i had sex with a guy and im not sure if he nutted in me or not what should i do, if i dont want my parents to find out?
IF you don't have your period around your normal time, wait a week and go to the drug store and buy a pregnancy kit and hope it doesn't come up positive. If it does, you may want to find a close family member to discuss your options. I hope this helps and good luck.
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ok i really want to sleepover with one of my friends but my other friend wants me to what should i tell her and not hurt her feelings.. please HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
See if you can all sleep over at one house. If not be nice to your friend and explain you made a promise to someone else already. If you had made the promise to her first, she wouldn't want you to blow her off for someone else. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I am 15/f and I have a bit of a weight problem. First thing, does 170 pounds sound like im fat to you? Anyways I asked my friends about it they say I dont look that big or anything but when I look in the mirrior I hate what I see. And when me and my friends all go shopping i get really sad. Because all my friends are like toothpicks and fit into size four at the biggest. i am always missing out on trying on cool dresses or tops because I would never fit. And whats worse is that when my friends say there is something I should try on, I have to say no because they wouldnt even come close to fitting me and my friends dont understand that I hate my weight. So to work on this problem I have tried twice to go on a diet. Throughout it I never once broke it. The first time it was for the whole summer and a month, so four months in total, but lost NOTHING! I stayed the same wait. Then the secound time I tried to lose wait I did it for three months, with no sugar or excess fats, and I watched the calories. I even exercised once everyday three days. AND I GAINED WAIT! TEN WHOLE FRICKIN POUNDS!!! I have no clue why. Does anyone have any ideas? Also does anyone have any advice on losing wait fast? I would like to drop weight by the time I go into highschool next year. So I have around five months, even a few pounds would be nice. ALL ADVICE IS APPRIECIATED!!!
One big help is to have your parents no bring any tempting junk food into the house. Even a little bit can crash any good diet. If you take those temptations away, that's a good start. Try to eat more fruits and veggies if possible. Eat 5 or 6 smaller meals as your body will be able to burn off small amounts of food easier. Don't skip any meal because you will be tempted to overeat on the next meal. Allow yourself one cheat meal a week because if you deprive your body of something good, you won't want to stick with the diet. Do your best to cut back on breads and sugars. If you're going to exercise start off slow, so you don't get hurt of have to stop for a few days. Start by walking 1/2hr a day then move up 15 min each week for a month. Find some light hand weights and do a few arm lifts but only do that every other day. Finding a friend or relative to do some of these things will increase your success rate greatly. Unfortunately you can't expect miracles overnight but if you stick to a good plan, the weight will shed off. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Thinking about having sex in public. My SO and I are going to try it at the park in the woodsy type of area. It's a risk that we're both excited and anxious to take. Thrills are good...
But I wanna do it to where it isn't as noticable as we could make it seem. What positions would be best?
I was thinking about straddling him or something.
Outdoor sex is some of the best sex. My suggestion is to wear a nice summer dress with nothing on underneath and tennis shoes. That way if someone does come nearby, you can be easily covered up. Find a large boulder and have him lean against it and you can back into him. From afar it just looks like your sitting on his lap. Against a tree is kinda hot also. I hope this helps and I hope you don't get arrested.
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15 F
me and my girlfriend have been together for almost a year now and we've never kissed we hardley hold hands basicly we dont act like a couple, but i want that to change but im not sure how to. Any advice?
You need to start with holding hands. It's the basic sign of affection in any relationship. Playing with her hair and telling her things you like and what you find attractive on her will help. Rub her shoulders and maybe her back a little will help you both relax and can just enjoy each others company. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. I hope this helps and good luck.
