If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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i'm a 19 year old guy. i figured i'd start with that as well most other people start their questions that way too. she's an 18 year old girl. nothing wrong there so far right? well she has a thing for a friend of mine. but my friend doesn't like her at all. problem is i've developed some feelings for her in this time. we've gone out on a couple of dates hung out nothing serious really. but last night she feels it necessary to tell me she likes him. i knew this, it didn't stop me, and i didn't care that she liked him cause i knew how he felt towards her. now this was in a message she left me and since then has said nothing to me. now here comes m question:
why would she say this to me in the first place? what could her motive have been? is it to tell me she doesn't like me and wants me to back off? (if so that's fine) or is it to tell me to leave her alone altogether? or is it some weird way of sayin g she's starting to like me? or is it just some random thing to say that is totally meaningless and going nowhere? she told me she knows he doesn't feel that way for her, and that she knows he's got his own girl issues now and yet she still likes him. i assume she wants me to ease up and let her be, but i don't know i can't read a girl's mind and if i could i doubt i'd want to (too much crap about makeup and gross things) but whatever the case what do you folks think is the meaning of all this? (link)
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I have absoulutely no idea. With them, a statement like that could mean anything, as apparently you've already figured out. It could mean she really likes this other guy(like she said), she really likes you(to see if you'll get jealous), she just randomly said(kind of like when you say it's gunna rain later), she wants you to back off(the ugly duckling of the group) or it could mean something else all together. I wish I could help you, but I really don't know man.
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I have a question
Me and my boyfriend have done
Making out
Kiss
Hug
Hand Job
And hes fingered me times before
Is their anyway I can get an STD from that? (link)
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No, you can't get an STD unless you've actually traded fluids. Oral,anal, regular sex applies here. Now if you jerked him off and then licked the come off your finger, then yes you could've gotten an STD.
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LONG STORY!!!!SORRY
I'm 16 and recently went back to work at the restaurant I worked at the previous summer. I was surprised to find out that J., 20, had started to work there on the same day that I came back. We worked together last summer, I had no strong feelings for him this way or that.
I began to flirt with him immediately, normally I wouldn't do this, but I am comfortable around him. He's always set me at ease. I did childish things like throw parsley at him, he often attempted to throw it right back.
Anyway, as time went on we'd stand close together in the doorway, just subtle flirtatious things like that. Later, he began to flirt back with me by putting me in headlocks and lightly pushing me. Sometimes we'd hold hands until the next session of flirtation began.
To make a long story short (I'm sorry! I don't want to bore you! ^^;;) I asked him if he had a girlfriend, and he said he did. I almost slapped myself, was he ever planning on telling me if I never asked? I guess I should have asked earlier, but maybe I didn't want to know if he did...
So even though I really liked him I tried to not flirt with him, I felt that things were just "weird," because it feels so natural to have the flirtation between us. I don't want to hurt his girlfriend, but I can't help the way I feel...
So later after I pretty much had stopped my advances, he starts to flirt with ME again! (not vice versa!) What am I supposed to do?! I flirt back, because I still have strong feelings for him.
One night when we worked alone we got drunk (well I had 2 beers, he had 3) and we played around some more. We did the normal flirty things that we usually do, stand really close together, he holds me and runs his mouth/face over my neck/collarbone. Then our boss shows up, we scramble outside and I ride around with him in his car (I was afraid to drive).
He said he wanted to have sex with me, and I told him, "No way. I'm a virgin. I'd never have sex with you unless I really really liked you and you were my boyfriend."
I told him the last part to be nice. I'm really saving myself for marriage. Later before he dropped me off and said that he wanted to kiss me, but he said he shouldn't because, A. I'm "too young", and B. he has a GF. I gave him a kiss on the cheek and told him Goodnight. That way his GF can't be mad at him.
Another night (next week) we got drunk again at work, I had 3 wine spritzers and he had a beer. We fooled around some more and I kissed him, or he kissed me...I don't know. He told me I was a good kisser (but you never know because boys lie! :-P) and that he wanted me to kiss him again. I eventually end up kissing him more and more that night before we went over another restaurant that my boss owns. He's my second kiss, and I love kissing him. Of course, because I was drunk I told him that when I was kissing my first kiss I was thinking about him. (I was!)
