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12/f
I haven't gotten my period yet...
but im REALLY scared to get it...
i have a horrible fear of blood that i've never been able to shake. i faint almost every time i see it, even if it's my own blood
will i faint when i get my period? thanks. (link)
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im not a doctor but i highly doubt that youn will faint when you get your period.your period is different from the blood thats coming out of a cut.its a natural process that shouldnt make you feel faint unlike a cut or a stab thats not natural and dangerous so the more blood lost the more your going to feel shaky and feel nervous which will scare your body and make you faint.
i have never herd of anyone fainting from their period so im not sure for certain but i dont think you will because theres not pain or cut or stab and your body will know when your period is coming so it will be ready...thats my theory
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awwwwww ;) thank you soooo much!!!!!!!!..well that is just true..he makes me believe that he still feels something for me but is for me to go to his house and think all this just to use me for sex..is kinda sad because am still in loved with him since like the first time i meet him..i just wish if orget him but its hard.i dont go out wit friends because they are boring..and they are always stuck in their houses..but i just wished this kidd dissapered from my mind and my heart :'( (link)
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i know how you feel.its soo sad that some guys are like that. you deserve so much more.you are worth so much more.i know now your thinking that you love him and that you dont want to leave him but your building yourself up for a down fall.your going to get hurt.if this boy cant treat you the way you deserve then hes not worth it.once your over him your going to look back at this and feel stupid for falling for his games.your going to be grateful that your not still with him because you would of found a boy that actually loves you for who you are not what you have to give.im sorry sweety i really am.i wish there was an easier way through this but there isnt.life is full of things that will hurt you as well as things that are going to make you really happy but right now this thing you have with this boy is going to hurt you so its best you leave him before he leaves you.your strong and your better than that.you dont need a boy to make you happy,you can do it on your own.you are a strong indipendent girl that doesnt need a user and an abuser to make her feel loved.
time will heal everything and once it does your going to feel so much better.just dont talk to him and dont listen to the things he says because hes going to tell you anything and everything just to get into your pants!mwaaahh
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I have a friend who is really close to me. But she thinks that only one girl is her GREATEST friend or...very AWESOME. And my friend really misses her really badly. When my friend went to a tournament, she hugged that girl but not me. She talks to her and says good things about her. But I don't see what's good about that girl. Now, I feel like I'm loosing my close friend. :( I really wish my close friend would like me more than her. Well, I know it's her choice on whom she choose to like. But that girl moved from where me and my close friend lives! So why does she have to brag about how GREAT she is. It's really annoying. And again, I would like her to like me. (link)
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the reason why she talks about her so much is because she is very important to her.they use to be very close.she cant just erase her from her memory.you just have to stik it out till she slowly gets over her best friend.if you want her to hug you then why cant you just make the first move and hug her first.mayeb it hasnt occured to her that your into the hugging and stuff.i wouldnt mention to her that your annoyed with her because she talks alot about her other friend because itll show your jealous and shes going to become distant with you.just realise that she loves her friend and she loves you too and that you dont need to be jealous because your just as close with her.she only talks to you about that girl, because your her close firned and your the one that she goes too when she wants to talk to someone.dont ruin that by being jealous
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17/f i'm really shy & have trouble talking to boys, well this one boy that i thought was really cute last year, was a senior & i was a junior. we never talked though. he didn't have any friends, because he just came here, i always tried to get up the courage to talk to him, but i couldn't. well anyway, i found his myspace. & i'm debating.. do i send him a friend request? or would that look so creepy? because i feel like he remembers me from last year, because we exchanged eye contact quite alot. but i don't know. & i was thinking i would just comment on his art. he is really shy like me & it still doesn't look like he has many friends. so i can't even ask anyone to introduce me or anything..
what should i do?
