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Is something wrong with me? I am having TWO affairs at the same time!
20/f
I am in a commited relationship, but for some reason I feel the need to have affairs. I am currently on my 2nd affair, the first is still kinda ongoing, but not as much as in the past, due to over time, it gets harder to keep it up. Is something wrong with me? Why do I feel the need to have affairs? I know you can't get in my mind and tell me whats goin on in there. But...IDK. just tell me something, please :)
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You want your cake and eat it too. You like having guy #1 as your stability and fall back on but guy #2 is new and exciting and an easy booty call. You're still very young and should be out there having fun. Don't string along guy #1 because he's the safe one. If you want to continue seeing the first guy, the best thing to do is be honest with him about your affair and that you'll probably do it again. If he's ok with it, then keep on going but let him make that decision. I hope this helps and good luck.
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If you want to have affairs you should end the "commited relationship".... you wouldn't want someone doing this to you.
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I agree with Hitoast
Cheating, Is not anything to be proud of. If you are seeing other people while dating someone then you are not in a committed relationship. If you aren't happy with you boyfriend then the right thing too do would be to end the relationship rather than leading him on.
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First of all, if you are having affairs then you aren't in a "committed relationship". If you were committed to your significant other, you wouldn't be having affairs. I'd suggest ending all affairs and possibly breaking it off with your current boyfriend until you can learn to actually be in a committed relationship. Typically having an affair has to do with your self confidence. If it's too low, you are trying to prove to yourself and others that you're attractive by having multiple men. If it's too high, you may have a sense of apathy as to what your boyfriend might feel if he knew of your affairs. I think it would be best for you to tell your boyfriend of the affairs. It sounds like it would be what you need to snap you back into reality and show you that you are physically and emotionally hurting someone that cares about you very much, and that that isn't a good thing. Goodluck, Jess.
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