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im sure you probally have heard this question many times before but what do people usally use when they shave down "there"? like razor or wax? i would really appreciate any helpful answer, thanks
i*m a fan of mr.razor.. wax would hurt like a bitch.. just mi opinion tho
Okay, here's the deal. My one guy-friend told me he liked me and that he wanted to go to the movies with me.. and I said yes ; because I did/didn't like him ( cause I haven't seen him in for like ever ) but I didn't want there being awkwardness so I had my one friend kinda invite herself ( lol yeah I know.. ). So she was coming to the movies. But then he didn't have money for it, so he couldn't go, so he suggested just hanging at his house. Well all day nothing happened, and it was getting latish kinda around 7 or something so I didn't even think I was going...but then he suddenly said he could come and get me. So I was allowed and stuff which was awseome! But then we stopped to rent movies, and his mom went shopping and stuff, so we didn't get to his house till like 7:30 and I had to go by 9 ( so we had to leave before then ) so then we were holding hands and enjoying ourselves and stuff and then I went home. And then my mom tells me she got a call from my friend who said she was upset because we ditched her or something ( and I didn't mean to like intentionally, I just thought that I was only there for like.. an hour or so, so I thought by the time she got there, we'd all have to leave anyway so I thought next time.. ) but she's not talking to me now and stuff and it's become this huge thing and stuff... and I don't know what to do, I mean I feel really really bad and stuff...
=( PLEASE HELP ME!
well hun if you haven*t tried calling try that or im or sumthing just telling her exactly how you feel and that you never meant to hurt her feelings. If she doesn*t answer or avoids you, write her a letter//note (i no sounds corny but will proly work) just express everything you feel and give it to her or mail it to her. i don*t really no wut else to tell u, best of luck n i hope i helped!!
I am SOOOOO Fat i am 5'12 and 250 pounds what are some ways of losing weight fast?
go on weight watchers i know people it*s worked really good for
okayy well.. this nick kid n me really like eachother.. i have a few questions.we're not really going out right now.. but we deffinatly act as a couple. im just wondering.. do you think we have to do " freaky things " in order to keep the relatioship alive> i mean hes 15 im 14, n i kno hes constintly thinking about sex with all his hormones.. but will he just dump me? he knows my value on sex, how i want to stay a virgin untilim married, and hes continued liking me. but i also have some other questions.. haha this might sound weird.. but how do you make out. i mean ive KISSED ex-boy friends.. like little pecks and all, but i know wen nick and i start going out, we wont be going any further than making out.. so im just a little confused on how to make out, and what to do.. how to practice, and what if i suck at it? ahhh any advice??! please say yes!!!
hmmm i don*t know what i*m sposed to say yes to but here*s my advice. If nick isn*t a jerk then your values will be respected but i don*t no nick so i don*t kno how he*ll react, but if he*s cool then he should understand. and about making out, there*s not really ONE way to do it. Everyone kisses differently. My advice really is move your tongue to the beat of his, he*s most likely more experianced and knows what he*s doing so don*t be too overpowering. Everyone likes their kisses different. If he*s slow.. go slow, if he*s fast then go fast with him. But nothing*s worse than a sloppy kiss.. ew so good luck i*m sure u*ll do fine, it*s really not hard @ all!
Hey. Well, I'm 13 years old, and this summer I am getting my first phone! I wanted this phone from Sprint, but my family has a plan on Cingular. I was wondering if there were any cool and hip camera phones for teen girls. Please tell me the phone, and where to find it...like the website. Thanks!
well i have cingular and i consider mi camera fone simply amazing! (not too mention cool n hip haha) but go here http://onlinestorez.cingular.com/cell-phone-service/get-started/shopping_options.jsp?returnURL=%2fcell-phone-service%2fcell-phones%2fcell-phones.jsp%3fsource%3dINC230056&_requestid=59325
and enter your zip code and go 2 the next page. there*s tons to choose from. hope i helped
Okay so i'm going to be 14 in August and my period still hasent come yet. My boobs are VERY large for my size (4ft 11in and size 32B).I also masturbate so i dont know if that is affecting it, should i stop? My mom got her period at the age of 11 so i feel like something is wrong. I'm anxious to get my period because dont want to get it at like a really bad time( example: down the beach with my friend). At least if i have it i'll no what/when to expect it. ALL my friends have it so i also feel VERY left behind. Will rate for good advice. Please dont tell me i'm lucky i havent gotten it or its not that great to have, or ne thing like that. Much love, Please help!
don*t worry hun it will come soon and even tho you don*t wanna hear it when you have it your gonna wish you hadn*t said you wanted it. But i understand i wuas anxious too. Um your mom might*ve started early but it doesn*t just take after your mom, i started @ 12 and my mom started @ like 15.. it should come soon i promise!