do i think that will look really weird if i asked to be his friend? (link)
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gooo for it!!!seriously whats going to happen if you do?nothing hell either reject your request or hell accept you as a friend and youll get a chance at becoming friends.theres nothing wrong with that!if you make it out to be weird then it will feel weird but if you make it out to be something normal then hes going to feel normal anjd hell like you!go for it
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heyy.. you'll probably see this question later on, but i wanted advice sooner.. what should i expect my first time having sex.. as far as the physical feeling, i know everyone is different but i want some kind of knowledge going into it. like things that could possibly go wrong, or things to do to make it better.. thanks in advance. (link)
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well fisrtly you have to make sure that your positive that you want to have sex or your not going to feel good in the process.use alot of lubricant and fingering may help before hand.He may want to try using 2 fingers just to stretch you out.things that may go wrong is that it might hurt so its better that your not on top because that will hurt even more.expect to bleed so id probibly bring a tampon or a pad with me just incase.if you do bleed its natural,its a sign of your hymen breaking.i mean with some people it might not hurt them depending on the guys size etc.people say that the first time might be the worst time because your in some pain and you havent done it before so your not so experienced but after a few times of having sex,depending on the person,the pain will gradually go and the sex will feel better.just remember that once you start having sex your going to want to do it again and again.make sure he uses a condom and it might even be better that you go on the pill..:)
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thats just truee! :)
and well my ex boyfriend cheeted on me after 2 yrs and he left to the dominican republic and he posted pictures on myspace with anothe rgirl overthere and thwy were kissing just hugging..when he came back i confronted him about it and he said that was his cusin but at the end that was his flirt..then he broke up with me and sended me so much mean messages saying he thanks go i got out of his life:( then like 2 months later he started talking to me...and w.e he keeps telling em to go to his house at 1 in the night when his parents are sleeping..i did went once but thats about it..he just wanted me for that..then last night we were talking and he told me that even though he did all taht he still likes me even if i dont believe him..and he kept telling me to go to his house..i really dont know what to do..can you pls try to help me..sorry if this is too long..i just need some good advice :) - thanks (link)
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no problem i like giving you advice.im 20 and trust meee iv been used so many times like that.they lead you on and make you think that they really care for you and really want you but trust me!truuuusst me they are just looking for one thing.a boy that only calls you to come to his house at 1AM is using you.dont listen to him.ofcourse hes going to keep telling you that he likes you,how else is he going to use you for sex?trust me on this.dont go to his house!hes a user and oneday your going to meet yourself a really nice boy that will take you out to dinner and buy to presents and hold you hand and take you to the movies before even TRYING to sleep with you.this guy is an ass and dont believe what he says sweety because when you find out hes being using you your going to regret all the things you did with him and your going to be soo hurt and i dont want to see that happen!
im here for you :)
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i asked a question a few days ago about my boyfriend not calling me for a while. and everyone who answered told me to either give him some time or call him to see whats up, like he might be testing me to see if i would call him. anyways, i didnt really pay attention to the advice but then after a week of absolutely nothing from him, i decided to try it. i called him, and no one answered. and then i called again, and the phone stopped ringing abruptly and went dead. so i'm assuming he ignored my call, which means he ISN'T testing me, and he's actually mad about something.
for those of you who didnt answer my question or didnt see my question before, i will tell you guys now i have not the slightest idea of why he'd be mad at me. i don't remember being a brat or a bitch about anything to being mean at all. and the last time i talked to him was on new years eve when he told me we couldnt hang out that night. i was a little disappointed because he had invited me over when there was a possibility that he'd have other plans, which i thought was rude. isn't it? or was i the one out of line? anyways, we didnt fight about it, i just told him "whatever, i'll talk to you later" he said bye, and i hung up. and now he won't talk to me.
can someone give me any ideas on what to do/say/think/believe/wait for? thanks again, and if anyone answered my question before, thanks so much, but i hope you won't mind answering again ^.^ (link)
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hmmmm.maybe he thinks you guys broke up because you left him for awhole week without any contact.how long have you been together?depending on how long youv been together,if it was a short time then id say he though you guys broke up.
