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OK, this is really wierd, but whenever i look into somewhere dark, i see white blurs in the shapes of people. When i try to get a closer look they disapper. it freaks me out- a lot! when i walk into my room, i see a white blur on my bed in the dark. where can i take this problem? what is this?!

wow,id be freaked out but that would be so cool to see that! if they are spirits they probably wont freak you out though since they did not try to scare you. Act like there welcome there no that you need your room though! This is a true story -- i was moving out of my house. [[im a 16 year old female]]We,my family and i, were half-way out of the house. [[our furniture was almost all out and everything to our new house]].Well, one night i was home alone in my old house,[[not the new one because it didnt have that much food]] and i heard voices upstairs.I was downstairs on the computer. I thought it was the t.v so i wasnt scared.But when i went upstairs to get a glass of water and some food,i noticed they had moved the t.v and there was no tv in our house anymore!! I was freaked out that night was very frightening.

but of course,it could have been people outside,and what you are seeing could be shapes of objects of some sort reflecting and it may seem to cast the image of a human. look around your room do you have mirrors,and objects like tall lamps?

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I went to the Beauty Salon to get the tips of my hair cut off to make it look straighter, SHE CUT OF 2 INCHES! .. my hairs above my shoulders now and I hate it, any hair styles to cover it up some how??
I'll rate high!!! :)

ok,you might not think its good but its guna look hot!If you have bangs,i suggest you part them to the side [[the left side]] then,put your hair in a low pony,or low bun[[it looks so awesome my friend has it!]]/ and if you want to go back to the salon,you should go to a diff, salon and get layers of lengths in the back,it looks good :)

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Ok I hav wavy, thick, brown hair that is past my shoulders right above my boobs. any ideas for my hair??

well i sort od have it a little under my chest but try getting layers and fethered in the back it'll look cute!! :)

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Ever since I started shaving I've always gotten pimples on my legs and thighs. It's really annoying because I don't get any on my face just my legs! What should I do? And why is this happening?

Its razor burns. I know,ugly red "pimples", you HAVE to use shaving cream [[i use EDGE,its not fragrented so it works]],also after you gets out of the shower put non fragrented lotion on. i think a lot of people said this already. By the way - make sure your legs arent dry. They might take a day to go away though.

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I am currently torn between liking two guys...

One is my best friend. I have known him forever. We have tried dating before, but it just hasn't worked out... we're still best friends and all, but we do go on dates... Whenever we're together, people just assume we're dating.. He's really sweet, and is all boy-next-doorish. He does stuff like this... we went to see a play together, and it was cold, so he let me wear his jacket, then walked me home..

The other guy looks perfect for me, and is actually my cousin's best friend. Both of us have brown hair, and brown eyes and I come up to his shoulder (if any of this matters..) we're apparently "The cutest couple ever" according to some old ladies in the park... He's outgoing and is more rebellish though.. Like.. he stole me chocolate from a vending machine, then because I was tired, he picked me up and brought me back to the picnic ground (family reunion.. he was there with my cousin.. my cousin is a guy, by the way.) Sorry it was so long...

well personally i like the funny truble makers!! i'd go with number 2,i dont like sweet guys!! But maybe thats because i never really thought of myself as a goody-goody. If yours a sweet heart i'd say go with number 1,if you more funny and a little wild go for number 2.

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Im a 14 year old girl and last year, my cousin broght his best friend to one of my family pool partys. My cousins a year younger than me, but his friend/neighbor was my age. We talked all night and had a great time. We hung out other times too and became best friends. We've been going out for 9 monthes now but my cousin HATES it! At first he was makin fun of us, but he's been trying to break us up ever since. I'm not trying to take my bf away from my cousin, but my cousin thinks i am. I love my bf soo much and i want to spend as much time with him as i can, but i do let them hang out alone sometimes. My bf is getting kinda pissed at my cuz and he'd rather b with my sometimes, but my cuz is soo pissed and he like treats my bf like shit when hes soo nice to him. My cousin thinks i treat him bad, by going out with his friend and it really upsets me, is there anything i can do? Thanks!

dude hes so jealous he thinks your "takeing" away his friend and you like your bf more than him,and your bf likes you more than him! everyones saying to talk to him about it,but that is harder to do then just have to give someone advice about it! They say bloods thicker than water and maybe you and your cuz could hang out! [[maybe you can find your cuz a girl friend!!]]

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while. We tell eachother everything. The other day I was talking to one of our friends and he was saying that there was rumor that my bf kissed another girl. Should I ask him or should I leave it because I trust he wouldnt do that?
Female 13

tell him about the rumars,but say you trust him that he wouldnt do it so you or he could put an end to the rumars. people are jealous of you and him's relationship and how tight you guys are!! Rumars are just as fake as the people who start them!!!

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i straighten my hair all the time and it's just silky and straight. i have a band banquet to go to this friday and i need to know how i should do my hair. pictures would help! i'm asian with long layered hair down near my boobs. hope this helps. thanks in advance!

omg you must be so pretty! sorry,had to say that,but you should make it like ciara's hair!!!!! [[the pop/r&b star!!]]She parts her hair to the left side then She slightly curls her hair at the ends it looks so good! Or you could curl it like her to!

