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14/f...Sometimes i feel as if i were cursed... (lol), Well my life just sucks for me sometimes... HEres the dillio (haha) I live with my dad and four other brothers... WHICH sucks because i dont have any privacy what SO EVER!! my mom left us when i was two so i never new her, but i do give my dad credit on growing us up.. But my brothes suck i mean all they do is play sports and talk about girls, i cant even have a normal conversation with any of them without them doing stupid boy crap (farting,joking,burping) i mean eww i hate living with BOYS hah... My dad i love him too death he just doesnt understand me at all, i mean i cant talk to him about personal or girly stuff because he just doesnt know it, ive tried and he has failed... and I cant even talk about boys with any of them because they dont even understand themselves so how the hell are they gonna understand another boy... But like i just get aggervated because all my dad does is go too their damn sports game and their in every sports game fucking possible so i never get too hang out with my dad... all he does is work,sleep,cook,and go too their shitty sports games... I try too make his life easier because i know its hard being a single parent and raising 5 kids... like i clean the house,dishes,vacumm,sweep,all those other chores but everything gets ruined eventually and im tired of doing it all over again... My brothers treat me like shit and i get no respect for anything..... I just feel so unwanted... and i feel scared too talk to my dad about everything because its just weird spilling out all your feelings too a guy when its about them... HMMM ANY ADVICE ON ANY OF THIS????
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i dont think you were cursed, you just have to make the best of it. life isnt easy. if your dad doesnt understand you dont feel bad, hes a guy, hes not supposed to know style tips and stuff lol. its good that you give him credit, that must be realaly hard. Im guessing your really tired cleaning any everything so maybe talk to your dad about it. say "I think that maybe we should all do our share, it might help you out too." hope this was helpful. oh and btw (by the way) if you cant spill your feelings to any of them, maybe ask a friend, or just type your problem on this site.
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hmm... i'm not too good with family stuff [i hope that doesn't change ur mind about taking my advice...] but i think that if you have a really close friend, try also getting close to HER mom. then you can have a mom to talk to... i really hope this helped..... _*lader
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I know how you feel, my dad died wen i was 3, he commited suicde, so its like he left me and my 2 bros! so i really dont have a dad to go talk about you know! i have a step dad but hes not that much of help.
dont you have a aunt or cousin or even your grandma to help you? thats pretty tough! yea im a boy, and SOME boys do, do all that stuff! im sure your dad is trying to do everything he can to keep your family together! i mean common now, he has to raise 5 kids all by himself! WOW! im sure he trys to comfort you and your bros in a differnet way. just because he seems like hes favorting your brother more then you doesnt mean its true. he has a hard job! you really need to sit down with him and have a serious talk. and about the girl think, if theres ne one close to u, like a aunt, frien, cousin then go for it! meaning talk to them! have a conversation! ask them questions. about ne thing...like theres a boy i like, im on my period, im getting bulied at skool, stuff like that. see what they have to say. and its not bad having brothers. they will always protect you and be there for you!
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ahh, my dad is upsesed with my sister, when i am with them, they only talk about the yankees, baseballl, her grades, her popularity. etc
then im there being quiet...
HEY GIRL! BE HAPPY UOU ATLEAST HAVE A FATHER AND A ROOF OVER YOUR HEAD!
dont clean anymore, just clean after yourself.
yeah my dad works in brooklin and thats about 3 hours away from home, then it would be atleat 6 hours with that gay traffic. so all he does is work, sleep
but when hes home he does everyhitn i want him to do. but i cant explain my feelings to him at ALL. but just go in there, ask him to go shopping for stuff you need.
&& you arent unwanted, you sound like someone that is respectful, a great friend, and would do anything to please someone in your family.
♥ kiss me
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I think that if you try to tell your dad how you feel he will understand, or atleast try to! I know what it's like to have guys around. I only have one brother, but i hate trying to talk to my mom when her b/f is around. He always jokes around and never takes me seriously when i try to talk about something. But anyways, this isn't about my problem, this is yours..lol. Do you have a female cousin, or a close aunt that you could talk to? Or your grandmother. You could always talk to them about your "girl" issues or problems. If you need someone to talk to about guys, you could always talk to your friends! Does your dad go out on dates, or is he still interested in finding a g/f? If he is, maybe you could try to help him find one somehow, so then you'll have another girl in the house! Or even just a close "female" neighbor, that you know well enough to talk to about your life. There are a lot of things you could do. If you are absolutely unsure of what to do, you could talk to a counsellor or something like that, to ask them what you should do, b/c they actually know what they are talking about, i don't lol..i'm just trying to suggest some things to you. you also might want to just try and talk to your brothers. well..maybe only one at a time. figure out when your dad works, and when your brother's games are, and just try to schedule some time for just you and your dad to hang out, and talk! i'm sure if you keep talking to him about things, he will get better at understanding you, and girls! Good Luck!
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I do think he might understand. He probably knows how hard it is on you. He should make the sports freaks help you out with some of the chores! It is there home too after all.
Do you have an aunt or grandma you can talk to? I think that is the main thing you need. An older female to talk about those girly things! Maybe even an older cousin or neighbor.
Whatever you do don't keep tings bottled up. If you have no one else, Dear old dad will do. It might be a little bit weird at first, but it will soon go away and become easier. You could take up sports...football starts soon! I kid. Good luck to you. :)
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