what id do is keep calling because you deserve and explanation.just keep calling him and if he doesnt answer txt him and say "i knew you werent man enough to talk to me,atleast tell me where we stand,dont run away"
soemthing like that,bring in the whole him not being a man because that really hits them hard
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So me and my bff went out with the same guy (not at the same time) and she still likes him and so do i... i think he like me in a friendly way and her in "that way" but id' rather be w/ him because she gets hurt and falls in love w/ guys at this young age (13) but i dont take it seriously and i dont want her to be w/ him because she falls for guys too easily instead of just being a kid and having (non-sexual) fun yuhknow? so do you think im jealous???huh? (link)
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well i think you could be jealous.your scared of letting her be with the guy you like.deep down your alittle jealous because he wants her and she wnats him back.what if she falls inlove easily?maybe he might love her back.eventhough,shes not going to learn until she makes the mistake herself.you just have to be there to pick up the pieces when soemthing does happen.
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I'v allways been the sam everytime i make a call, if the call is to some one i know well like a freind, manager or what ever im fine with it.
but if i make a phone call to some one i dont know say a new job postion im applying for, i go shakey and forget what im going to say. if i write it down and say what im readin in a near normall voice i can just about pull it off till im comfortable with the call. but its allways the dialing the number and calling part that is a problem. I dont really get it much if its some one phoning me i guess its happend a couple of times like that but the main one is me calling some one i dont know and iv been like it all my life. Know any good ways of breaking the habit? (link)
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i dont think you have a phobia of calling.i think that your just nervous about what your going to say to the person because you dont know them and unsure of what they may think of you as you want to make a good impression on them.if you have a phobia you be scared to even touch the phone and even call your friend or even pick up when someone is calling you.id say just relax and take a deep breath before you dial the number.just relax and try not to think so hard about what your going to say to the person just take it as it comes.through time youll get use to it dont stress its just a phone call sweety :)
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I take my sadness out on myself. I don't eat normally like other people. I know it's bad. But I can't stop thinking about it. The calories, the food, it's always in my head. But I'm so happy when I weigh a little. Like today I weighed 103 and I was in a good shock. I was scared that I might weigh more, but I weighed less.
I know that people view this as hurtful and I know in some part of me that it is. But it's not so simple. I like to see my bones. I like to not fit in a size 1. And I joke about my thinness with my friends. But it's not always a joke. I still see that pouch on my belly and I hate it.
I don't hate myself. Today I found that I looked beautiful. I haven't seen such a beautiful me in a long time. And I thought for a moment that I do love myself because I have a beautiful face. I don't have to be like these people whose lives I wish I was living instead of mine. There are individuals that I idolize, certain people, I wish I could be like them. But today I thought it's okay to be me. But these people aren't skinny necessarily. That's not why I do it. I just feel happy when I am thin.
I am not looking to tell my parents about this. They already force me to eat more. I don't even think I can change this. It's a part of me now. And I honestly don't think that any advice can change it. (link)
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im not sure what your asking but im just going to tell you that you dont have to not eat to feel and be skinny.by not eating your going to make yourself sick.you can become anemic which will cause your skin to turn yellow and cause red/dark bags under your eyes.your lips will become chapped from the low deficiancy you have in your body and you will become more imune to getting sick.your bones will become weak and you wont be able to do the things you want to do like play sports or lift heavy objects...your setting yourself out to getting hurt,physically.you need to eat so that your body can get the nutrients it needs for it to grow.so you had one day of feeling beautiful,wouldnt you want a lifetime of feeling beautiful??
