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I have a very sexy boyfriend and i go just about everywhere w/him


I love going shopping w/my friends


My favorite stores are Agnis B., Louis Vuitton, Juicy Couture, Fendi, Coach, Prada, Chanel, and just about any other designer store


I'm considered a high class prep at my school


I'm a senior in high school


I was voted home-coming queen every year of highschool and I was just voted prom queen


I talk on my cellie for hours like everyday


I would die w/o my credit card


I love going to starbucks and just drinking coffee w/my friends


I loooove Italian food


I think the most romantic place to have your first date is at the beach right when the sun's about to set


I think the most romantic place to have your first kiss is outside in the rain


I love to get on the computer to give advice and talk to my peeps on IM


I have a facebook


I have two pets: a baby chick and cat


I don't watch that much TV unless a really good movie is on


I think Brad Pitt is THE HOTTTTTEST guy ever and the world needs more good looking men like him


I'm medium height


I've been going out w/my boyfriend for about 3 years


I'm an only child so I'm really spoiled :p


I have a big screen TV and the latest laptop in my room


I have the most gorgeous cellie


The second love of my life other than my beautiful boyfriend, is my car!!(light blue custom made porsche)

I have the most ah-dorable room and clothes


My room's the biggest room in my house


I get straight A's


I'm the captain of the cheerleading team


My favorite symbol is a heart


My favorite color is pink!!


I go to the best private school in England


My parents are filthy rich and give me whatever I want, but I'm not a bitch =)


My life is perfect, and I wouldn't give it up for anything


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Gender: Female
Location: England
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Age: 18
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I'm fourteen years old, and I weigh 220 pounds. I don't look like I weigh that much because I'm 5'6, but I still look big. I really want to lose like 80 pounds before October, but I have no clue where to start. I'd like to start as soon as possible. It's weird, because I think I have a really pretty face but I'm big. I was watching this video from a wedding I was in and I look really fat compared to all the other girls in my family. Plus diabetes is common in my family and I want to be healthy. Please help. =( (link)
just cut down a little on your meals. not a lot, but just a little. because people are really only supposed to eat until theyre 80% full instead of 100%, if they wana stay skinny.

dont starve yourself, but only eat until your 80% full, so your still only a little tiny bit hungry for each meal.

also, dont eat any snacks. you can eat some, like once a week, but definently not everyday.

also, go to the gym and work out, or stretch and do sit ups and v-ups and pushups and lunges and squats and stuff at home, everyday.

just keep doing this everyday, and you'll lose a lot.



i always feel so ugly my friends are gorgeous and have boyfriends no matter what i always feel left out or outta place what do i do to gain self respect and a more pretty appearance (link)
having a boyfriend isnt everything hun. its better to be single than go through all the drama with guys and having your heartbroken.

but i understand how you feel. if your friends are really that pretty, then ask them for advice on how you should change your appearance. they should know better than anyone else.

just feel confident in everything you do.



Okay...I'm only 13 1/2 and I know what an orgasm feels like and I have them on purpose. I use this massage thing that you're supposed to use on your back. I keep thinking i'm really abnormal because i "like" having them and I do it about every other day...am I too young to be doing this? SHOULD I be doing it? No one knows I do it at all. IF it's okay for me to be doing this, would it be okay to tell my mom maybe? I share everything with her and she's a nurse so I don't think she'd be freaked out or anything but i think i would be very embarrassed if even she knew. PLEASE HELP! (link)
its completely normal to be doing this. i think every teenager does something similar to this, and they of corse think it feels good too.

i dont think you should tell anyone about it though, especially your mom. she might have done the same thing when she was your age, but she might still freak out if she found out you were doing it.

but if you feel comfortable telling her, then you can, and its really your choice.



First, thanks for reading this. I've been dating a 40 yr old man, Chris, for a couple of weeks, and we get along really well, I like him a lot, and he feels the same way. Last week, I met a guy online, Jon, who is 26, much closer to my age of 22. Jon and I have an amazing connection, he's everything I ever wanted in a man, except that he smokes...and he lives two hours away. I'm having trouble deciding which relationship to pursue. Should I drop Chris and see where things go with Jon, even if I'd only see him once or twice a week, or forget about Jon and keep seeing Chris, who lives in my town? I'm so confused, and I really need help! Do you have any suggestions on what I should do to decide? Thanks! (link)
you should definently go for jon and dump chris. hun, your 22, and chris is 40!! hes gona be so old once your his age.

even though jons 2 hours away, your relationship with him could probably go somewhere. in a couple of years, you might even love each other.

if jon comes to love you, then he'll probably quit smoking if you tell him too.



