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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

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okay here's my story, about four months ago i meet this boy named ryan at night with my three best girlfriends, they dared me to go up and start flirting with him because they thought he was like the hottest thing ever (i didnt AT THE TIME lol) anyways so i went up to him and i had a REALLY LONg and sweet convo with him.. we ended up trading sn's and phone numbers and we still end up talking until now... and i dont want to sound stupid or anything but i REALLY liek him and i want to know if he'll like me back but i have a HUGE problem. im NOT allowed to date until im fifteen and im 13 now and turning 14 in AUG. and he;s 15 and turning 16 in july...and one more thing, PLEASe everybody PLEASE dont think im like racist or anything when is ayt his but im not allowed to date\marry anyone who sint jewish.. and Ryan is catholic!!! please help..first of all i wanna know if i should disobey my mom bcuz i REALLy like Ryan and it hink he lieks me back and also is there anyone else out there with the whole mom\dating situation!!?!?!?1 lol PLEASEEEEEE HELP!!
-CONFUSED ONE =)

okay, well when religion gets involved it makes it hard. your mum isn't weird as such, she was just brought up in a different time and she is religious. you have to seriously consider annything you do but you cant hide away all your life. do what YOU want but try ot to hurt your family and consult them at any chance.

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i have problems with the way im feeling.. like it sounds weird but i never know how to feel.. like i dont know who i am or what i want or what i like.. im always thinking of what other people like.. i try not to but im always just thinking so much.. please help

okay i must admit this is a verfy difficult question. but i will answer it the best i can. okay. if you dont know who you are you dont know how to feel. so you need to find out who you are. it might be best to do up a family tree. find out where your ancestors came from. that will help you with your past. when you look into the mirror, repeat over and over in your head your full name. and think of all the people you care for that love you. you can tell who you are by the people you are associated with. like say there is a relative of some description, lets say an aunt. you can say i am her neice. or i am her best friend, that kind of thing. thats all i can say to help but i hope it helped you. you are special. everyone is special in their own special way so dont ever think that people dont care. and if you seriously cant find anyone that cares, know this. i care. i care about everyone i meet. so feel free to contact me for any help you could ever possibly need. no matter how stupid it may seem. i am here for you. my e-mail is angiemills88@hotmail.com

~ange

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Well, I'm a little unsure if I should be upset or not.
Okay. Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now and I found out a few months ago that I was not his "first" (talking about making out.) He was mine without a doubt. But it's not just that i'm not his first that upsets me, it's with who. It's this girl from another school named elena. She's a slut and she knows it. My boyfriend "didn't even like her" he claims. But, what concerns me is that if he didn't like her, what if he made out with me and he "doesn't even like me." Am I upset over a stupid thing? Because if I am I want to not ruin our relationship over something so stupid.
Once again,
Retro_Romance

he obviously likes you. he's been wiith you for 6 months. stop worrying

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Ok so I love my boyfriend very much ..like alot..I mean really I do..but my friend who is a girl adn is seriously attracted to me and I like her kinda really wants to make out with me and I kinda wanna make out with her to..but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend..what should I do..and I already talked to him and he goes "I love you and I trust you and it takes alot to hurt me" sooo im sooooo lost..please help me!

you cant act like this. tell your boyfriend of your feelings. say you wanna make out with her but you wont unless he says its okay.

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ok i havent gotten my period yet this month but it seems like i never have a regular period cycle..and my boyfriend and me were like messing around at his house but i was just giving him a handjob but he cumed but not on me....and i dont think it was any whree near me...and i was expecting my period around the 13 or 14 or around there and me and my boyfriend just recently did this stuff like a few days before the 13...is it possible to be pregnant? but i didnt get morning sickness or anything..

unless he actually came on you then no. but to be sure, do a test

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Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female.

i reckon about 5 bucks an hour. i get 8 bucks but i'm from australia so it isn't worth as much here... 8 bucks for me is 5 bucks for you.

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Ok, I wrote in earlier about the guy that hates me and everything. Well now he said that he is going to ask out this really discuting guy for me tomorrow in 1st period and I know he will. What can I do because I dont want to go out with this guy but I know that he will ask him. Someone please help me and plz hurry

dont let him know he is getting to you. dont worry about it. you dont have to go out with this guy. if he asks him then tell the gross guy that it was a joke and say sorry but yeah, your not interested. then forget about it. once he sees that you arent being affected by his bullying he'l stop. :) good luck!

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I really like this guy and hes home for vacation and so am i but i dont know if i should ask him if he wants to hang out or how. I mean we are really good friends but he has a girlfriend (who isnt home and hes thinking of breaking up with) but we never talk on the phone and he cant go online cuz his comps broken.....ugh what do i do!

ask him!!! go to his house if youo have to. just say that you really like him but you dont wanna do anything unless he dumps his girl.

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I've never had a boyfriend, because my parents think I'm too young, and I think I am too. But now in high school (i'm a freshman) it's really hard not to want a boyfriend. Another thing is I don't know how to tell my mom that I like someone. Every time I do she always walks away or laughs. She won;t take me seriously. What should I say/do to make her listen. I just want someone to talk to! ;(

you have to tel her you need to have a serious conversation with her. sit her down and tell her that you like this boy and you wanna go out with him. tell her how hard she is making it for you and just tell her how much things have changed since she was a kid.

