Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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ok bottom line..
im hanging out with 2 guys that like me. i dont like one more than the other so i dont know which one to hook up with. and the other problem is that those guys are good friends, so i don't want to break their relationship.
help is appreciated!! (link)
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Hey!
Heres what I think I would do. I would probably just wait for one of them to make a move on you. Because if guy 1 comes out and says hey wanna go out with me, then he's probably either talked to guy 2 and they've worked something out, or he's being a jerk and breaking up his friendship, either way it's not your fault, because he asked you first.
Just one word of advice, dont let it get to a point where you have to decide between both of them, if it does get to that place, then you should just tell them that you couldnt handle breaking up their friendship, and that either they can decide, or you just wont go out with either of them.
Thats what I would do anyway, unless you have a stronger feeling for either of them, then it would be a bigger deal and you'd have to follow your heart.
Good luck, and I hope I helpped, Love ya,
Angie91
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Well listen, I had this great bf, but I broke with him because I was being stupid. Now when I'm basically on my knees, he won't take me back. I practically told him I love him, but that doesn't count. He really is hurting me. Should I leave him for good, or just keep hoping for him to take me back? (link)
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Hey!
Well if you keep asking whats 2 + 2 and the answer is 4 and you keep hoping it'll change to 5, then people would probably think you're crazy, so you just have to think of this as the same type of thing (I'm not saying you're crazy dont worry).
You made a mistake. Life sucks, and it's filled with times when we make stupid mistakes, but mistakes are a good thing as long as we learn from them. So think about what you did wrong in this relationship, and try not to do it in the next, if you do, then you have a problem, but I think It'll be fine.
There are a billion guys out there. You will be able to find one who is as good as him, or maybe even better.
There are lots of steps to moving on, and if you want some help with that let me know, I'm the queen of moving on tips, so I can help you if you need some.
Deciding whether or not to leave him or keep going with him, is up to you, and you never know 4 may eventually turn to 5. But most likely you hurt him, and hes tired of worrying about you hurting him again. So it's up to you, if you really want him, then go for it, but like i said there are a billion guys out there, and a billion more chances to find that great guy.
So follow YOUR heart and you will go far. I hope I helpped you make some sense of this, and let me know if you want some tips. Good luck,
Love ya,
Angie91
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Well I bought Halls vitamin C and it says take only maxium of 2 but I like it that i eat a lot a day (til I just read the max numbers).
What happens if I eat too much? Can something bad happen to my body? (link)
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Hey!
I doubt anything bad will happen, its good to get vitamin C, but I would suggest getting a different vitamin C tablet and a different halls, that way you're getting your vitamin C even when you're not coughing, and you get youre coughing controlled, when you dont need vitamin C.
I hope that helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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is there any way to tell if you're on the end of a three-way call (link)
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Hey!
HAHA the answer below me sucked. If you know that the other person may be on the other line, then why would you call them? That doesnt even answer your question.
Anyway, I dont know if here is actually a way to tell. listen for breathing, but I doubt that will help, uh try to use the rule of thumb, just dont talk about people on the phone. If someone is trying to get you to talk about someone else while you're on the phone, then say that you are busy and you cant talk now, if someone sounds like their lying or acting strangely then that may be a give away. But no, I dont think theres any tell tale way to know if you're on the other end of a three way call. I hope my answer helpped a bit, at least more than the other person. Love ya,
Angie91
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Is anxiety a sad feeling or is it a fatal exciting feeling like when you're watching soap opera and you're really excited yet stressed at what's going to happen next?
Because I'm really confused about anxiety pills that anna nicole took..
the dictionary didn't help.. (link)
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Hey!
Anxiety is liek hyperventalating and freaking out for basically no reason. It's being overly worried for no real reason, liek if I dont leave at this second then I'm going to be late, what if my boss fires me and I have to move out and I have to live on the street. It's like going insane for pretty much no reason.
Anxiety isnt that adrenalin rush when you dont know whats going to happen next, its that fear that whats going to come next is going to be bad and possibly kill you lol.
As far as the pills she took, I dont know what youre confused about, but the reason she took them probably wasnt that she was uner stress it was probably an over dose either in order to commit suicide, or to get high, if you ask me. Anyways, I hope i helpped, Love ya,
Angie91
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I know this may sound stupid but like me and my mom aren't very close like most kids and their moms so I don't like going up to her and asking her to get me stuff like pads/tampons. I usually just send like a text or email and she'll get them for me, which probably also sounds stupid. But I recently sent an email and asked her to get me pads and I also asked to get me food and stuff. Well she got the food but she didn't get the pads for some reason. I don't know why though. So I guess I'll have to get them when me and my whole family go to the grocery store. And my family usually just stays in one big group and I don't want to like bring them all into that aisle. Is there a way I can like just put them in the cart without them noticing? (link)
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Hey,
I know you feel uncomfortable asking her, but just sit down one day and tell your mom that you need some pads, and that you feel uncomfortable asking, then try to make a code, like mom, I need some macaroni and then everytime you say that she can just get them. If you make it something stupid then you can even put it on the grochery list for her. Yeah converstaions with parents can be uncomfortable, but you'll realize as you get older, then pads arent really something thats uncomfortable to talk about anymore, and all you have to do for right now, is try and get through it and eventually it'll be okay. Try to think of pads as like something stupid like macaroni and that will help too.
