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my room is really lame and i hate having friends in it because its not cool. i have basic furniture, tv, computer, but its so boring to be in. any ideas? help!!!

Try using fabrics,lights,and bright colors to bring out the personality in it

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hi, next month i have my first appointment for the gnyo, becuase im 15 and have had my period irregular since i starting getting it 4 years ago,so my mom made me an appt...so anyway my concern is that, a couple months ago my boyfirend and I of 9 months decided to take are relationship a little farther and he fingered me, quite intensly and has done it a couple times..(but I have never had sex, and dont plan on it anytime soon)I am worried that the gyno will tell my mom,(becuase i know the gyno will be able to tell,becuase i am quite stretched out from it) and i really dont think that my mom wants to hear "oh by the way your daughter has been fingered" and she will be quite dissapointed in me. If i ask should the gyno keep my information confidential?

He should keep it confidential unless it was a life-risking thing.

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Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much!

maybe cut some in different shapes or use those shaper scissors and put them all over your wall and under some write little sayings and memories

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Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think?

Just give it to her as a Friendship gift and maybe anytime would be fine to give to her

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I don't understand this. I've been studying Psycology for years, yet I don't get why I can't fall asleep. I was diagnosed with Insomnia when I was 8. This isn't Insomnia. When I lay down to goto sleep, I get scared. As if something is in the room with me. Last night I went to sleep and I felt something behind me. I've been having this problem for 3 months. My doctor said it's normal, that it's just Anxiety, but I CAN'T goto sleep. What should I do?

I to have that problem like you dont feel safe or being alone. Im not sure wut to do but ive had this ever since i was little because u think of all the bad things sry

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What can you do with a 7 yr old boy when your babysitting him? Thanx in advance!

When babysitting a 7 yr old do fun games like color or play hide-n-seek. Let him watch tv shows he likes or play some games but let him win for the joy of it

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I need to buy somebody a Nintendo DS for Christmas, but I have no idea where. I've called all of the stores in my area, and they are all sold out. I know next to nothing about Ebay, so unless somebody can point me out a few good auctions I have no idea how to use it. Can anybody give me any help as to where to buy one of these?

My moms friend was looking for one also for like 3 weeks straight. She got one though!! on Walmart.com they ship it right to you also

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I have this friend and me and her decided to try a new style for christmas and summer.its kinda 80ish.We want to cut pantyhose knee length and wear a cute abercrombie skirt over it.This is for summer by the way. But then we want to wear a colorful tanktop. For shoes we want flipflops or converse. Can anyone tell me if this sounds cute?

It sounds cute and unique. If you want to try go ahead plus the skirt would be cute lol

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Theres this one girl in my dorm...she CANT spell. A freshmen in college and she cant spell little words, she simply doesnt know how. The word good, she spells gud. She cant even spell little words and this concerns me. She isnt doing well in her classes at all because of this reason. Me and my roommate edit her papers and we try to tell her that she really needs to learn how to spell properly, but she doesnt care. She cant rely on me and my roommate to save her but on every paper. Should I tell her to go to a tutor (which she probally wont go), or let her fend for herself? I tried to help her learn, but I get mad at her everytime I try.

Maybe this is a new place for her and shes not open with people. This girl may have a learning disability and maybe when she way young she was made fun of because of it and thats why she doesnt want to care. Try talking to her and be open discuss this issue. Let her know ur there for her as a roomate as a friend

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i have these pimples around my nose, like everywhere on the sides of my nose, so it make my nose look really red and all that and the pimples WONT go away! i have tried sooo much stuff and it DOESNT work! its really pissing me off and they have been there for like ever! i cant even remember my nose being pimple free! do you know any good pimple creams or something that will help me! PLEASE!

Actually i know people think that the most expensive stuff works but it doesnt. At wal-mart (lol)in the face cleaner acne stuff there is a cream called Acne cream its like a equate brand but it works really good. At first it may sting but believe me its worth the pain.