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my boyfriend asked me "babe , can i have some porn pics of you? :\ "
do you think i should do it? and what exactly do i take a photo of?
im 13 by the way
Do not do it. I don't care how hard he tries to talk you into it, don't give in. You can never get those back once you break up and they'll be in every guys phone. All guys tell you they love you and they would never do anything to hurt you but at that age, they do. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im having trouble getting wet and having a really high orgasm, any tips? im using a vibrator
Try clearing your mind and be relaxed. If you want a really big O, it takes a little time and patience. You need to turn yourself on before you try to get right to it. Watch a little porn or think about something that turns you on. Slowly caress your body and tease yourself. If you have a dildo, use that but work it slowly. Use your fingers to tease your clit. Then after at least 5 or 10 minutes of teasing, you should be ready for the vibrator. Start off on a low setting then work toward the highest. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im 16
so since every one is talking about like masterbating and sex and stuff like that its turning me on should i just masterbate now? plus my boyfriend is at work...what should i do.?
I'm surprised you waited till now to touch yourself. Most kids start touching themselves around puberty. There is nothing wrong with relaxing and having a good orgasm by yourself. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I am obsessed with watching gay/lesbian porn how do I stop?
I'm not sure what reason you would have for wanting to stop but as long as you're not hurting anyone or it doesn't interfere with your daily life, you can keep watching. Your parents or maybe your religion is against same sex relationships but poeple have the right to choose whomever they want to be with. Don't let other people judge you for your actions. Live your life however you see fit. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm sixteen and a female.
This is weird for me to post advice about this on here, but whatever.
I masturbate frequently. I mean, not crazy, like to the point it runs my life, but about two or three times a day. Sometimes it's because I'm turned on for a random reason, or just because it feels good. But sometimes I just feel so gross afterwards.
I also watched some porn last night and today. I feel so nasty afterwards and I don't want to feel that way because it is normal, right? So why do I feel so disgusted after I do those types of things?
Thanks a lot!
When I was your age, I would play with myself 3 or 4 times a day sometimes. So, you are perfectly normal. I think I would do it just because I was bored but usually I was turned on by something. I would find candles or anything I could around the house to use as a dildo to make myself orgasm. There were a few occasions where I would have a slight guilty feeling after I came but it would go away soon after. I'm guessing your gross feelings are similar to my guilty feelings, so there's nothing wrong with you there. When I was younger, my older sister said it was better to masturbate, than to bang a bunch of guys. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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My name is Madison and I am 13. I have lots of bestfriends but recently I became bestfriends with a girl called Kayla. We have become soo close that we are basically sisters.
Recently, at my house, a couple of boys and girls (including us 2) played an extreme truth or dare in my pool. Now that I think of it, some of the dares that me and Kayla did were very inappropriate.
For example, we open mouth kissed, she squeezed my boobs, I licked her lower tummy. Everyone else was doing extreme dares like that though so I wasn't worried about our relationship.
About a week ago when I slept at her house we were on skype to a randomer and he told us to kiss. She open mouth kissed me while squeezing my boobs. After the skype convo we were just watching a movie and then we stared into eachother's eyes. Suddenly, she kissed me. I didn't pull away or anything coz I kinda liked it (I don't fancy her though). After that it was just a normal sleepover.
Where do you think our relationship is coz I don't want this to ruin our friendship.
I'm sure she has the same feelings that you do about this. You can let things go on the way they have been and iLm sure your relationship with her will be fine. If you become uncomfortable at any point, just casually bring it up with her and see how she feels about you. If you decide that you prefer girls over boys, it's really no ones business and it's your life, you can live it how you see fit. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. I hope this helps and good luck.
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can someone send me a link to a good detox?
i want to loose a lot of weight and cleanse my body.
i know cranberry detoxs are really good
i want something thats easy to make (not the mayple syrup diet because that is really hard to make)
thanks
Cranberry is great for your liver and kidneys but won't cleanse the whole body. Try drinking some detox teas and heading to the vitamin store for some good cleansers. Just be prepared when you start cleansing, stay near a bathroom as things will start coming out of you at unexpected times. If you want to lose some weight, you need to change your eating habits and don't bring any junk food into the house. Taking away the temptation is a big part of the battle. I hope this helps and good luck.
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18/f
I'm very confused. My boyfriend and I had sex, and we both didn't feel any type of pain. After wards, he had SOME blood on the tip of his penis, not alot. Just barely. I checked if I was bleeding, but nothing came out. He also checked the tip, and there was nothing wrong.... What could've happened??
