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Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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Please, do the people on here a favor and type correctly, instead of wrtin lyk dis cuz ppl lyk muh cnt red dat. No offence, but save the lingo for Instant Message.


Thanks loves (link)
I agree with you! If you need advice with something, make sure you're actually writing it to us in some form of language - and yes, save the lingo for Instant Message! =)


ok theres this guy that's really cute and i'm cool with him but sometimes he just looks at me really hard and smiles and i smile back at him when he does that. Do you think he likes me. (link)
He probably thinks you're absolutely beautiful...hehe =)

Yes, those are all signs that he likes you, and if you like him and if you're confident - then approach him on the subject, but if not, wait till he comes to you =)


i cant find any eyeliner that will stay on after 3rd period!! can anyone tell me any brands or how to make what ive got stay on? (link)
Try NYC's pencil eyeliner, it works great! =)


Hey your really good and I was wondering if you could help me with this:

ok yesterday my boyfriend broke-up with me..I cried soo hard..I really want him back..he sent this to me and I wanna know if it means that I have a chance:

Me: hey...:'(
Him: hey
Him: sry
Me: why did you?
Him: i am f u c k e d up
Me: what happened to I never wanna break
up?
Him: i dunno
Me: then why would you say that? :'(
Him: i am sry
Me: why did you break up with me tho
Him: i dont kno
Me: w.e
Me: everyones saying cause you still like
Britney
Him: well tht but i dunno
Me: o
Me: O
Me: sry
Him: for wat
Me: I'll give you back your jersey
tomorrow...:'(
Him: ok? im really sorry
Me: yeah...
Him: u hate me dont u
Me: if I did why would it matter obviously
you hate me if you broke up with mee...
Him: well i dont hate u
Me: yes you do...
Him: no the h e l l i dont
Me: w.e
Me: well you obviously dont like me so..
Him: wait would u ever go out with me again
Me: yes
Him: no i like u.
Him: cause i had no time to think so mby
Him: i will tell u tommorrow
Me: tell me what?
Me: ?
Him: nvm
Him: i g2g
Me: no wait
Me: tell me what tomorrow?!
Him: nvm
Him: bye
Me: w.e
Him: not to be mean
Him: ok
Him: cya
Me: bye
Me: :'(


and then he signed off..so I was wondering if I still have another chance with him after that convo? well today I wrote him a note saying that I still like him a lot and that I wanna go back out with him and I put that everyone was saying that if he went out with Britney that it was a big mistake ( britney is the girl he likes..shes a huge slut and has no friends no1 likes her ) because she had no friends then I put I'm not just saying that so you dont go out with her..and then my friend put on the note I think you guys should go out..so that was the note..so I was wondering if he gets online tonight what I should say to him for him to go back out with me..sorry its soo long..please help! _I rate high_
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Wow! I wish my life had this much drama in it! Hehe =)

Your old boyfriend might want to go out with Britney because she's a huge slut and guys like to do things, so he knows that he could easily experiment on her and get pleasure. But, then again, another part of him is saying to run back to you because you were probably his first love, and he still feels very connected and needs to be with you.

If he comes online tonight - wait until he IM's you! I know it's very difficult to do this when you see his screenname in your buddylist, but you have to! Hehe! When he IMs you, start off by saying to him that he broke your heart when he broke up with you, and you kind of have mixed feelings toward him now. You still love him, but you're mad and upset that he dumped you - and maybe because he wanted to go out with Britney and do stuff.

But, if you're really a strong person, try to just cope with all this madness and not even bother to talk to your ex until he confronts you online/phone/face-to-face. It doesn't matter if your friends say you two should get back together, it's up to you guys and if you can work out your troubles TOGETHER!

Wow, sorry this is so long! I'm not even sure if I answered your question completely =/ I just hope that everything turns out the way you hope it to, and come to me when you need advice again! Good luck, hun =)


lately my best friend has seemed kind of unfriendly 2 me... she'll talk 2 me still but still seem kinda bored and like she has other things 2 do... i dont get it... i know i should talk 2 her but thats easier said then done... AdViCe?!?!?! (link)
Your best friend may just be getting distracted with school, family, sports, etc. You have to remind her that you two have to plan something to do this weekend and have just girl time so you guys can catch up on what has been happening around you.

Just call her up - I mean, she is your best friend and all - you should be able to discuss anything (including in which direction your friendship is going) and she should be open to hear it all =)

Good luck & tell me how it all turns out!

xo


see i like this boy but hekinda likes this other girl so what do i do??? (link)
Does this boy know you like him? If not, I think you should try to hint at him that you like him! Flirt a little at school, and try to hang with him when you go to sport games or maybe even invite your friends and his friends to the movies =)

Don't try to compete with this other girl, just hang with this boy and start a nice friendship first, and then he'll see who he really wants to be with!

Good luck & I hope you get your man! =)


I'm thinking about eventually getting colored contacts. I already wear contacts because of my poor vision. There are 2 parts to my question. The first part is, do they make prescription colored contacts? The second part is what would be the best color to use? I have dark brown eyes if that helps. Thanks a bunch! (link)
Yes, they make prescription colored contacts, and I would recommend a warm honey color or light brown to bring out your eyes =)

Have fun with your new lenses!


Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody... (link)
To me, "hooking up" means to be "going out" with somebody, like boyfriend/girlfriend.

