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cheating
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me because one of my friends seen him letting a girl sit on his lap the past two days and he kinda flipped out when I brought it up. She is also going out with one of HIS friends but they dont act like they are going out and he has her number in his cell phone and has recently talked to him on it. She told someone he was ugly and that it was a lie about her sitting on his lap because someone wants to break her and her boyfriend up. Is he cheating and what should I do?
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okay... maybe your being a little insecure right now... but maybe not.. try talking to the girl upfront and ask her if what your hearing is true or not.. but you never know, she may lie to you... after talking to the girl.. proceed in confronting your boyfriend about the matter.. ask him in a very mellow and suttle tone/way.. whats going on...depending on how long him and this girl have known each other , you never know , they could just be good friends... but then again...
So if i were you i would investigate and ask your boyfriend, but if he starts getting mad just try explaining to him how it makes you upset hearing all thses things and how you dont want to lose him... if he still gets mad then change the subject ...
But if you keep hearing that things are happeneing between your boyfriend and this chick.. id try either catching them in the act... or just whooping some ass...
haha hope i helped :)
***Kayla...
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Well, he DID get really defensive when you mentioned it, so that could be true. If he had recent calls with her, that's another sign. Oh, and HE LET HER SIT ON HIS LAP. You can't just say he's cheating, but the signs point to that he likes her. I would break up with him if I were you.
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If you think he is cheating on you then it doesn't sound like you really trust him and thats not good in a relationship but if u want to know if he is be nice about asking him and make it sound like you don't trust her and you fully trust him and if he is cheating on you then end it right then and there because no person deservers to be cheated on.
hope i help,
ME
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well, i doubt your friend would lie to you about that. if this friend has a history of lying and saying this kind of stuff when it's not true, ignore what she says. if you know her well enough and you know she wouldnt lie about this, get rid of this guy...fast. if she's right, this guy is no good for you and has no respect for you whatsoever. hope i helped
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Consider the source of this information. Are they trustworthy? Do they bullshit you ever? If this person is always solid on what they tell you and never lie consider this as something to raise an eyebrow about and look for further evidence of wrong doing.
How well do you trust your boyfriend? If he has never lied or shown anything less than devotion do not pounce on him. I have seen these days a lot of people male/female that are just friends and one may sit on a lap or whatever on a bus, subway or just hanging out. There's nothing sexual or inappropriate unless they are making out.
As far as rumors etc. and people wanting to break other up let it slide off your back like water to a duck. If nothing before this news appeared broken do not try to raise hell or fix it. Wait until you yourself sense something isn't right. You would be first to know and everyone else last to know for information on your own relationship.
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i am not too sure if he's cheating, but the only thing you can do is investigate the situation further and dont jump to conclusions
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sitting on his lap, yeah, that would suck and i wouldnt stand for it. but so what if he has her number and calls her. she's one of his friend's girlfriends. that's normal. what should you do? catch him or let it go.
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hey. it sounds like your just self conscience. dont worry. not yet at least. im sure he is just making a new friend. but if you see this yourself and he acts different. then i would talk to him. if he flips out again there could be no bigger a sign than that. as bad as it may be... end the relationship if this happens. its better than being totally miserable.
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