Hey its me again.... I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him because the last guy i liked wouldnt talk to me at all so i feel really lucky to likesomeone who will talk to me and all. i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too
OK... if i do decide to tell him how i feel i have an idea and im wondering if its a good idea or not....
i wont be seeing him for two weeks coming up should i have my friend on the last day before the 2 weeks go up to him and be like i think *my name* likes you but i dont know.... then he can think about it or w/e??
friends are easy escapes but i don*t know if that*s a good idea, ecspecially before you leave. If you tell him it*ll mean so much more so i say go for GOOD LUCK!
this is probably not under the right catagory, but latley like this clear stuff has been comming out of me and it makes my underwear went and sometimes is so much it feels like i peed my pants.i am 13/f and have been on my period for like 2 years.i am scared to tell anyone.do you kno what it is?
nothin to worry bout hun, just discharge.
i generally have my period every 27 days for about eight days. last time i only had it for 6 days and its been over 30 days and im still not getting it! what should i do? (im fourteen)
i doubt you have anything to be worried about.. it*s not always exactly when you expect it. Give it a little while and if it*s not here in a couple weeks.. then you can worry. I have a friend who got hers in jan (first time) and hasn*t had it since.. now that*s weird. Or if your really athletic then it might be from that, so enjoy your time without it. well hope i helped!
i am looking for a job, but im only fifteen. i know some jobs my friends have but they arent hiring. i could really use the money because i need knew clothes since i grew 4 inches from last september, and i dont have money for school stuff or lunches! i live in texas if anyone knows!
thanks
maybe like grocery stores,fast food places, some restaurants, ice cream shop, some stores, babysitting. I don*t really know exact places b/c i*m in kansas but good luck hun!
im so scared, okay in a few months im getting a tonsiectimy(sp?) im getting my tonsils out. and im going to be on my period during it!! im really secretive about my periods..can they operate on me while im on it? i have to get anisteshia(sp?) that will put me to sleep
i got my tonsils taken out, but i don*t think i was on my period during it. It won*t be a big deal @ all the surgery is literally about 20 minutes long so not bad @ all. Just make sure you have in a good tampon//pad n you*ll be fine! best of luck hun!!
Okay well laast week or so I was with a friend and she took me out iwth 2 of her friends andways long story short we were drinking and I ended up sleeping with this guy...I completly regret it now and I knw it was wrong that's not why I'm here....what are teh statistics and stuff on pulling out. And if we did it twice is tehre a even greater preganancy chance? Also I have a boyfriend and I think I lov ehim and I've never been in love before and I want him to know so bad but I just can't bring myself to tell him cuase I don't want to loose him....any help would be so apreciated....thanx
wow don*t listen to the first people they seem like idiots. Anyway i tried to find the statistics but i cant. And about your boyfriend, sadly he*ll either find out from someone else or you*ll become completely stressed with guilt. I think that you should just come clean and tell him the complete truth, i mean maybe he*ll respect that you were honest and better to hear from you then other people! good luck hun n hope everything works out!