!ANGE

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Ok, There is this one guy that I know and I've known that he has liked me for a while. The day I was finally going to say yea I found out that he had a girlfriend now. And I didn't really care. I still talk to him and everything and I can tell that he still really likes me. He always says how awesome I am and everything, and I don't know what to do. Because he is like flirting with me but he has a girlfriend. What do you think I should do? Help soon plz

talk to him. tell him you like him but you aren't going to do anything coz he has a girl... hopefully he will dump his girl for you.

~ANGE

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I'm in love with one of my old guy best friends. I don't really know what to do about it though. He's really shy and I got him something for Valentine's Day and he liked it. And I think he likes me, because he's always glancing over, coming over just because and always gets nervous around me, little things like that. Do you think he likes me and what should I do about it? I dont want to ruin the friendship, but the way things are right now is driving me nuts! Help!

go for it. it'll ruin your friendship if you DONT. coz you like him so much it'll be hard to just be friends.

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I like this guy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We are friends, and his best friend is my brother. I want to become more than friends, but I'm not sure if he does. My parents and my siblings don't think I should date or anything of that sort. This guy is not like any other guy I know. He's special, I just don't know how to tell him that. I'm also not sure if he likes me. Whenever he's doing something, he always persuades me to go. And if I'm not going to do something, he then says, "well then I'm not going." I don't want to say anything because that would be awkward at school and church. I'm not sure what to do, should I go for it and ask him or not!?!?! Sorry its so long!

go for it girl!!! slip a note in his bag/locker at school. that'll give him time to think about it. good luck!

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I i got the dancing game i wanted (DDR). I cant stop playing it. My mom says i acn lose a lot of weight playing it. Is losing a lot of weight good or bad? I need help.

it depends on if your chubby or not. but as long as you eat healthy i'm sure its no problem.

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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.

Your one of a kind! :) it is well known that guys like sex alot more than girls. and at a young age, most guys hormones are going crazy and pretty much all they think about is sex. i have had many boyfriends break up with me because i didn't wanna have sex with them. i guess it started off as a stereotype and a bunch of guys were actually like that and before you know it, it seems like all guys are like that. i never judge guys on wether or not they wanna have sex, i judge them on wether they are going to resect me and wait. your a great guy and i'm sure any self respecting girl would be lucky to have you. hope i helped!

~ange

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i live in a two family apartment and my aunt lives in the room below me and she got a new boy friend and every night and day all i hear is them screamin and mooanin and the bed squeeking they have already broke 2 beds and are buying another and i hate both of them i only my baby cousin grey i feel bad for him i want to adopt him but im only 14 but im his god mother i guess that counts what can i do about both problems?
-Kaylor

SHIT. you need to talk to someone. but not the cops and dont specify names. they could take your cousin away. find out your rights and if you can talk to your aunt. tell her that she is treating your cousin wrong and that he's gonna be scarred for life. ask to take care of him for a while or you'll go to the cops. keep me updated at angiemills88@hotmail.com good luck.

~Ange

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i have been on and off with this boy lets call him bob 4 da past 3 or 4 years, and over the years we have fallen inlove. we used to not go to the same school and we had a great relationship until i moved away. wen i moved back i started going to his school and once again we started dating. there has been alot of drama and we have broken up alot of times but we are still inlove. we have both dated defferent people but we still always go back to eachother. i just started dating this new guy lets call him billy. well billy an i dated once b 4 but i dumped him to get back with bob. well just a few nights ago bob tryed 2 get with me but i said no, even though i like billy i love bob, but i just donr want to do thid 2 billy again. last time billy's sister(1 of my best friends) got really mad at me and we didnt talk 4 almost a month! so i dont know what to do...some one please help! i know this is long but i promis i will rate!

well it is damn wrong to be with billy when you wanna be with bob. really wrong. break up with billy and get with bob.

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I know there's probably a ton of questions out there like this, but i'm gonna ask it anyway. I love this guy to death and he's my friend. He just broke up with his g/f whom he was obsessed with. I don't really know how to get things going. He's absolutely amazing, and i'd do almost anything to be with him. Any advice?

if you wanna be with him you gotta make a move. but be careful, you dont wanna ruin your friendship. drop REALLY obvious hints (i've said b4 that guys dont get signals so make em real obvious) or you can be real straight forward and kiss him... just when it feels right.

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I just recently invested a lot of time and money in this girl i like. She liked all the gifts that I gave her. I know because of MSN and texting back and forth. I even made tears of joy come to her eyes because of what I did on Valentines-day. Well now I think a "friend" has geven her the advice of playing hard to get. I've already done everything that I had planed and she just said that she wants to be friends. WHAT SHOULD I DO

dont let her play with you. just say to her that you dont want to be just friends. it's either a couple or nothing. give her time to consider it and then ask for her answer. if she says nothing then at least you know mut if she wants to be a couple... congrats!

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im 16!
im scared to french kiss a guy and theres this one guy that i really like an he likes me to but everytime im with him i get scared an i just kiss him on the lips an no more. im scared im goign to do it wrong or something . i dunno what to do

its kinda hard to kiss wrong. as long as you dont go crazy with your tounge its aight.just kiss and part your lips a bit so he knows and he'll lead the way. :)

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I need some nice vintage holey jeans! Where do you think is a good way to find them or how can i get them this way at home? Thanks a bunch!

get some old jeans of yours and get a rough nail file. nail file the pants in some places until there are holes. it looks like its warn off!!!

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