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Family Problems
I have quite big problems with my family at the moment and i do get rather upset about it at times, but im not allowed to talk to any of my friends about it and talking to coucillors and adults isnt like talking to friends, what should i do?
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why can you not talk to your friends about it? If you are looking for advice on the problem, contact us. We are all here to help you and give you advice in the best way possible. There are of course some people on here who are jerks and give terrible answers but I am sure you know how to tell the difference. Counslers are amazing people. You can change counslers if you are having problems with one or find it hard to talk to one. their are young counslers who understand things you go through. I would love to be a counsler I just need to get the time to go to college i have 2 soon to be 3 kids. contact me if you need someone to talk to ashaboo77@yahoo.com
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my parents are like that.whenever we have family problems they tell me not to tell anyone because no one can be trusted etc and what ever is said in this house stays in this house bla bla. so i have alot of experience with what your going through.
what i use to do is write how i felt on a piece of paper and rip it up afterwards.i felt soo much better letting my thoughts out and getting rid of them.it will work.you just write everything on that paper,how you feel,what your thinking etc and just rip it up into tiny pieces of paper and throw it away.
if that doesnt work you can always go to a counsillor.you may think they dont help but they do.having someone just listen to you will make a huge difference.everything is confidential and theyr there for you so you can trust them
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I am not sure what these problems entail and not at all sure why you wouldn't be allowed to talk with your friends about it? I must say I have a lot more questions than answers for you...
With that said, if you don't have the option of talking to ANYONE about this (either because you can't or won't), maybe you could keep a journal. You could write it all down for yourself. You could also write a letter to someone, even if it is not mailed or sent. It won't solve any problems but may allow you to vent a bit about your troubles.
Sorry I can't be more helpful than this. I am just not sure what to say without knowing more info. Good luck!
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