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hey,i'm Nicole. I'm 23 years young. I'm from New York...i do the best i can on giving advice on this site.drop one in my inbox n i'll get to it as soon as i can.i like spending time with friends, shopping,and playing soccer. my interests are music, singing and dancing.
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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend?
you can say it if you really want to or if you really love him. but i would say that if you only really like him, but dont love him, then dont say it. if he says it first and you want to say it back, go ahead, don't feel like you're forced to though.
ps~no age is ever too young to fall in love!
okay i have cut myself in the past and kinda still do...i am anorexic and get upset easily...when my mom found out i was cutting she said "Dont be a stupid f***"...and i asked to see a therapist and she said i dont need to..she jus doesnt understand...i dont know what to do...i am so anorexic ive lost my period and i am starting to cut again ((along with suicide poems)) and i obviously cant ask her...school counselours dont work..i've tried..please help!
girls and boys town national hotline 1-800 448-3000
teen line 1-800-852-8336
you can call those numbers. they're free and you can talk to teens about your problems. i've gone through some of these things, so if you want to talk, IM me at swingxlifexaway7 or e mail me at swingxlifexawayx7@yahoo.com
hope i helped!!
My boyfriend makes comments about actresses and other females and it bugs me and I was wondering what do I do?
make comments about actors and other guys and see how he likes it. two can play that game :-P
hope i helped
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 weeks. He asked me to the Christmas Dance. I was thinking of mabye at the end of the dance I would go up to him and say, "I want to give you your Christmas present a little early." Then tell him to close his eyes and when he does then kiss him. We haven't kissed yet. Do you think he would like this?
14/f
i think it'd be cute, and yes, i think he'd like it. i say go for it.
one of my friends( i have a lot friends that are girls)said that because i act stupid and joke all the time that's why i don't have a girlfriend. if that really is true, what should i do about it?
girls like more mature guys. funny, but mature. like don't act stupid and like an asshole around girls or in public. if you're playin sports or havin a sleepover or a birthday party or whatever with just your guy friends, then it's okay to act stupid. but save it for then. i'd say be more conservative. hope i helped!
i'm a guy, 14 yrs. old. here's my dilemma. this girl has a boyfriend right, and everyday in class we hug and talk till class starts. she doesn't even act like she has one. my question is what do i do now, i'm totally clueless.
she's a girl. she flirts with you...it may not be intentionally, but some girls are naturally flirty and don't notice that they lead people on. i'm guessing that she thinks of you as a really good guy friend, so take it easy, don't get worked up, and be there for her. hope i helped
i am over weighted and I want to lose weight but if i tell my mom or anyone I know they are going to make fun of me. What should I do
no mother should make fun of her child if they told her that they wanted to lose weight. so not cool. you don't have to tell her if you dont want to. just start eating healthier on your own and exercise on your own like in your basement and such. stick to fruits and veggies and crackers and stay away from the junk food. and try n stay away from sugary drinks. stick to water, milk, and 100% juices. hope i helped!
Do you think its possible for someone *your best guy friend* to start liking you even though a couple months before he told you he didnt? We hooked up since then and really formed a strong bond along with a great deal of trust and respect for one another. Is it possible? Do you have any stories of this happening? I just dont want to get my hopes up..
yes, it's possible. that happened to me a year ago. me and this guy have been best friends since age 5 and after 7 years of friendship we dated for a while. we broke up, and the good thing is, we're still friends. so it's very possible and a positive thing. hope i helped!
Hey .. does anyone know some good websites where i can just listen to music ? Not from xanga or anything .. most of them dont work anyway. But please if you can give me some sites thatd be awesome ! Thanks ..
there's www.teenmusic.com
it doesnt have everything, but it has alot of stuff if you go under the music section. hope i helped!
i need to know how to do this math question :
the smallest of three consecutive integers is 32. What is the mean of the three integers?
you would add 32+33+34 which equals 99
then you would divide 99 by 3 and should get 33
hope i helped!!
iimm like 125 pounds!!!!! i am only 14 and i am like 5 feet dont u think thats wicked fat!?!?!? well what should i do to get skiinny i feel like a fat cow and i dont like to wear athingsuites and stuff infront off people i need to get skinny by summer what hsould i do? i rate high!!
i would say eat more fruits and vegetables then you normally would. don't eat the fat or skin on meat. try not to eat as much chips and junk food as you normally would. stick to a healthy, good tasting snack like wheat thins or cheez its or string cheese or stuff like that. excercise along with it, you will get better results. hope i helped!
Me and my boyfriend broke up because I thought he was cheating but we worked out things and are back together but how to I tell my mom that we are without her getting mad? I'll rate high!
tell her that you found out that your thought of your boyfriend cheating was wrong and that it was a total misunderstanding and that you're back together. afterall...it is your decision, so she shouldn't be mad.
Is this a stupid thing to do?? Or does it feel better?
yes, it is definitely a stupid thing to do.
1)it'll be an absolute mess.
2)you can still get pregnant even though you have your period.
Two of my best friends has really done something horrible to me behind my back & I heard of it later, and they apologized about it all and everything, but I still can't seem to trust them much and I still can't forgive them much for it. What should I do? I am 14 and female.
well, if they did something that horrible to you, then they wouldn't really be BEST friends now would they?? but anyways, you don't have to trust them much or forgive them quite yet. talk to them, but still keep your barriers up and don't tell them wayy important stuff. tell them that they'll have to earn your trust back and prove that they are really sorry for you to forgive them. hope i helped
I have a unibrow..no doubt about it..but i started shaving for at least 5 months. Im not stupid and i new that it'd grow back darker and thicker. But i just thought i'd shave it all off before anyone could see. But now it's really dark and there are black dots.How do i get rid of it?
i'd say that you'd probably start having to get it waxed. you can go to a salon or you can buy a home waxing kit at a drug store. hope i helped
What are some good game websites?? Like games i can play online.
www.pogo.com
www.gamehouse.com
www.onlinegames.com
www.iwin.com
www.freegamesonline.com
www.gamezone.com
im going to see harry potter tonight with some friends. i was windering if the moivie was scary or funny because ive heard both. thanks
there's a point where it's a tad bit scary. it has funny parts too though. it's a combination of drama, comedy, and a little bit scary. i liked it
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me because one of my friends seen him letting a girl sit on his lap the past two days and he kinda flipped out when I brought it up. She is also going out with one of HIS friends but they dont act like they are going out and he has her number in his cell phone and has recently talked to him on it. She told someone he was ugly and that it was a lie about her sitting on his lap because someone wants to break her and her boyfriend up. Is he cheating and what should I do?
well, i doubt your friend would lie to you about that. if this friend has a history of lying and saying this kind of stuff when it's not true, ignore what she says. if you know her well enough and you know she wouldnt lie about this, get rid of this guy...fast. if she's right, this guy is no good for you and has no respect for you whatsoever. hope i helped
there is this girl that acts like she likes me and askes me over to her house all the time. anyway when ppl make fun of me she will laugh right along with them. Is she a true friend?
she is definitely not a true friend. a true friend would stick up for you in any situation. if this is bothering you excessively, you might need to confront her about it. what she's doing is extrememly rude an immature. she needs to cut the crap. hope i helped
OKay I just got my first kiss on the lips! Should I kiss him back everyday? I mean I love him, but is it right since its only our 1st?
you should only kiss him if you truly mean it. if you feel strongly about him, then kiss him back withh all your heart.