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I cant seem to find the one
I think I finally found the guy I'd stick with till I die even though Im 13. Hehe. But, he doesn't love me back! OMG I'm so upset and depressed and hurt and discouraged. And the only person that can ever help me with this is HIM! But noooooooo, he isn't here anymore! What do I do b4 I kill myself? Suicide is the only option so far...........
~Kayla~
Thanx in advance.
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Are you kidding me? You think you like this guy but you don`t it`s just a little crush but you don`t relize that. You are 13 years old I`m not saying you can`t fall in love but you have the rest of your like to find the right person. Suicide is not the answer to any problem ok there are ways to solve problems other then killing your self think about the positive and other people how they would feel if you were gone. DON`T kill your self over a fuckin` guy it`s worthless!
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if he doesnt love you back, then just try to get over him. you deserve someone that loves you back as much as you love him.
definently dont kill yourself over a boy, because theres better guys than him.
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Hey,
I've read your problem, and i am really interested in helping you. so , the first thing i'd like to start with, is to tell you that suicide is never considered an option to any problem. There comes time,when every person has to fall in love with another, and sometimes that opposite person reacts ,and they even date and go out and stuff. But sometimes, that opposite person doesn't react, and as a matter of fact, he ignores us completely, and we get heart broken, miserable and depressed. Moreover, we fall on our knees and keep crying badly, and we think to ourselves" oh my god! he doesn't like me! i'm gonna commit suicide" thats exactly what we think, but no! that is completely wrong, when you a line should be drawn to the end of your life,than that would only be when you really die and get buried in your coffin, but not because you love someone and that person doesn't like you, so you committed suicide.It never works this way kayla, you are a magnificient person, and i am sure that you have a great personality and people who love you and care about you, and you have things in your life that you like to do, and if you commit suicide, why don't you think about the people you will hurt when you do this, such as your family or friends or the closest people to your heart. There are millions of people out there who really do love you want you to be a part of there lives, but it was simply not meant to be that certain boy you like,but on the other hand, don't worry, because every person was meant to love and be loved, but yet it is not your time now, so that doesn't mean for you to keep waiting.Instead, move on with your life,and be a good person, and live you life and enjoy your time and act natural.And then after sometime, you will find someone who likes you and wants and will come himself to ask you out.
In conclusion, if there are any further worries or concerns, please be free to contact me.
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Hi, sometimes we feel as though we love someone but then find out that they don't feel the same way. Your better off just letting him go. A relationship wouldn't ever work out with you both because he's simply not interested. You wouldn't want to go out with someone who wasn't interested now would you? But I'm 100% sure that there is someone out there who would get to like you once they've got to know you. Please don't kill yourself, because there would be nothing to gain out of doing that. That wouldn't get you a boyfriend. Besides your still only 13 and it is quite normal to have not got a boyfriend, regardless of what anyone else might say. Daniel.
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If he doesn't love you back then try to grt over him. You deserve someone who is going to love you as much as you love them!
Hun trust me suicide is not the answer. It never is!
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ok imma help you but imma have to be honest so dont get mad at what im about to say......ArE YoU rEtArTeD???No really. how can you even THINK of commiting suicide over ANYONE? hes not worth it and your only 13.i wanna tell you that ive been there when i was 13 i liked a guy that didnt like me back and i didnt give a DaMn i totally forgot about him cuz i got bored of liking someone that dont like me...he aint worth my time!love cant come from one side it has to come from both sides or it wont work and dont try to FORCE him to like you or youll regret it cuz hell be playin with you if he said he liked you all of a sudden.your still 13 probably 7th or 8th grade your still gonna be going to gradse 9,10,11,12 and college your gonna meet a LOT of guys till then.hes not the last guy on earth.
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I can definatley relate to you. Im also 13 and I like some one a lot, but they dont like me back. What I am doing right now is just trying my best to show him who I am and being nice to him to show him I like him! That is my advice to you.. be yourself, and show him your interested. Dont even consider killing yourself because that wont do you any good, you dont want to just take the easy way out do you? Trust me, you will get through this, if it doesnt work out with him, there will be another guy that is worth your time, and loves you back.. I promise! :) hope this helps!
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Are you serious? You want to kill yourself because a guy doesn't like you? I'm sorry, but that's pathetic. You're 13 years old and you're stressing over one guy. You can't change his feelings and you should be happy that you guys are best friends than nothing. Appriciate things while they're still there. He might not be your boyfriend, but he is your friend and you should be happy. Have you even tried to talk to him about it? If you haven't, then how do you know he can't help you. Just take it slow and relax. You will find another guy that you love.
EDIT-I'm not saying that you're pathetic but even you thinking about suicide is. If you can't get it through to him how you feel, move on. It's not the end of the world and there are a lot of other guys. Since you say you're depressed, maybe you should get help?
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