Hey guys my name is Ava and im 17 years old, i'm currently in my junior year at High School. I have lots of friends and I love hanging out with them all the time they really mean alot to me. Besides Singing and Acting I really like to help solve problems and etc for People in need. That's all I guess there is to say. Thanks! :)
Gender: Female
Location: New York.
Occupation: Student-Singer-Actress
Age: 17
Member Since: December 18, 2004
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Well there is this boy....thats the sentence every1 starts off with rite? well theres this evil boy. I never liked him until he started being sweet to me and now im going out w/ him. Well the abuse started 2 months ago when he wanted some but i said no. So he raped me and i havent told noone of this because wut if they disown me. Now im scared to even leave by his side because i do one thing wrong and he sweats all over me and i hate it soo much.Was i meant for this am i a bad person.He did it to me 2 nites ago for not calling him a 9 but i called a 5 past 9 thats how lame he is. It come to the point where im afraid for my life he said if i told anyone he would kill me. Im scared...what do i do....how do i stop this.....am i at blame? (link)
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Honey if this guy threatened to kill you, you definitely need to get help right away. Tell your Parents or even a school counselour right away about him saying that. He also raped and abused you, no woman should ever go through something that horrible. Please ask for help right away and don't think about someone disowning you because you have done nothing wrong. I hope everything works out well and tell someone right away about this don't hold back. Tell me how everything turns out.
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well theres this boy Billy and were both 16.. I like him a lot and he likes me but i think he wants more from me then expected. The other day he asked me if i would give him oral but i made an excuse but i did anyway which totally sucked! How do i tell him i dont want to do this without losing him
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Hurt and confused (link)
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Hurt and Confused, if you didn't want to do this in the first place you shouldn't have. It's your life not his. If he can't handle being with you and not getting anything then he's not really a true guy to have as a boyfriend. I would say get away asap. Hes definitely not boyfriend material if your not dating yet and he asked you to do that. He basically sounds like he has no respect. I hope my adivce helped you.
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well, here is a ? 4 u!!
Ok, well ther's this guy who asked me out and I said yes. The onlyproblem is that I'm not allowed to date. But, I am allowed to go out with friends, even a coed group. My question is, what should I do? Should I try talking to myparents about it, or jsut tell them we're going as friends and other ones are going to? I really need advice, none of my friends are helping me!!
If it helps any im 13, hes 14.
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Just tell you Parents you should be allowed to start dating because you really like him. Also if your parents won't let you see if they will feel more comfortable if you went with frieds and the guy you really like.
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I don't know why but it seems like everytime I am at my dads he drinks. And when we are at some family get together my step-mom and my dad both drink and get "tipsy". I hate it when they do this and it pisses me off. I hate it. I tell them that it is stupid for them to do this but they never listen and it makes me frustrated and they act like idiots and it embarrases me to even think that I am related to him and her. It is so embarrasing sometimes, I feel like i am about to cry. What can I do to help me persuade them to stop drinking so much and just have a good time with out the liquor? I would really like to get some advice. (link)
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Well I know how you feel my Father also drinks alot. There's not so much you can do with People who usually drink alot. Maybe try being calm with them and tell them that they are making you stress and be upset about what they do. If they have really bad drinking problems maybe you should talk to another family member about the problem and see if they can help solve the situation with you bye sitting down with them both and telling them how you feel and what there doing is bad. Not listening always makes matters worse. I hope the best for you.
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I have this one really good friend, and let's call her Jane. Jane and I met last year, when I came to her school for a gifted program. Jane and I became kinda friends, but I made a best friend that I'll call Kristen. It's a year later, and now were all good friends. But on the bus the other day, this girl I'll call Sam bad mouthed my friend. I asked Kristen if she liked Jane, and she said no not really. Jane is a really good friend of mine but I don't know what to do? (link)
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Well first of all if someone says something bad about one of your friends you should just stay out of it. If they say something bad then hey, that's there opinion. As for your friend Kristen who doesn't like Jane, there's nothing to worry about. Just because you have two friends and one doesnt like the other doesnt mean you have to solve the problem and get them to be friends or etc. They will just stay out of each others lives if they dont want to talk. I hope I helped.
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