I dated a guy and he had some skin peeling from his penis which caused a slight bit of blood. If it wasn't that, then he should get checked out to make sure he doesn't have any std's. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Me: 15/F
Her: 14/F
The last few nights I slept at my girlfriends and we got a little carried away at night. We ended up fingering eachother but we managed to keep quiet. Anyway this mornin I accidently gave her a hickey. I was really sorry about it. I actually really didnt mean to do it. Anyway i came home today. I while earlier she said her dad said "I want a word with you tomorrow" when she asked why he said "That on your neck for starters" She said she was scared to. They saw the hickey this morning and said "Y'know it can give you skin cancer" I gathered there was dangers but it was only a cm big. Yet it still made me feel really bad. Anyway i'm worried her parents heard us and ask her.For all they know she is still a virgin... I dont want her backed up into a corner. I don't want her dad to get all protective and tell her she cant see me anymore..
Does anyone have any advice or any other ways to look at it?
One way I looked at it was its either going to be bad. Or he will just warn her and talk to her about the dangers and her age and dangers.
What do you think he will do?
He might thing she got it from a guy unless he knows for sure she didn't have it the day before. Parents know their kids are going to experiment with sex and play a little doctor. Everyone I know played doctor when they were young. I didn't have my first bi-experience until I was 16 but we started the same way. If you're going to try this again, I would wait a couple weeks, make sure her (or your) parents are sleeping and be very careful about sucking on the neck. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. I hope this helps and good luck.
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16/f
Okay, so me and this guy I've known my whole life have been talking lately, just as friends. I kind of like him and he does me too,but until something as far as a relationship happens he wants to be sex buddies and I kinda want to too.. Is there anything wrong with that?
This can be fun when you get a little older but things can get a little complicated when you're so young. He may tell you that you'll be his only booty call but chances are he's already asked a few girls and may already have one on the side. When you've been friends with someone for a long time, the chances that you'll fall for him after sex, increase dramatically. Just try to weigh the pros and cons and consider what you'll be gaining from this before you jump in. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm 17 (female), I think I always knew I wasn't straight but for some reason I still identified as straight and only really thought of myself as bi-curious (but in a way where I would only really consider males as possible partners). It's only recently that I've started to think I'm probably at least bisexual, and even more recently that I've started to think I might just be flat-out gay. The reason I'm thinking this is because it just suddenly dawned on me and it somehow feels 'right' and like everything suddenly makes sense. Except it doesn't, because I'm still terribly confused. I looked back at things from my childhood and throughout my life, and this is what I've got:
- I have this clear memory of being a little kid and thinking to myself, "I think I might be gay, I hope not." This doesn't make much sense though, since I'd never thought there was anything wrong with being gay and my family would be perfectly accepting of it. I remember then just pushing the thought away.
- As a little kid, I'd experiment 'sexually' (I find it hard to think of seriously, since we were just little kids) with other kids, but mostly girls, and I remember enjoying the experiences with girls a lot more, and being more into it than the other girls.
- However, I always had crushes on the boys. Looking back, though, a lot of them don't seem like crushes, more like trying to have a crush on someone you merely like as a friend. Some of them were legit crushes though.
From a young age, I've:
- Found female bodies more sexually attractive than male bodies, and have found females generally more aesthetically pleasing.
- Pasted pictures of women to my walls, never men. (I've never thought of this in a sexual way, though, more in a 'women are nicer to look at' way, or just because of fashion.)
- Loved lesbian fictional characters.
- Seeked out books which focus on lesbian relationships.
- Written about lesbian couples.
- Preferred lesbian porn to straight porn, lesbian erotica to straight erotica (started with this way too young, probably.)
- Fantasised about both men and women, but women more often.
- I often felt odd around girls, in a way I can't describe.
- Yet all through this, I fancied guys and not girls. I do, however, remember feeling oddly attached to certain female friends in a way which seems like a little more than friendship, looking back on it.
Looking back on all this, it seems odd that I did those things yet thought of myself as straight.
