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Relationship with my bestfriend
My name is Madison and I am 13. I have lots of bestfriends but recently I became bestfriends with a girl called Kayla. We have become soo close that we are basically sisters.
Recently, at my house, a couple of boys and girls (including us 2) played an extreme truth or dare in my pool. Now that I think of it, some of the dares that me and Kayla did were very inappropriate.
For example, we open mouth kissed, she squeezed my boobs, I licked her lower tummy. Everyone else was doing extreme dares like that though so I wasn't worried about our relationship.
About a week ago when I slept at her house we were on skype to a randomer and he told us to kiss. She open mouth kissed me while squeezing my boobs. After the skype convo we were just watching a movie and then we stared into eachother's eyes. Suddenly, she kissed me. I didn't pull away or anything coz I kinda liked it (I don't fancy her though). After that it was just a normal sleepover.
Where do you think our relationship is coz I don't want this to ruin our friendship.
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I'm sure she has the same feelings that you do about this. You can let things go on the way they have been and iLm sure your relationship with her will be fine. If you become uncomfortable at any point, just casually bring it up with her and see how she feels about you. If you decide that you prefer girls over boys, it's really no ones business and it's your life, you can live it how you see fit. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. I hope this helps and good luck.
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So if I'm reading this right, you think your friend is interested in you and you just want to stay good friends.
I'd honestly just start a conversation and tell her, if I were you. There's not a whole lot else to be done. You're thinking about it enough to post here so that means when you're around her it's going to be even more on your mind, like the elephant in the room you're trying to tiptoe and squeeze around.
Bring it up at some point. Use the word "sister" alot to send the proper message. Ask her questions. It sounds like you have no idea whats up with her. Find out. Ask her why she kissed you, be honest about how you feel about it. Communicate. See what comes of it.
Since you've probably not experienced this much before, a fair warning about life. Sometimes you want to be friends with people who want to date you. It never works. Relationships only function when you both want things the other person can give you, that goes for anything from friendship to family to love. If she sincerely wants to date you and you're sincerely not interested, I can't give you any guarantee you'll be able to be friends afterwards.
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You two sound very confused. I think you are heading down a dark path. Turn around now before it is too late. Yes, maybe you liked it but its only going to cause you hurt and confusion later. Be a nice respectable young lady. One with self respect and morals. Truth or dare is a fun game that I have played before but I always feel guilty later. And i recommend you dont do it anymore
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