you dont have to eat fatty foods just eat healthy thats all...eat some carrots,some celery sticks,have an apple.i promise you,your not going to gain wieght but you will look hot and more beautiful everyday and all the time
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im 17/f
i wanna get my belly button pierced, but my boyfriend of 2 years told me i could do whatever i want, he just doesnt like them. idk if i should get it or not bc his opinion matters a lot to me. what would you do? (link)
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if it matters to you then dont get it done.he said you can do whatever you want because he doesnt want to show that hes controlling you but if you get it done and knew that he doesnt like it then it could hurt his feelings because you didnt repect his opinion..or it could even put him off
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i dated a guy for over a year. he broke up with me like a little over a month ago, i was crushed and devestated but i'm getting over it now. i saw he was in a relationship so i texted him. he ended up calling me that night saying that he met someone that he needed as a friend, to be there and to understand him and then that girl just started liking him so he went along with it. (he was depression and not many real friends) he said that the more he hangs out with he's finding out that she's annoying. he told me he also told her that he needed a month to himself. i know he has depression (his parents are going through a divorce) but i'm getting scared that he's now suicidal. he asked me how i was taking the whole 'breaking up' thing and i was i was doing really well..then he said "we like switched roles this time" (we broke up once before and i was the one who was really upset) so yeah he told me he's never told anyone these secrets. he didn't tell me, but he hinted to me and came extremely close to. i know he's suicidal, just don't know the details. i also told him that if he ever needed a shoulder, i'm always here. and he said it meant alot and stuff.
so yeah he's dating this girl that he thinks is annoying, he says she caught him on the rebound and he's suicidal. his girlfriend obviously doesn't know about it. and i'm pretty sure i'm the only one who does since he said he can't open up to anyone at his school or his home. what do i do? i want him to open up to me. i didn't try to force it out of him but i told him i'm here. and what do you think of this whole girlfriend thing? i just need your guys' opinion and any advice would be amazingg. thanks. (link)
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now that he broke up with his gf hes going to feel so alone.he had you to keep him on track then he lost you and needed someone else so he got some other rebound to help him out.he feels alone and doesnt know how to deal with it soo hes trying all these other approaches by getting a rebound etc.
its really hard to help someone thats depressed because theyr past the stage where you can say soemthing and then theyll just listen to you.theyr past the stage where they think theres a better way than killing their self.
its hard to change someone thats depressed because theyv put up this barrier where they dont want anyone to help them and think that no one can help them or no one loves them etc.
right now he needs you more than ever.he broke up with that girl and now he has no one else except you.you just gotta be there for him even if he doesnt ask for it.just be there and talk to him and hang with him etc so that he know hes got somethign to live for.surprise him with things like take him on a picnic,go to the beach with him.treat him to the movies etc.just be his friend and let him know that you guys are just friends and that you miss him and wnat to hang out.keep in contact because thats pretty much all you can do for now
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hey! why do boys uses other girls to have sex only? (link)
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some boys use some girls to only have sex with them because they think theyr easy and think that the girl will do anything for them.usually its the pretty dumb girls that are most likely usuing the boy as well.
theyr the ones that wear the mini skirts up to their ass and show their clevage to the world and send dirty txt messages to guys.when they give it up like that a guy is just going to take it and think its so easy that hell just move on to someone else.
when you play hard to get it means your really worth keeping.guys had second hand girls that have been with many boys.
usually the guy that you love and loves you back is going to be the one that loves you for who you are not what you have to give :)
hope this helped ANswer your question
but seriously when you play hard to get and dont give yourself up too easily youll see which guys just using you and who actually wants you for who you are
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On new years eve,i met a guy at a party.He goes to my school and I actually have a class with him,i just never noticed or talked to him until the party.We ended up getting along really good and even kissed and whatnot.He texted me later that night and the next day to talk and we hungout again and he held my hand,kissed me goodbye etc.He texted me the next day to talk and the day after that we went on a double date and he bought me candy,paid for parking,and held my hand etc. Then he texted me later that night ,just to talk and again the next morning.Finally Monday comes around and he wasn't in school ,so when I got home i texted him and asked him why he wasn't.He wrote back 5 hours later,just saying he's sick and went to the doctor and we texted for probably only 10 minutes and he just stopped writing back. I didn't resend the text or text him again since he didn't respond because I didn't wanna be annoying. I'm wondering if he isn't interested anymore or if he's just sleeping and sick ...and if I'm overracting.Nothing bad happened and we've got along fine and he seemed very interested with me so it was random for him to stop talking to me but again,he may just be sick ...idk i worry to much! Should I wait for him to text me now ? (link)
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breathe breathe breathe!lol just relax!your over reacting.depending on what sickness he has,when i get the flu i just can not txt.i feel so sick that i cant even move and soemtimes i end up sleeping and forgetting about my txt.