He told me that he would date me if he didn't have a girlfriend already, I told him that I would wait for him...oh, he also said that he likes me.
He also told me that someone told his girl that I had a crush on him. We think it was one of the waitstaff, that told one of HER friends, that told his girl. (Yes, one big long chain of ppl ^^;;) I asked if he would act weird around me when that certain waitress was around, first he said probably, and then he said he would act the same around me. I was happy when he said that, I don't want things to change. Oh, this was also on another day of working alone together, we were sober!
So the day after our kiss, he acts Coldly around me. He tries to avoid me if possible, and barely talks to me. The next day is kind of the same, but he tells me he had a huge fight with his girlfriend (that wants to beat me up..) partly over me. He told me that he told his girl that he didn't care about me.
So here I am. I'm confused and lost. I really like him. I don't want to get burned, but it appears to be too late. I know that if I dated him, I would be the only one..but how would I be for sure when he flirts with me and has a girl?! I don't want to have these doubts, I trust him completely.
How should I act around him? What should I do? I just want to flirt with him, and he with me, and have everything be alright.
I can't stop thinking about him, and I just want him to come back to me. What has his problem been lately? I just don't understand. I can't turn to anyone else for help.
Thanks! (link)
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Ok you wrote me a novel here. I don't need that much to tell you that he's 20 years old and he knows that you're 16. Meaning? Well meaning that he's playing games with your head and he knows how you operate. You openly began flirting with him so he knows you're interested. It feeds a guy's ego to know that even though he has a gf, there's always a back-up plan. He had no real intentions of ever dating you seriously, but he does hope that you'll have sex with him. I know this because he openly said it. You did well in holding your ground, but poorly in that you keep flirting around with him. His girlfriends wanting to beat you up is totally stupid, he didn't exactly stop the flirting and you didn't immediately know that he had a gf. But once you did, you did the right thing. It was HE who started the flirting again. It was HE who propositioned sex. The best thing to do is get away from this head case. Besides, you sound like you're too young for these types of games anyway. You were too scared to drive and this is only the second guy you've kissed. But I totally respect the fact that you're a virgin. SEX IS Totally evil!!!!!!!!!
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okay i am 17f and my bf is 17 m i gave him head last night for like 15 minutes and he didnt cum he said it was because he had to go to the bathroom is it true that someone wont cum if they have to pee? ill rate high (link)
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I can come if I have to pee, but I prefer peeing first. I don't think he didn't come becuase you "sucked" at it. Pun fully intended.
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do you think a big nose is like a turn off..not like HUGE but i dont know..i was just wondering
im 15/f and i needed a guys opinion.. (link)
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No I don't.
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i have a wonderful bf of one month. we were friends beforehand for 8 months..we got so close..we have so much respect for one another and such a strong bond.
the problem? last night i was drinking with a bunch of friends..some of our guy friends wound up coming over. i was the drunkest i have ever been..i went up from behind 2 of my guy friends and hugged them from behind and my hand went over their crotch area. a little while later the guilt sunk in and i feel so horrible. i told my bf and he doesnt know what to think, he said we will talk today. my queestion : if this were to happen to you what would you do? what can i do to make this better? im thinking like making a solid promise to NOT drink again for as long as we are together... any other suggestions? what i did..is this understandable or is theere no excuse?
ive liked my bf for soo long..since the summer..and i finally got what i have wanted for so long. i dont want to ruin this relationship!!!!! i DONT cheat..what i did..that wasnt me!! i feel like crap omgg :(
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You fucked up a lot here. The first thing you did was get plastered in front of a bunch of guys. This was a mistake. The second thing was you rubbed this guy's cock a little bit. You were drunk;it happens and it's not really a big deal. At least you didn't give him a blow job. But the biggest mistake you made was telling the boyfriend. That tells me you weren't drunk enough to forget what happened. If it had somehow come up, you could have simply denied it or said "Well, I was drunk and it was an accident." I'm not coordinated when I'm drunk. And if he's that upset, he needs to get over it, you didn't do anything wrong.