This isn't a job search, but a question about a job. How old do you have to be to become a bartender in the state of PA? thanks (link)
you have to be at least 18 hun



im not really sure my boyfriend likes me. there is a 3 year age difference. and he thinks i dont trust him. what should i do?? (link)
hunny, if your boyfriend didnt like you, im sure he wouldnt be going out with you right now.

hes probably just a little sad and mad that you dont trust him.

tell him that you really do trust him, and he has nothing to be worried about. just show him all your trust for him, and then he'll probably start acting like he likes you more.




i have this really embaressing problem with underarm sweating. i've always had this problem ever since i started puberty and my sweat glands started, for lack of a better word at the moment, working. now, it seems like i start sweating at random times. heat isn't even a factor, somtimes i sweat after i come out of the shower or a few minutes after i wake up, even if i haven't done anything physical. what's happening to me? and how can i get rid of this problem? please don't tell me to buy those expensive sweat reducing chemical things because i can't afford it. thank you (link)
you have hyperhidrosis.

dont worry hun, this isnt anything you should really be worried about, because you're not the only one who has it=]

i have it too, except instead of sweating under my armpits, my hands and feet sweat like crazy.

what i did was i just went to a doctor, and they gave me medicine for it, but since i had a really bad case of it, the medicine didnt work for me.

so i just got a one day surgery for it, and now i dont have it. surgerys worth it, because if you get medicine you hav to take it everyday, but for surgery, its just one day and you never have this a problem again.

just go to a doctor and talk it out with him, and he'll give you the right solution



Can someone help me find step by step pictures and instructions for making a fishtail braid on the net?

I've tried to find it by myself but the instructions i got sucks.

thanks in advance!! (link)
you can go on google and look up fishtail braiding there hun



ok. well i was wondering if it's true that you miss chances to grow if you wear a bra at night. like a bra with an underwire and such as you would wear during the daytime. answers are very much appreciated, and thanks ahead of time!

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no its not true, it its just really uncomfortable.



i'm thinkin aboout being a foreign exchange student but i don't know anything about it! i need all of anything you know about it! please help i'm desperate. i also was wondering if you knew if the programs you go through will check out the family you are going to see and see if they are ok if you know wat i mean? (link)
sorry but i dont know anything about that kinda stuff:p

sorry♥


There is this boy I like at school. But not until the other day when I saw my best man friend
and all of a sudden bam!! I was in love with him. I am not sure I should like him because my best lady friend likes him. I am not sure what to do to? I do not want to loose a friendship or a crush. (link)
just tell your best lady friend that your in love with your best man friend, and ask her if its ok with her.

if its not, then you should just try to get over him, but if its ok and you just really love him that much, then flirt with him a lot and ask him who he likes and then he might ask you out.

but even if she says its ok, people just usually say that just to be polite and nice, even if they really arent ok with it. so if you think you can live w/o him and can get over him, then even if she says its ok, dont go out w/him or even tell him that you like him.



Ook I just put a new picture on myspace, and I would like to put a black border around the picture and words on it. How do I do that?

Here's the example: .......
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=86103477&imageID=907805631&MyToken=1a4ea2d7-e28b-4d9b-b9fd-fb962ebd1707 (link)
people usually do that on photoshop.=]



I think I finally found the guy I'd stick with till I die even though Im 13. Hehe. But, he doesn't love me back! OMG I'm so upset and depressed and hurt and discouraged. And the only person that can ever help me with this is HIM! But noooooooo, he isn't here anymore! What do I do b4 I kill myself? Suicide is the only option so far...........

~Kayla~
Thanx in advance. (link)
if he doesnt love you back, then just try to get over him. you deserve someone that loves you back as much as you love him.

definently dont kill yourself over a boy, because theres better guys than him.



Hey. Do any of you guys know what "SOL" means, because a tee-shirt says " Ur SOL pal" (from Hollister). Thanks! (link)
it means soulmate



i have the money and all, but i am just wondering if the pink razor phone is worth it all ..what are some cons and pros about it? (link)
i dont really know much about it, but i think that people mainly just get it because it looks cute, but if your going to get a new phone, you should get a newer phone that does more, and you can just decorate it with rinestones.



Hi, i was wondering if anyone had any interesting ideas on how to celebrate me nad my boyfriends six month anniversary. I wanted to do something really special for him, since he has been so great, any ideas? It is also my birthday the day before that as well, so if that helps to get better ideas i dont know. He is 16 and i will be 15 the day before our 6 month.

Thanks (link)
maybe you can set up like a romantic dinner for him somewhere close to the beach, and right when the sun sets, you can go outside to the beach with him and eat desert there.

also, if you want to give him a present, make a photo album of you two together, and then write a poem on the last page of how great he is and how much he means to you.



Okay, i dont usually do this, but i cant trust my friends with this one. I have a boyfriend who ive been dating for 13 months. in the last four months, ive started to fall for a guy i work with and have been working with for two years, we are jokingly refered to as the work couple. lately my boyfriend and i have been fighting a lot, and i spend more time at work (im working full time this summer) i dont think that i will be truly happy with either relationship, but the situation im in right now isnt appealing either. i feel like im losing interest in my boyfriend, yet i love him just as much.

what do i do? (link)
talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. tell him that you really love him and everything but lately you guys have been fighting a lot.

he'll probably then try to change so that you guys will stop fighting and you'll be more happy with him.

just dont tell him about the guy at work. just talk to the guy at work normally and dont flirt with him, because that might give him the wrong idea, and he might start to think that you like him.=]



i was wondering is there a site i can go to get a email pal or something? i dont want a penpal to write to but i want to talk to them by email? i dont mean anything like a chat room. thanks (link)
heres a really good site for that:

http://www.easypenpals.com/




hey im new here & i cant fine any cute backgrounds on this site i like. does anyone know where i can find one? (link)
just look up backgrounds for the site you like on google



Can you pee with a tampon in?? also...is it ok to wear a tampon even if you dont have your pieriod?? and does it hurt more to take out a "dry" tampon??? (link)
ya theyre 2 dif holes. no only wear it if you have your period. yes it hurts more to take out a dry tampon





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