what id do is wait for the next day to txt him.but make it about him just say hi and just say you were thinking about him and hoped that he feels better etc.make a joke out of it and tell him next time hes sick youll make him chicken soup or wish you were there to make him chicken soup so that he feels better.something sweet and nice
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I have quite big problems with my family at the moment and i do get rather upset about it at times, but im not allowed to talk to any of my friends about it and talking to coucillors and adults isnt like talking to friends, what should i do? (link)
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my parents are like that.whenever we have family problems they tell me not to tell anyone because no one can be trusted etc and what ever is said in this house stays in this house bla bla. so i have alot of experience with what your going through.
what i use to do is write how i felt on a piece of paper and rip it up afterwards.i felt soo much better letting my thoughts out and getting rid of them.it will work.you just write everything on that paper,how you feel,what your thinking etc and just rip it up into tiny pieces of paper and throw it away.
if that doesnt work you can always go to a counsillor.you may think they dont help but they do.having someone just listen to you will make a huge difference.everything is confidential and theyr there for you so you can trust them
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I am 14/f and my bf is 16/m. We were both in a relationship, we both broke up around the same time, and we started dating axpromiately three months after the break ups. So there was a gap. But the exes are whats causing some problems. His ex... Lets call her S and well call my boyfriend B. Alright so before I even knew B or liked him or anything, I've hated S. I reeeally don't want to go in to the details of why all that hatred is there but yeah... And my ex, isn't exactly important except that he really screwed me up. He was sixteen while we were dating and I was fourteen. After about a month he tried to have sex with me. I told him no, I wasn't ready, I'm too young. And he broke up with me. He told me that he was only dating me because he liked making out with me andd he thought it would be easy to get in my pants. I was heart broken. To know that someone only wants to use you for something like that and then drop you just makes you feel like shit, and I told myself I would never get involved with a boy like that again. So when I met B I was so happy. He's a good boy, really. We've been dating for like four months. And we haven't gone past making out. Well... the other night I got taken a little off guard when he told me that he had gone preeetty far with S. Not sex, but third base things that I am NOT ready for. I was so shocked... and really upset even though I had no right to be. They were dating and I didn't even like him like that then. I don't know why I got so upset. Some of it has to do with my hatred of S and it honestly makes me sick to know that B would do something like that with her. I love B and it actually makes me stomach hurt to think about it. But I also think most of it has to do with the fact that I don't want things expected from me. And I was scared. Here B had gone with this experineced pretty and willing girl and I... I felt like a little kid. I didn't KNOW that B had this experience. I talked to B about this and he told me I was beautiful and smart and that I actually cared about HIM and his personality which S never had. That I was more than he could want and he if he could take back what he did with her he would have never done it in the first place. That it was stupid of him. And he told me that I don't have to do those things with him. That he values being with me more than anything. That should make me feel better right? Well it did... Until I realized that Iiiii am the problem here. HE might not expect me to do those things but in my mind I raise this bar that I think I have to meet. HE might not compare me to her, but I do. I'm scared it will turn out like my ex. That he could leave me because I'm not ready for the things he is... B said he would never do that. I believe him. I trust him. But why do I still feel like crap? And why am I doing all this damage to myself? Why can't I think the same way B does? Help? (link)
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awwww!you sound like such a sweet girl!ok im 20 and im going through what your going through right now!the reason why you feel like you have to do stuff with B is because your ex was a user and abused you.he hurt you and only wantedd one thing from you.with B you love him soo much and your scared to loose him which is why you think you have to do things to make him happy and make him stay because he did it with that other girl.
you should know that you shouldnt feel pressured to do things with B just so he can love you more or stay with you because regardless,hes going to stay with you because he loves spending time with you and loves YOUU not what you can give him.
i mean look at S she gave it to him and they still never worked out.if its going to work between you and B its going to work because you have a strong bond not because he wants pleasure.if your not ready then dont do it because youll regret it TRUST ME.dont feel like you HAVE to do it because some other girl did it.