Now:
- I have no interest at all in images of naked men, yet images of naked women turn me on.
- I have had feelings for lots of guys, and only one girl.
- I've been in love with a guy.
- I've fantasised about men sexually, but in reality, it never feels right. I'm still a virgin, but the sexual experiences I've had with guys (even just kissing) have always either held no interest for me at all (just felt like going through the motions) or have been at once both enjoyable and offputting. I don't know the word, but it's felt kind of wrong at the same time, like I want to carry on but I also want to get away, and the next morning I usually feel dirty, ashamed and sickened.
- However, I've had sexual experiences with girls and have always felt fine about it (though I havn't gone as far as with guys, so it's hard to tell...maybe I'd still freak out if it got to that point?)
I'm really confused. The idea of my being gay, like I said, feels right. Yet I know I can't discount all the feelings I have had for males. And I do still get feelings for males. It's just...I don't know, it seems like I am emotionally attracted to men, but when it comes to sex, I'm more interested in women.
Sorry this is so long. I guess I'm not asking for advice as such, but rather, what does this sound like to you? I'm so confused so I'd like to know what you think.
I had a lot of the same feelings when I was younger but I didn't worry so much about putting a label on myself. I realized that I could live me life however I wanted and my friends and family would still love me. I think when the right person comes along, you'll know you want to be with them. I had some of my best sexual experiences with women but ended up marrying a man. There are things that a man can give me that a woman can't and the same can be reversed. Don't be afraid to experiment when you get the chance with a girl you'll attracted to. You should have fun with your youth and if you're afraid what you're family will think, just keep it to yourself and let them think everything is normal. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me or check out my advice column. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Hello
13/f. For maybe the past year or so, i've been finding a whitish liquid in my underwear. It happens several times every single day and I walk around feeling like I wet my pants. I haven't had my period yet.
Then one day I decided to look at my vagina to see what was happening, and the liquid squirted out as I was watching. What is this and is there any way of stopping it?
I found a good website that might help out a little. If you need anything else, please feel free to ask me. Julie
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/what_is_that_white_fluid_that_came_from_my_vagina
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so me and my boyfriend WANT to have sex, were going to use protection and everything, we have talked about it.
last weekend i had the house to myself, he came over...
but we he went to put it in i froze up and it was very painful, he didnt even have it in.. is there something wrong with me?
No, you're perfectly normal. It's normal to get very nervous when you're doing something scary for the first time. When he went to go inside of you, your vagina muscles tightened up and wouldn't let go. Try lighting some scented candles before you start and have him give you a sensual massage to really help you relax. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. I hope this helps and good luck.
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When I finger and rub myself, I always end up being soaking wet. But when my boyfriend and I fool around and he fingers me, I cum a lot but not as much as I do when I masturbate. And sometimes I can't even feel myself orgasm! He just tells me I'm wet... What's going on?
I know exactly where to touch myself and make myself cum within a minute. It's better to have someone there to help out but most guys just don't know where, how hard and how long to do things. When you get wet, you're excited and usually turned on sexually. When he's doing things to you, you're not having the same orgasms as you do when alone. Try helping him out and give him some pointers as to what feels good and what really turns you on. Most guys don't like to ask what you like and trust me, he'll appreciate a little input from you to make his job easier. I hope this helps and good luck.
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20/f
I am in a commited relationship, but for some reason I feel the need to have affairs. I am currently on my 2nd affair, the first is still kinda ongoing, but not as much as in the past, due to over time, it gets harder to keep it up. Is something wrong with me? Why do I feel the need to have affairs? I know you can't get in my mind and tell me whats goin on in there. But...IDK. just tell me something, please :)
You want your cake and eat it too. You like having guy #1 as your stability and fall back on but guy #2 is new and exciting and an easy booty call. You're still very young and should be out there having fun. Don't string along guy #1 because he's the safe one. If you want to continue seeing the first guy, the best thing to do is be honest with him about your affair and that you'll probably do it again. If he's ok with it, then keep on going but let him make that decision. I hope this helps and good luck.
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