitz/9d7f9fd3.jpg

lol i drew one on once and it looked okay haha.
but ugh its body manipulating and i just wanna make sure o_o
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i dont have one and i dont wanna get one, but ive read some stories in magazines whre theyve got caught on stuff so its not that great, not that healthy either.


when i asked my mom if we could go to the doctor she said if i had hormonel problems i'd have other syptoms, like not growing. can someone please be more spacific on what problem i'd have and what syptoms i'd have. please aswer as fast as you can. im extreamly worryed. (link)
mhm i know exactly what your talking about. its really not that scary. I think you might have Growth Hormone Deficancy, it means your not growing right and most people take medicine unless your too old. most people get the medicine 13 and under but some older too. if you want to ask more questions, just send me a message.


does anyone know how to juggle and if so can they explain how to do it? (link)
same, i know how to juggle but its not one of those kinda things you can explain. maybe try reading a booklet on how to juggle or searching on google. hope i helped


Whenever I babysit, the parents always ask me "How much do you pay per hour?". The truth is, I don't have a rate, and they always overpay me, which I don't mind :D, but I think it's impolite to take more than 15 dollars an hour. How can I politly set a reasonable babysitting rate that isn't too much or too little? (link)
i dont babysit yet, but maybe you can charge a certain about per kid, like $5 or $3 a kid, i dunno something like that. just an idea.


my stepdad is always playing pranks on me. like at friendlys when i wasnt looking he cut a hole in my straw so i couldnt drink and he made me look to the side and then threw a piece of paper at me. and he says hes got the next prank for when we go again so i want ot heave a prank too so if someone could give me a good prank at friendlys that would be great. (nothing about changing his order) (link)
i love pranks! Their so much fun as long as you dont get in trouble. lol. maybe if you're dad is going to the bathroom or something, ask for the waiters attention and tell the waiter something like "pretend that the bill costs $150" and explain to him/her the prank. if he doesnt end up leaving, then find a way to talk to the waiter without him noticing, or just think of a different prank. lol hope i help

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oh and you dont have to do it at the resturant, maybe do something at home while hes waiting to leave and it will happen to him when you get back


I Need a awsome cheer! IT can be a genral cheer or a football cheer. NOT A SIDELINE a cheer.


Help;
My Town Is East Palestine
My Macot is : Bulldogs
My colors are: Brown orange and White




HELP: GAME THURSDAY AND ONLY TWO CHEERS! EASY 5++ (link)
Brown Orange and White.
what do we do?
fight! fight! fight!
(i made this cheer up)

sorry couldnt think of anything good.


i never did anything wroung teachers jude me before they get to kno me because of jason thats why i want to do good in skool to prove im me my own person i may look like jay but i dont act like him [all the time ] im me and im ganna prive that to anyone that doesnt belive me
all the teachers give me dirty looks in the halls just looking at me its like stomping on the only lil faith i have they point me out of the crowd of people as the trouble maker im ganna show the shuve it in there face that im diffrent and that i may be relatted but i love him and i cant change my family and i never would
should i realy prove to the teachers and plz tell me if its fare or not
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im kinda confused like mackenzie but ill try. yeah you should prove to your teachers that you are a different person. i dotn think its fare of them tho, because they should have gave you a chance


I've been going out with this guy for a month now. I like him a lot. But lately I don't really wanna hang out with him, like the other day he asked me out on a date and I told him I'd talk to him that day. I dunno, but I just don't want to be around him. I am fine talking to him online somtimes, just hanging out in person, I don't really wanna see him. Why is that? (link)
well i dont really know why your feeling that, but maybe your just better off as best friends. if your best friends you cant go on dates but you can still hang out. maybe you just need a break from him a while, like a little vacation. guys can be annoying sometimes, lol.


OK well i think i might be annorexic. I'm about 4'9 and only like 86 pounds. That never seems to be thing enough for me. I'm always trying to lose weight some how or another. Now i don't know what to do...i don't want to tell my mom b/c i'm not sure if i am or not and i don't want to worry her. I'm just scared that i'm getting myself into trouble with this stuff...does anyone have ne suggestions for me? I'm scared...i dont want to end up in the hospital b/c of this...thanks in advance! (link)
thats hard for me to answer cuz im like 4'10 or something and weigh 73, but if you asked all my friends i eat a ton! lol, i definitly dont starve myself. losing weight isnt bad, but if you starve yourself, that definitly is. you might get into a little trouble if you were lieing about eating, but how can you get in trouble for saving yourself? going to the hospital because of this wont be a bad thing. all their trying to do is help you, its not like a punishment or something.


i went to www.toneteen.com and like i heard it tells you how to go on a GOOD diet but where? i can't seem to find it :[ help i wanna loose some pounds before school!!
thank you so much
i will rate if you are really specific because i am like a blonde at heart :] (link)
maybe look at a bookstore for diet books, and work out a lot too.


I need advice on what to do!!
well this is what is goin on im 15 almost 16 and im goin out with this boy named travis be 13 about to be 14 and we have been together for almost a year and at first things were good but now they arent to good and i dont know what to do because i really love him!! ok well for the past 2 weeks he has been acting real weird hes starting to do drugs and its messin him up and turing him in to someones else that isnt him...well hes been avoiding me for the past 3 days he hasnt called me in the past 2 days and today me and my best friend cortnie went up to his apartments to hang out and to see if he was really there and we go up there and he was there and he wouldnt talk to me and he was hiding from us and wouldnt answer his door or phone!! i really love him alot and its gonna hurt me real bad to break up wit him i just dont kno what to do im just really attached to him!!! if you could just give me some advice i would appreciate it!!
thanks
~*~*katie*~*~ (link)
if hes 13 thats not good. tell him you love him and tell him to quit and why or youll have to break up. if he really cares about you, he'll quit.