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my bf had to move to another province for a job two months ago. I was really mad at him because he hadnt emailed me since he moved. I was even angrier on xmas day because I finally decided to make the first move to email him and he never wrote back!! So I phoned him on his cell (it's very hard to get hold of him normally cause he works in the oil camp) and luckily caught him on his break. He sounded really happy to hear from me and that he wished he could be with me. He also said that his internet wasnt hooked up yet and thats why he hadnt sent me any emails.
Although I'm not angry with him anymore, don't you think he should have phoned me weeks ago to tell me about his internet not being hooked up so I wouldn't worry? And why should I always be the one having to do the phoning.? Is this normal behavior, or is he playing some sort of game with me? Oh ya, I also remember HIM saying "I was wondering why I hadnt heard from YOU."
I rate high! (link)
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He's really busy. Making money. Guys don't play games, that's a girl thing. He means it when he said that nice shit to you. Don't give him hell when he gets home, give him a blow job to show how much you care.
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I am 17 year old boy. My height is 5.8. I am worried about my penis size. My penis size is only 4 inch. When I see it is in normal condition it looks very small like penis of a child. I guess it is not genetic problem because my 15 year old brother has 5 inches and my father has also good length (I don’t know the exact size but it looks big & thick). This situation resulted inferiority complex in me. Once my bro saw me (un-erected) and said oh! You have tiny thing. I just laughed and said it is not hard. Things like that put me on back seat. Is there any authentic method to increase the length. What is the normal size of a man. Till what age the length may be increased.
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Dicks come in all shapes and sizes. The average boner is only about 5 and half to 6 inches. If I watch porn, yeah I feel small too, because those guys are like 9 and 10 inches. Your cock has probably stopped growing and there's not much you can do to make it grow. Don't try. Dick size is something you can't help, has nothing to do with your masculinity, and it is compared to small tits on women. Most women say size doesn't matter anyway(most, not all) and the height of sensation is in about the first 2-3 inches inside of her. You got that covered. Tell your bro "Why would I get my dick hard around you?" Don't worry about your cock.
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what do you think is the longest someone should be grounded for for sneaking out and swearing and there parents. my friend wanted me to ask because she did that and she doesnt think its fair how long she's grounded for. thanks. (link)
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About a month.
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My height is really starting to get me really angry, for a girl, i guess i am actually TOO tall. Im 15 and im around 5'10'' and every single day someone just has to say something about it and it is really just making me angry the comments and the slurs and juswt everything and its so complicated, its not something small because its not something i can change, people always make fun of me and whenever im with any of my friends i feel so left out because when we take pictures when we have to stand up together i just feel like a giant cuz the rest of them are normal and everyone always makes fun of me. Its upsetting me so badly. Im always known as the tall girl and i just feel so left out I cant handle it because everyone ALWAYS says stuff and i cant ignore it and every time someone does it builds up inside of me. I just want to feel normal. I cant get into modeling etc..so what should i do to make myself feel better about myself? and i dont have any tall friends to hang out with to make myself feel..more fit in. Any suggestions on what to do? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with being my height. I'm 5'10. Since there is not much you can do about it anyway, use it. Play volleyball or basketball. And there are indeed tall models out there. Girls mature faster than guys anyway, you probably won't grow more. In fact, some guys NEVER mature. That's a joke. Laugh. Why do people say shit anyway? You can't help your height. Just say "I'm not tall, you're just short motherfucker".
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My height is really starting to get me really angry, for a girl, i guess i am actually TOO tall. Im 15 and im around 5'10'' and every single day someone just has to say something about it and it is really just making me angry the comments and the slurs and juswt everything and its so complicated, its not something small because its not something i can change, people always make fun of me and whenever im with any of my friends i feel so left out because when we take pictures when we have to stand up together i just feel like a giant cuz the rest of them are normal and everyone always makes fun of me. Its upsetting me so badly. Im always known as the tall girl and i just feel so left out I cant handle it because everyone ALWAYS says stuff and i cant ignore it and every time someone does it builds up inside of me. I just want to feel normal. I cant get into modeling etc..so what should i do to make myself feel better about myself? and i dont have any tall friends to hang out with to make myself feel..more fit in. Any suggestions on what to do? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with being my height. I'm 5'10. Since there is not much you can do about it anyway, use it. Play volleyball or basketball. And there are indeed tall models out there. Girls mature faster than guys anyway, you probably won't grow more. In fact, some guys NEVER mature. That's a joke. Laugh. Why do people say shit anyway? You can't help your height. Just say "I'm not tall, you're just short motherfucker".