you cant think the same way as B does because he wasnt there when you got hurt by dumbass ex bf.he didnt see the tears and he didnt see the pain.so now you dont want to get hurt and you dont want to loose your super cool bf so you think pleasure will keep him.you need to know pleasure isnt the only way to keep your bf,and even if you pleasureed him and he doesnt feel right with you hes still going to leave.but right now even without pleasure he wnats to be with you so just believe him and let it come naturally.you know yourself your not ready and i think thats soo good of you to not let anyone pressure you into anything your not ready for soo well done!
just go with the flow and when your ready youll know.but if you do anything that your not ready of your not going to enjoy it and then your going to get paranoid and get hurt and feel used so dont do anything your not ready to do!
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I am taking my science GCSEs soon and i cant seem to get higher than a 'C'. But my parents really want me to excell in everything, i have written books, but when i got a C in english, my mum hit the roof. I only have 2 'A' predictions for my other GCSEs and i am afraid of what my parents might say. Help? (link)
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GCSE is really hard.i did it back when i was in school and my grades were shocking so i had to change and do another system.parents will always be parents.theyr always going to want you to do better.theyr always going to believe in you and push you higher than youd ever go.without them your not going to even try to do good.
my advice to you is to just try your hardest.i can only give you motivational words because in the end its all upto you.just lock yourself in your room,memorise and understand everything your studying.write heaps of notes and read them over and over again.dont study if your tired and your brain cant handle it because your not going to learn!motivate yourself and trick your brain to wnat to study by telling it that your going to staudy and your going to get an A!
believe in yourself and do all that you can do because at the end of the day theres nothing more you can do.try your best now so that after exams you can rest.im sure your going to do well and if your parents dont agree with your mark then just tell them how hard you tried.they can only be angry for some time and oventually theyr going to forget or let it go.
just do your best,thats all you can do!
best of luck!!!!
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How do I learn to handle alcohol better? I hate the taste, it makes me gag and I can get drunk after to Mike's Hards. Its ridiculous, I hate being the girl at the party that can't shoot whiskey or play beer pong because the tastes make me hurl immediately. Or the one that throws up and passes out after a couple of drinks! I want to at least be able to handle a party well. Anyone else have this problem? Is it because of my weight being smaller than some?
Female: 118lbs/ 22yrs old. (link)
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yeah the smaller you are the fast you get drunk.to be honest you really just need to find the right drink for you.i once got really drunk and after that the taste of alcohol made me gag till this day but i found the right kind of drink that i liked and stuck with it.if you get drunk quickly id try mixing the alcohol with juice or coke or aomething thats pretty much the only way sorry
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Do Crest whitening strips actually work?
I can't exactly trust an ad for this information, so if you have actually used the Crest whitening strips, could you tell me whether or not they worked for you?
I just want to know if they're worth getting. (link)
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i used them but they werent like the ad.they just whitened alittle bit not dramatically
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I'm 16/f. My boyfriend is 17.
God, I love him a whole lot. We just started dating, but we've been friends for so long that it's just like what was supposed to happen.
Except...
He lives an hour away from me.
I'm trying to be realistic here, because I'm only sixteen years old, so how does anyone expect a sixteen year old to even WANT to make a long distance relationship work.
It's just that, all the guys at my school are total jerks. And he's tired of all the girls at his school because they're kind of sluts. And we just have liked each other for so long.
It would've been easier if he still lived here, but he moved about a year ago.
I don't know what to do, if I should bother having this relationship or just stay friends. It's hard to make that decision because he's just so sweet to me, looking out for me. And it's so nice to actually have a guy care about you for a change.
Has anybody ever tried a long distance relationship before? Worth it or not? (link)
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if you both love eachother equally and both want to make it work then itll happen.itll work.why throw something away thats going to make you happy just because hes an hour away.its not like hell never see you right?you both have wanted this for soo long and now that you have eachother your thinking of throwing it away?i say stay with him because you both complete eachother.you both make eachother happy and it doesnt matter if hes an hour away he still makes you just as happy if he was there with you right??i say go for it
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