..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no parents were home & we could have easily gotten away with "gettin with eachother" the next night.. he came over and we layed on my couch and cuddled. And nothing happened. And we were alone. No one was home. He didnt even try anything. The next day he came over. We just made out and i called him a tease because he always tickled me by my pants line and never went down. && thats just what im used to.. boy just goin straight in. Soo when he didnt i was like wow, even tho i wanted him to. So the next day he came over again, and we were all aloneeee for about 4 hours. We didnt do anything til the last hour, and he asked me why i called him a tease, and i explained. And then he ended up fingering me. Because i wanted it. And i was all happy with it or wateva. Then lator i realized, wow maybe i relaly fucked this up. because he wasnt like that, and i provoked him to be. I told him how i felt and he felt bad and said that he wudnt do it ever again and thought i didnt mind. Not to mention while he was doing it he kept asking if i was okay with it. And i said yeha, cuz i was. And hes been over every night after that.. for the past 3 nights and he hasnt tried it again. Do you think he likes me, or just wants to "get iwht me" HELPPP please..sorry sooo longg.. but i will give you a 5 if you answer =)
i can*t even tell you how much he sounds like my ex boyfriend. The guy really likes you and i know because he respects you and the second you told him you were uncomfortable he stopped. He seems like an amazing guy and i think you should deffinately stick with him. You can tell that he loves you for you and not to do stuff. It*s so weird b/c all of my relationships were bad (like gettin in my pants) til I met a guy like you found. We*ve broken up but he still treats me the same. Whatever you do stay with him. I can tell this relationship will last a really long time! If you have any more questions feel free to ask. n hun it wasn*t that long i liked it cus it was sweet haha. Well best of luck to you and him but i no you don*t need it!!
I wish i had best friends but i dont. I want to be friends with certain people but i dont know how to fit into heir group.
don*t try to be sumthing your not. I no thats not wut you want to hear but it*s the truth. ALWAYS be yourself and the ppl who care and matter will be drawn to you. And try to get in clubs or sumthing that offers wut you like! hope i helped ||*chelsea*||
can someone just give me a couple online photo albums for hosting images other then picturetrail and photobucket thanks much love...
http://www.mypicgallery.com
wut i always use n i love it with mi whole
how do you grind, as in the dancing?
there*s really not a certain way to grind.. you just feel the music n let your body move to it.. prolly didn*t help sry
how to get popular girls to ask me to hang out. AND dont say you shouldnt hang out with them bc they are popular or stuff liek that.. its what i want
i don*t really know wut to tell you, but just be yourself don*t go acting "cool" because you wanna fit in.. b/c that*s dumb. Plus i don*t no who your popular girls are so i couldn*t give u exact advice. Good luck hun and for now try kids that like you for you don*t ditch them b/c you want sumthing better.. cuz wut*s popular isn*t always better.
okay.. ive liked this kid nick now since the day i met him.. well he told me he liked me and then i became intrested in him. he asked me ou7t for the first time about a month ago, i said i dunno/ maybe. i like him alot.. but i have morals in my life.. and i wanted to get to know him more. after that he became somewhat depressed and figured that my maybe.. was considered a no.. which it wasnt. after that i regreted it. he asked me out again about 2 weeks ago, and i again said maybe, and i wanted to kno him more. im always afraid hes gunna loose intrest and just move on.. and i dont blame him. i like him so much, i just wanna get to know him more. we do act as a couple and we hold hands, cuddle and what not.. he kisses my head which is so cute. do you think he'll stay intrested? any adcice on what i should do?? pleaseee say yes!!!
well all that*s really up to you. But i think if you*re all acting like that then maybe you*ve gotten to know him pretty well (not trying to sound bitchy) so maybe you could give him a shot, tell him you really like him (cuz it sounds like you never expressed your feelings) you just wanted to get to know him better and now you feel you have and if he still wants the relationship. That*s how i would go about it and i hope you try this and it works, bc a boy is more likely to stick around if there*s a title. xoxo
ok i need i guys point of veiw or a girl who has been with a guy do guys like ur *pubic hair* hairy shaved a little hair but not a lote no hair??? what do they like i no everyone has a different point of view juss plzz help me
plz no stupid ass answers
*i rate high*
honestly they like completely shaven,, atleast all the guys i*ve ever talked to n been with..
hey i have pretty straight hair. How do I make it wavy like you see in magazines????
thanks
i really only know how to scrunch it but i love it. Take a shower and while your hair is wet take mousse and spread it through your hair. Then take your hands and start at the end of your hair and push it up to your head and just play with it, then i like to put it up in a towel and take it off once it gets annoying or blow dry it (both looks good). Or you could try curling products like bed head n such. hope i helped!!