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I was at work the other day and this creep came up to me while i was pricing clothes for the boxing day sale. He knew me back from when I used to volunteer at the local food bank. He came up to me and demanded I give him my phone number. He got angry because I wouldnt, and then said in a mean voice "just put your little pen in your little hand and write your number down on your piece of paper and give it to me". The nerve!! I tried not to get angry and told him how busy I was. He finally left.
So my question was is this sexual harrassment? (link)
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It's not sexual harassment. But it is definitely good ole regular harassment. What can you do? Not much. He didn't do anything illegal. But you can notify the manager if he comes in again and pulls this shit.
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Hi everyone!
My name is Todd, and I am a 15-year-old teenager. Well, my question is whether or not I should take the next step. Let me explain.
About close to a year ago, I met this girl, Andrea, in my Freshman year, and she and I didn't date, but we were good friends. We were both the same age, but I was about a month older. Through the months, we knew more and more about each other from our last names to what candy we like.
As strange as it seems, I've never had a relationship, much less my first kiss. I am trying to see if Andrea likes me or not, but more than a friendship. Some relationships can be harsh, so I don't want to try that, but I just want to know if she has the same or at least similar feelings that I do for her.
I am always glad to be around her, and sometimes I hang around her more than some of my other friends. I've also noticed that when I am with her at lunch, she wants these other girls at the table to go away, since they're annoying, but I'm not sure if it's just because she wants to be alone with me or something, since she and I usually sit alone.
As far as hanging out goes, she and I have hung out at my home once, and we've seen each other at school. I've been trying to hang out with her more, but she has a dysfunctional family which makes it tough for us to hang out on weekends. She is also depressed, so I try to help her through it.
I have been trying to show her that I love her by telling her that I care about her, how much I do care about her, and by doing things for her, like buying her gifts or getting things for her. Whoa, lot of "her"s in that one. Well, anyway, she never freaks out, but she always smiles and sometimes nods her head up and down a little bit. She might say things like "that's nice" or "thanks", but I never really can tell if she is nervous or anxious. I remember when I told her that I did really care about her, she smiled but she kind of laughed, and she said "I'm sorry for laughing...".
So, I would like to ask if I should take the next step and try asking her out. My parents have said I shouldn't because of her family, and some of my friends have said to go for it, just because she's single.
Thanks for reading this.
Todd (link)
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Todd, look you're a nice guy. I can tell. It really boils down to whether or not you want to go out with her. And you do. So you really have nothing to lose by asking her. But be careful. There's two possible sceneraios I see here. The first one is the one you want:she really cares a lot about you too and would love to be your girlfriend. The second is the ugly one, the one I get: She cares about you, yeah, but only as a friend and she doesn't have the heart to tell you. When she nods and smiles, does she say "I really care about you a lot too?" and then kind of gaze into your eyes, like kiss me asshole. If she doesn't, that's not so good. Stop buying her stuff. If she laughed, that's really bad. Ask her out, but don't expect the world here man. If she says no, then it's ok.
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How would I properly say this sentence -
If I were you.
If I was you.
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It sounds better to say If I were you, but the correct way is If I was you. Start a sentence. I was going to the mall when I got attacked by two giant spiders. It is not correct to say I were going to the mall when I got attacked by two giant spiders.
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I was just wondering if it's possible to loose a pound a day? If so, how? Thanks. (link)
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It's not. You'd have to burn 3200 calories more than you take in in a day. Strenous cardio work only burns maybe 700 calories in a 45 minute period for me. And I'm a guy that weighs 175 pounds. Then you'd skip a meal thinking you were making up for it, but it just slows your metabolism. Try to lose a pound every week to week and a half. You can't lose a pound in a day. Maybe a pound of water weight, but not of fat. And it's not healthy to try.