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ok.i have this friend and there was a party one weekend.of course,I partied it up. But there were guys that i did stuff with. I didnt tell anyone BUT my friend. I requested that she not tell anyone about it.Then she told me the guys and 1 of my friends hated me because of a cake fight.I later found out that none of them said that. I got mad at her so she decided to tell EVERYONE about me night. When I first confronted her,she denied it. But when I asked her again she took the blame.She told me she did it because i was mad at her.I dont think I should forgive her.Can anyone help me?
Signed,
Angry Friend

Maybe you shouldnt forgive her. Friends dont tell the deepest secrets wheter their mad at you or not. If you do become friends with her it may take a while to gain her trust again

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my best friend always goes over to a girl named sarahs house.She goes over because sarah has an older brother and i guess julie (my best friend) thinks its really cool that she gets to do "stuff" with older guys after many times of this, the guys ALWAYS deny it when asked and NONE of then ever talk to her. Also my friend falls in love spontainiously (sp?) like one hour shes in love with one guy shes never met, and the next shes in love with another guy shes never met its really dumb and eventually i know she will get hurt but if i tell her that they are just using her then shes going to say no and be mad at me... please tell me somthing i can tell her

i know it feels bad that your friend isnt giving you attention but maybe there is something at home making her be closer to Julies brother because she wants some1 to love and care for her. She thinks this boy likes her but if he doesnt talk to her she is getting used. Simply sit and talk to her about your feelings and tell her why you care. At first she may be mad but look at her in a positive serious attitude and tell her the truth. Who knows maybe you'll uncover her feelings to.

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Im in my junior year of highschool and i know its one of the most important years besides your senior year.. but i have no motivation what-so-ever. I have motivation in school cause my friends are doing work, so i might as well do it too. but when i get home i dont want to do it... i just dont care. I was wondering if there was something that will get me motivated.. thank you in advance!

I to know how it feels. I know by the time you get home you feel like theres nothing making you work because you have that free time and you'd rather hang with friends or watch t.v. Just think of your future ahead but dont push yourself to hard that you just give up. Maybe you could set a time each day for homework and have a snack during it. I know teachers say do homework in a quiet place but listen to the radio or put the t.v on its not going to hurt.

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Ok so I have this bf. Here's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. Some days he treats me good by talkin to me, holding my hand, walking me to class, and all that cute stuff that gurls like guyz to do. Then other days hes a total dick. Sometimes he wont even say hi to me and if i do get the chance to talk to him he juss walks away cuz he doesnt like to hang out with my freshman friends. I've learned how to blow it off but it still pisses me off. A couple weeks ago one of my closest friends said she saw him totally flirting with my worst enemy. I confronted him bout it and he totally denied it. I really want to beleive that hes telling me the truth but alot of people have told me that hes always all over other gurls. The people that tell me this are some of my closest friends and I know that they wuld never lie to me. All of my friends say that I should break up with him because he doesnt treat me good and I'm starting to beleive them. I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm not shure if I still wanna be with him. Plz help!!!

This boy is a waste of you time. No boy who truly loved you would ignore or treat you that way. If it was my decision i would dump him because hes not worth the time or feelings. Hes hurting you mentally and emotionally and thats not right.Your friends are right when they say hes not treating you good because hes not and no girl deserves to be treated that way

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well there this guy at school and well he like likes me he ask me out and i thought i liked him and i told my sis that i did then my sister had told him i said yes then like i broke up with him then like he is trying to give me money and expensive gifts and well i havent excepted them but im confused what should i do.

If hes reached the stage where hes buying you expensives things and giving you money its just a brive. I think hes probably lonely but briving is not a way to have someone go out with you. Also you did the right thing by not accepting those things because once you do that he thinks he will own you. Also he may think your so easy to persuade which could lead into harder decisions

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You know those Livestrong Bracelets that everyone is wearing now-a-days? Well according to my Spanish teacher, they're also a symbol for hospitals to not ressusitate (sp.) you if you get in some sort of accident and are put in the hospital. Is this true??? Because if it is, that's awful, and I'm not wearing mine anymore.

I dont believe that is true. Thats a symbol for cancer and for people who are sick to live strong. Besides a hospital cant ressusitate because your wearing one that would be completely ignorant and unlawful

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Theres this boy i work w/ and he goes to my school and hes in my class. But i think he wants to just be friends but i want to be "more" wut should i do and say so he and I both dont feel awkward...
Sincerely,
Needs Advice

Are you sure he wants to be just friends or more. You must find these things out before movinf further...Just simply talk to him about your feelings and understand that if he only wants to be friends thats better then nothing. Try starting the conversation by asking if you two could talk seriously
Sincerely,
Angie

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