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Is this harrassment?


Question Posted Monday December 26 2005, 3:09 am

I was at work the other day and this creep came up to me while i was pricing clothes for the boxing day sale. He knew me back from when I used to volunteer at the local food bank. He came up to me and demanded I give him my phone number. He got angry because I wouldnt, and then said in a mean voice "just put your little pen in your little hand and write your number down on your piece of paper and give it to me". The nerve!! I tried not to get angry and told him how busy I was. He finally left.
So my question was is this sexual harrassment?


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RyanLover258 answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 5:52 pm:
No. It is not harrassment BUT what you should do is if he comes back and does the same thing, then say,"Fine. I give up. Here is my number....." and give him the rejection hotline number. You can find rejection hotline number by going to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) and give him the number!

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xOx_LoOvE_xOx answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 5:47 pm:
Its not considered as sexual harrasment . Maybe he was pissed about something and wanted your fone number but just said it in a "wrong" way. Anyway if itn was sexual harrasment he would of grabbed you or "touched" you or something so im pretty sure its not !!


ps-if it occurs again you should report it to the police ir something !!

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MELiixMARiiE answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 3:18 pm:
No, it's not sexual harassment because nothing sexual occured, but it is just a regular kind of harassment. He did nothing illegal. He was just being a huge huge asshole. But even though he didn't do anything illegal, doesn't mean you shouldn't do something about it. If he ever tries to do it again, tell your manager about it so then if he ever DOES come in again, he may be asked to leave you alone, or leave the store. I hope I helped.





Love,
Mel

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kevin1986 answered Monday December 26 2005, 10:45 pm:
It's not sexual harassment. But it is definitely good ole regular harassment. What can you do? Not much. He didn't do anything illegal. But you can notify the manager if he comes in again and pulls this shit.

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Monday December 26 2005, 3:48 pm:
It's not sexual harrassment. It is harassment though. Sexual harassment would be if he were touching you or making obscene gestures towards you.


Let your manager at the place you work at know that he is bothering you.. If he comes in again and starts to ask you again, threaten to call the cops. If he doesn't leave, or is even more persistant then call the cops. He probably will be charged with harrassment and could be fined or thrown in jail. If you wanted, you could even file a restraining order against him.

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xxoBriannax answered Monday December 26 2005, 12:55 pm:
It's not sexual harrassment. He didn't say anything in the sexual nature to you. If he keeps bothering you, however, it is harrassment.

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cailoisa answered Monday December 26 2005, 11:26 am:
Very rude and annoying? Yes. Sexual harassment? No.

You should talk to the person in charge where you work and inform them of the situation as soon as possible. They might ban him from the store, or at least let him know that he is not welcome.

If he comes back with a similar attitude, you might have grounds for a restraining order. If he approaches you, just walk away from him and head towards either security or someone in charge. He'll probably go away, and if he doesn't, you'll at least have someone to witness the behavior.

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jamaicanhotty717 answered Monday December 26 2005, 9:31 am:
i think in a way that it can be considered sexual harrassmant. why else would he want your #
(no offence)? jus think about it. he is a different sex or gender than you right?

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DangerNerd answered Monday December 26 2005, 5:16 am:
Hello there,

If he returns, it sounds like straight out stalking to me.

As for what legally makes for sexual harassment try this:

only search advicenators.com


That will really clear things up for you.

DangerNerd.

P.S. If you see this guy approaching you again, make sure you are in, or move to a place with lots of people.

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