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I have to go for my first "girly" check up alone because I am having problems at school and they are being slowly sorted out but my parents know nothign about it but my health is going down. What I want to know is during this check up do they really look at your vagina and boobs and what do they do to them? Also do they do anythign to your bum? I am really embarrest andits happening in a month please give me some advice. (link)
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I really don't know because I am a guy and have never had a girlie check up. They're probably gunna look at your vagina and your boobs, but what will they do exactly? Never had an inspection like that. I know with guys the doc grabs your balls and tells you to cough. We get the old finger-up-the-ass which feels pretty shitty if I do say so myself. You should be ok at your check up. Don't be embarrassed.
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Do teen guys (around 14/15 years old) care a lot about a girl's weight? I get a dress down day tommorrow for school (my school wears uniforms) and i want to look nice but im really insecure about my thighs and i dont know if all the guys will be like OMG shes sooo fat and not like me. I know it shouldnt matter but i want to know if its a big issue with guys in general. (directed towards teenage guys reading this: ) when you look at a girl a you think shes pretty would she be unattractive to you if her legs are kinda big? do a girls looks really matter if you like her?
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To answer question 1, that's pretty much all they care about, aside from looks, of course. The guys won't say how fat your theighs are, the girls might, but guys don't notice shit like that. I've liked kinda fat chicks in my time, but there weren't like obese. And they were nice. And I'm really stupid. A girl's looks matter to an extent. If you get to know her, then looks don't matter as much. But it is the thing that first attracts everyone and will or will not give you more leeway in a relationship.
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Here's the story. I'm 15, female, and don't know how to ask my parents if my boyfreind can come up to my grand parents house with me over winter break? My mom, sister, and I are all going up to my grand parents house and I'd relly like if my boy freind could come up with me over winter break in Febuary. I don't know how to ask my mom. It's nit like we'd even have to sleep in the same bed if my parents didn't want us to because my grand parents have a big house with plenty of beds. Only my mom and sister will be coming so it will be a little easier without my dad there. Please help. (link)
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Just do it. She'll probably say no, but so what? Just be nice and ask her. There's not really any other way to do it. I'd let you do it. Unless you were a nymphomaniac.
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ok so me & my bf had sex and we had done it once, and then like 10 mins. later again, so we had two condoms used , well when he left he tied them together and i saw them tied and there was a bunch of juice in them .. it was pretty much clear
so basically im wondering what that was since im pretty positive its not cum
ill rate 5's
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I'm not sure why you're so positive it wasn't cum. If a guy just blows his wad ten minutes after the main event, he's not gunna have a whole lot of bullets left. This is why his semen was clear. There doesn't sound like there's anything wrong with him.
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I am a 20-year-old woman and have a friend of eight years whom I'm trying to break it off with. She calls me her "best" friend but lately I've realized I don't even like her -- I mostly stay with her out of habit. I mean, she is an okay person and I wish her the best, but I'm not especially fond of her and I'm tired of having to support her and let her cry on my shoulder all the time (this happens a lot, as she has a rough life and some issues with depression and cutting). She also has a tendency to get angry over very small things, and after I had to apologize for the 100th time for making some little remark which would not have offended anyone but her, I realized I didn't want to be friends anymore -- I am not getting enough out of the relationship for what I put in. I thought I could "lose touch" with her and the relationship could die a natural death, so I've avoided her for a month, not returned calls and so on. But she has come to me and demanded to know why I am acting this way.
If I tell her the truth -- that I'm not angry but don't want to talk her -- she'll never believe that. If I tell her I don't like her behavior (getting mad so easily etc), she will apologize and promise to change, I will get softhearted and forgive her, then after a few weeks she'll get mad at me again for no reason and round and round we go. (I know because this has happened before.) How do I resolve this without (A) deeply hurting her or (B) leaving me stuck in a friendship that does nothing for me? (link)
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It sounds to me that the reason this person seems to be so clingy and demanding is because nobody else will put up with her. So she dumps all her emotional problems and baggage on you. She needs a man, but she's not gunna be able to get one if she's always so insecure about these seemingly harmless comments. You do need to tell her the truth about what she does and how it bugs you, no matter what you think she'll say. Tell her you know how she'll react. Don't go softhearted. At the same time, highlight her good qualities(she has to have SOME). If it gets messy, it gets messy. But the two things she needs is a man and a therapist. You have to tell her how you feel about your friendship, if you don't you'll be screwed forever.
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