14/f...Sometimes i feel as if i were cursed... (lol), Well my life just sucks for me sometimes... HEres the dillio (haha) I live with my dad and four other brothers... WHICH sucks because i dont have any privacy what SO EVER!! my mom left us when i was two so i never new her, but i do give my dad credit on growing us up.. But my brothes suck i mean all they do is play sports and talk about girls, i cant even have a normal conversation with any of them without them doing stupid boy crap (farting,joking,burping) i mean eww i hate living with BOYS hah... My dad i love him too death he just doesnt understand me at all, i mean i cant talk to him about personal or girly stuff because he just doesnt know it, ive tried and he has failed... and I cant even talk about boys with any of them because they dont even understand themselves so how the hell are they gonna understand another boy... But like i just get aggervated because all my dad does is go too their damn sports game and their in every sports game fucking possible so i never get too hang out with my dad... all he does is work,sleep,cook,and go too their shitty sports games... I try too make his life easier because i know its hard being a single parent and raising 5 kids... like i clean the house,dishes,vacumm,sweep,all those other chores but everything gets ruined eventually and im tired of doing it all over again... My brothers treat me like shit and i get no respect for anything..... I just feel so unwanted... and i feel scared too talk to my dad about everything because its just weird spilling out all your feelings too a guy when its about them... HMMM ANY ADVICE ON ANY OF THIS???? (link)
i dont think you were cursed, you just have to make the best of it. life isnt easy. if your dad doesnt understand you dont feel bad, hes a guy, hes not supposed to know style tips and stuff lol. its good that you give him credit, that must be realaly hard. Im guessing your really tired cleaning any everything so maybe talk to your dad about it. say "I think that maybe we should all do our share, it might help you out too." hope this was helpful. oh and btw (by the way) if you cant spill your feelings to any of them, maybe ask a friend, or just type your problem on this site.


ok.. so i have this friend... at one time she went through some really tough stuff.. and I didn't mind helping her and talking to her and stuff... but it was like she'd put me on a guilt trip and make me feel so sorry for her.. and like convince me I was all she had.. but then when we were at dance or something.. she was all happy and idk... not even the same person... so she finally got counselling after she started cutting and stuff.. they even wanted to put her in sight care or something.... but now i'm the one thats not so stable and she doesn't even care about me anymore.... she still sends me texts every once and awhile saying things like "i'm so lonely :'(.. I have no one!" ect....so i finally come out and tell her waht's bothering me and at first she cried with me and told me everything would be alright and we had this huge talk... but now she is being such a bitch to me... she doesnt have time to talk to me or hang out with me because she's always with other people.... and when we do talk its like "hey how are you?" "ok u?" "i'm ok" "well i g2g later" and thats it!! i just don't think its fair that i was always so loyal to her ... and now that i'm the one that needs help i dont have anybody...... its much more complecated then that but i guess that'll have to do...

5's to anyone who HELPS. (link)
wow. i would seariously confront this girl and be like "you said i was the only one that i was the only one you had. but this obviously isnt true because you dont seem to like talking or hanging out anymore. I told you the first time how i felt and we had a huge talk, and everything was fine. then after you starting acting like a bitch to me, and i dont feel that its fair that i always have to be loyal to you, when your not to me!" have you talked to your mom or dad about her? because if you did they would understand eveyrthing so that way if you go and say tht to her and she crys, and tells her mom or dad to call yours or something, you wont get in trouble, and youll feel good because you got to tell her off, something youve been wanting to do for a while., hope i helped!


my freind has been wanting a laptop for sometime time now, and he finally found a mutual freind that has one for sale. hes selling it for 50-80$. he asked me if he could borrow some money from me... and i said i couldnt afford it. but now i kinda want it... would it be wrong to buy it from under him? i could actually use one? so i
want to know if this is wrong? he wont be able to buy it for a while.... (link)
its hard to tell if it would ruin a friendship, because i dont no what kind of guy he is. But he was looking for it first and has been wanting one for a while, so you should just find another computer. But about the money situation, if he asks again say, "maybe you could start some oddjobs"


ok i have 2 boys madly in LOVE with me and i loe both of them/ one is like my bestfriend and the other is such a cool friend that i've made out with in the past. the bestfriend gives me the feeling that the other boy doesn't. and the other boy shows me such a GREAT time! who should i pick??? i can't follow my heart because my heart is telling me to love both of them. I WANT TO GO OUT WITH ONE OF THEM. I DONT KNOW WHO?!! PLEASE HELP!!! no shitty advice and ill rate you 5! thanks. +kim by the way... my bestfriend's anme is corey and my friend friend thats cool is cristian. PLEASE HELP! (link)
since your bestfriend gives you the feeling that otherboys dont maybe you should consider him. and hes known you for a while too, thats an advantage. he knows what you love and hate, etc.
maybe you should stay friends with the other one whos just your friend. since he can show you a great time, hang out with him sometimes once in a while, that wont hurt. and if this is too hard of a decision for you, maybe just say to both of them "can we all just stay friends? I dont want to break our friendships, so i dont wanna pick".


What is the best product for hair removal on my arms?
Please don't say 'Nair' because they do aniaml testing so I can't use that. (link)
eww i would not say nair! not only is that mean to animals, but my friend used it once and it smells HORRIBLE! sorry i dont know about any hair removal, i just wanted to comment abvout the nair


well my ipod freezes consintly.. while im going though songs. and maybe about 1ce a month it wont let my go though "menu"and so i have to press the arrows and it freezes! what is wrong with my ipod? (link)
i have an ipod, but im not an ipod expert. maybe its time to give a call to the ipod company and ask.




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