Also, people interpret "hooking up" to be like a one-night-stand type thing, but I'm really not sure of the true definition of it because it's slang! =)


im a junior in high school. but i want to open my own restaurant/be a chef.. i want to go to FSU. but i want to noe if that is the best college for that and if not what r the best colleges to go to for that type of major. tanx (link)
Go to the C.I.A. in California. C.I.A stands for the Culiany Institute of America. I'm sure that they have a website, so go to Google and type it in! Hope I helped you and good luck wherever you choose to go for college! =)


how do you unsave your password on this website? so when you come to this website you have to log in instead of being logged in already..?
plz respond asap! (link)
I don't think you can change that feature! If there's a button that says "Disable feature" when the box shows up, then obviously click that - but then again, I don't think you can unsave your password! =/


Ok, im a gurl and i have a little mustache thingy and i never really thought to much of it til now. and i feel like other ppl notice it which i know they do. what should i do? should i shave it or trim it or wax it or i dunno lol. plz help... thanx a bunch!!
and ill rate yu! (link)
I'm not sure what the exact name is, but check at CVS or another store that sells Sally Hansen products and they have a great pain-free way to remove unwanted facial hair =)

If not, try waxing it! It will hurt, but the results are beautiful!

Tell me if you need more help or just drop another one in my inbox! =)


i have a really bad cold and i really need to get over it. Can you guys give me some helpful tips on getting rid of colds?
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Make sure you go to bed really early, and try to not be so active during the day. Also, drinking lots of fluids (especially water) will help filter out your system and fight the cold. For your stuffy nose, use a cold medicine like Advil or Ibuprofen.

Hope you feel better! =)


Okay, I know that when your pregnant you can not take any medications other than Tylenol. I also know, you can't get any work done on your teeth because you can't receive x-rays or novacaine either. The problem is some of my teeth, in teh back on the left side, hurt really bad. I don't know if it hurts from lack of calcium or becasue I have cavities. When I ever I drink something cold, it hurts even worst. Does anyone know anything I can do to make the pain stop? (link)
You should see your doctor and ask him/her what you can do to ease the pain just a bit. You could be developing a cavity, or your teeth could just be really sensitive right now!


whats a good place to get icons for ur livejournal? (not aim buddy icons but the bigger pics that ppl use for their journals)
thanx
-lauren (link)
This website is awesome -> http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=icons_for_you

Hope you like it! =)


hey i dont get it when people write "ii" what does that mean??
EX: kiiss this...dont get it can someone please tell me?! (link)
Some people just think it looks cooler or better to write "ii". Or, maybe some are just careless and don't realize that they're hitting the "i" key more than once!

Hope I helped you =)


ok, my boyfriend of 3 years wants to go into the army for about 4 or 5 years. i was just wondering, is there any chance of him getting hurt,dying,etc? b/c if there is..i cant let him go. please help me. ill rate high. (link)
Why are you asking us at Advicenators this question? Obviously there are hundreds of risks involved when someone wants to join the army! I don't want to go into the horrible details...


Ok, I just started becoming closer friends with this girl this year, and now she WON'T STOP CALLING ME!! Like, every single day, twice a day! I don't wanna talk on the phone with her every day. How do I get her to stop calling without hurting her feelings? (link)
I know it's mean, but if you have Caller I.D. and can see when she's calling, just don't pick it up! If not, when she calls say that you're busy with homework or something and that you'll talk to her in school.

If she asks you in school why you never talk on the phone, just say you don't like the phone or something! But, if you don't want to lie about it (which I completely understand) just tell her that you don't want her to call everyday because you can't be on the phone 24/7 and your parents don't like you being on the phone all the time.

I hope I helped you a little, feel free to ask me more if you want to! =)


hi ... im like in love with this guy and he knows it and im really nice to him and stuff i say hey to him and he used to ALWAYS say hey back and he told me EVERYTHING there is to know about him even his person life and he is now on the cms football team and now when i say hey to him on yahoo he doesnt answer but answers my sister and when i see him in school i say hey to him and he looks away ... like he doesnt know me .. he tells me NOTHING now its like football got to his head .. and he jus says dont worry bout everything and im not worrying why he gets in trouble im worrying about him !! what should i do ?? plz answer back ... lots of love
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I think you should stop paying attention to this guy for a little while. I think that football HAS gotten to his head, and you should just leave him alone to let him figure himself out - and then see if he's interested in you. Just don't bother with him!

I hope I helped you! =)


ok me and my EX boyfriend havent seen eachother since june 25...right thats along time!! well last night he saw a pic. of me and his cousin that we took like 2days ago at the mall and he was like "so who u goin out wit" i said "no one" and he said he wasent wit no one either!! then he was like "so when ya gunna giv me my pic?" and i was like o ya saw it and he said "yea u look fuckin fine in the picture!!" and he said he still loves me...sooo should i get back with him cz i still love him and umm... im gunna see him on saturday!!..help!! (link)
Why are you asking us here at Advicenators? You should totally go back with him because you two are obviously still in love with each other!

Have fun on Saturday and tell me how it goes! =)


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whenever i get a zit, i get everything out of it, but then the next day its bigger than it was when i popped it! help!

-JeNNi (link)
Wow, that's weird, because usually when you get everything out of your zit, it tends to not swell as much and eventually disappear! Try putting some Clearisil Vanishing Acne Cream on it - it will help dry out that area and hopefully make that zit vanish =)

If you need some more tips just let me know.




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