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Hi everyone.. okay im not allowed to get my tongue pierced til im 18 :(.. but i want it done so so bad.. well my sister said you can get fake tongue rings and showed me it.. well on the picture it didnt look fake.. so i wanted to know if anybody knew about them.. like does it look fake..? would it be a waste of my money..? can you still kiss with it without it coming off...?? if you can answer ill rate any good answers high.. thanks in advance

my sister has a real on,she got it @ pins and cushans if you live in Maasachusetts. Well,they are carefull doing i though! I dont think they look fake,you should go to a peircing store and ask them! [[you should tell you parent that its not permenant if you get a real one you can take it out and it will close up !!]]

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I'm 14, and a girl. We just found out that my grandpa had cancer about a month and a half ago. We knew something was wrong but we weren't sure what. It was too bad when we found out so the medicine didn't do anyghing. Hes slowly getting worse and can die any day now. My whole family is devestated and sometimes i just can't take the feeling i get inside. =( My boyfriends grandma had an anurism and then 3 strokes, and now she's dying too, and it's going to happen the same way (go into a comma and stop breathing) and around the same time. We live in jersey but his grandmas in florida so he just went down there. I don't have him with me when i need him most and im just really upset. My cousin on my other side of the family doesn't care about anything that's happening to me, and he's hated me for the past 9 monthes because im going out with his friend! He won't even talk to me now, and he even has my step-sister on his side. I'm just really upset and i don't know what to do. Sometimes i just break down and cry which sort of helps, but is there anything else? Please help me, Im soo upset! Thank you

you should have a close friend with you,i hope hes ok im sorry :(

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my hair is naturally black and i want to dye it brown so what kind of product would be good to use for my hair thats permanent ?

Cvs in the section that has "Hair Dye" look for permenant theres alot of good brands just dont get the low low priced ones!

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i have a lot of trouble getting to sleep. i can't switch off wheni go to bed and i feel tired a lot of the time. I have tried cutting out caffiene, herbal sleeping tablets and all the obvious things and nothing works. can you help

ok,turn your lights off when you sleep,it helps. Then,get in bed 1 hour earlyer. you can also take a hot bath [[it sooths you]]. Reading a book is also good to do for 30 mins. Turn your tv down low [[volume]] well i hope i helped good luck!

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In my Humanities class, we are working on a paper proposal for a 4 page paper we need to complete by the end of the year. The topic is completely up to us as long as it is somewhat dealing with Humanities. I have 2 different areas that I would like to try researching and eventually writing my paper on, but I'm at a loss as to which one to choose from. The first is Abortion, and the second is Teen drug/alcohol abuse. My paper proposal is due tomorrow and I'm not sure which topic to choose and what I should write about in the proposal. Can you give me your opinion as to which topic I should pick and how to go about writing this proposal? Or, if you have any other suggestions as to a topic to use, that would be helpful too. Thanks so much!

I would like to say teen drug/alcohol abuse because it is a longer story to write about
thats just what i would do though
hope i helped!
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hello everyone i am a 13 year old girl. i want to start buying some clothes from aeropostle and hollister. but the problem is i am very small. i weigh only 85 pounds. the smalls are aeropostle and hollister are too big. is there is a smaller size at those two stores? if so please tell me what size

i rate high

aero has an 00 in pants and an xs in shirts!

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yesterday i was working on a project for chool outside adn a bug bit/stung teh bottom of my foot. i thought it was just a bee, but when i saw it, it looked like a big yellow fly. i know its not a horsefly. WHAT IS IT?!?! im allergic to bees, so i wasnt worried when it got swollen, but now its red and swollena dn i cant walk on it. what should i do. i already took some benadryl(sp?) thanks in advance!

gwt an ice pack,tell your mom about you'll have to go to the doctor
x0x0x good luck

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I need a cute bikini this summer. Does anyone know websiters or certain brands that have nice bikinis for a low price? (around 40 dollars) I really like the bathing suits that are hooked in the middle of your chest by a heart. No floral designs though. Thanks a bunch! I'll rate 5's!

aeropostale has hott 1s!! i hope u find the right 1!! [[if your 13,then limited too has good ones,but if your over 13,of course non of them would fit you]]

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ok i just got pro-active and i was wondering how long does it take 2 start seeing results?

and everyone always tells me such good stuff about it.. but has it NOT worked for anyone?! has anyone had any bad experiences with it. thanks!!

omg get your money back hun!!It gives you a bunch of little pimples everywhere!!!!

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okay so i like this guy... and i think he likes me... we were on the phone last night and he asked if i liked him- to which i answered yea- well idk if he lieks me the same or not.. like we hung out a lot today adn he gave me a ot of hugs, but im not sure though, i think i like him a lot though... but it seems like every relationship i get myself into i always end up breakin it off w/in like a week or so... can anybody tell me how to make a relationship last longer... adn if you think theres any hope for me and that guy?? thanks!!

yes there deff. hope hun!!! Find more activities to do with him,dont be shy!!! Make things fun and play around in school,i think boys like fun girls!!!

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Does anyone have a site where you can take a lot of fun quizes? Thanks!

on google.com you can serach for quizzes there might be some there :)

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Im 15/f..
Hey. I've been friends with this one girl since I was about 3 years old because our sisters were friends. Well, for some odd reason she doesn't like me anymore. So we just stopped being friends. She is horrible to my 2 best friends. She tries to take them away from me. It really gets me mad when she treats them this way.She thinks their her best friends and she constantly talks about me to them and I know shes trying to get them to not be friends with me anymore. What should I do?

-->JaKiE

well,act like you've never met your "friend". Then you can start over,never be mean cause it makes things worse,shake it off,find more new people to hang with. Soon you'll be popular and your friend will want to be your friend.Dont reject her,just remind her [[not in words,in actions]] of what she did to you. Never be mean. That makes things worse

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