This is tough right now but you'll get through it dont worry, ad for the future try and tell your mom early, so you always have some extras, and dont run into this problem again.
As far as when you go shopping, try and talk to your mom quickly before and she can just grab them as if they are for her. If that doesnt work, when they're checking out, say you'll be right back and run off to get somet then run over to a different cash register and buy them. Good luck, Hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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theres this guy I like but i dont know if he likes me? theres this guy that has liked me since 2nd grade and wants to go out with me should I? (link)
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Hey
Well I think that if you are willing to ask a guy out and put yourself out there, then you should do that, but if you want to date a guy who you know will say yes, then ask the other one out. You have to do what your heart says if you dont like guy #2 then dont ask him out. If you like him then thats great. Only you know who you like. This is a tough decision and I wish I could help you out but I can't its up to you, and remember this, you're young (unless you're like 90 :P ) I'm sure you will have lots of other guys in your life so if this one doesnt work out theres always another shot a few weeks later.
Good luck, follow your heart! I hope I helpped,
Love ya.
Angie91
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14/f/ca sumtimes im walking in the mall and i see this really cute guy and i like wanna talk to him and my friend says come on hilary lets go say hi and im all like NO!! well my question is how can i be more confident when it comes to talking to a cute boy i dont know
thanx in advance (link)
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Hey Hilary!
Heres what you have to do, you just have to think about it this way, its a win win situation. If you go up to him and you make a fool of yourself, then it'll be something you can laugh about with your friends, and it will help you learn what to say to the next one, so you dont make the same mistake again, and you'll probably never see him again, so he wont go off and tell all your friends you're an idiot or anything (not that you are :P )
If you dont mess up, which is actually more likely than the other one, then you win again, you get to go out with an awesome guy because you were confident and faced your fears.
It's tough to get over shyness, but I know you can do it, so dont worry about it. Just think positively, and try and think up some conversation starters before hand. Plus your friend'll be there when you go to do it, so you'll be able to lean on her to help you out.
Good luck, and I hope you answered your question!
Love ya,
Angie91
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im 15/f. whenever i find out a guy i like is gonna ask me out my immediate thoughts are: how is this going to end? if we date am i going to end up breaking up with him? will he end up hurting me? will we end up hating each other? this always happens and it ruins everything. how can i stop focusing on it ending when it hasnt even begun? (link)
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Hey!
Well I read the answers before mine, and that girl mentioned the secret. The secret is basically a movie about a bunch of people who became millionaires by focusing on the positive side of life. Like its probably pretty cool, but I doubt that will reall yhelp you here, so I'm here to help.
It's hard for someone who is super positive (like me) to help someone who doesnt have that same OMG enthusiasm. But I think I can help here.
You have to take a step back from it all and look at the big picture if you dont let yourself take a chance then you will end up missing out on everything.
SO heres what you have to do. You have to take that chance. Chances are, you are going to get hurt. Chances are you are going to end up breaking up eventually, changes are you will fight and have disagreements, but chances also, are that you will get to know a great guy who will grow to love you. He will care for you and treat you nicely. So thats got to outweigh it doesnt it?
So take your chance, and find a random guy and tell him you want to go out on a date with him. Just a date. Out for coffee, a movie, no commitment. Just a fun date. Then at the end of the date tell him that you're having issues with worrying about the end, and tell him that its stupid, because you had so much fun, and that you really want to go out again.
I know it sounds easier said than done, but by taking that chance, you are putting yourself out there, to get hurt, and yeah it will hurt for a bit. But rejection has that tiny sting, and the only way to get over it is to move on and find someone else. So if you ask a guy out and he says no, then find another guy who wants to.
Obviously you know what your problem is, the only problem is that overcomming it, isnt as simple as recognizing it. You'll probably just have to face your fears and get out there. How do you overcome airplanes? You go try one out before it takes flight right? So just take dating one step at a time, and if you feel yourself thinking too far ahead, think about how great life is right now, and that if you think to far ahead you'll just mess it up.
This was a tough one, but I read the other comments and I didnt think they were good enough. I hope I helpped, love ya lots,
Angie91
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Are there ANY money cheats for roller coaster tycoon 2? (link)
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hi.
I'm gonna answer your question because I'm nice, but most people wouldnt answer your question because a big rule on this site is, if its something that pops up as the first site when you go to google, you should ask it as a question, simply because we have better things to do than go to google and search it for you. You have time you should figure it out. But I did, so maybe you will learn that the reason your answers are limited is because you asked a question about a game that has cheats listed on the first site that comes up on google. If you would like me to teach you how to use google, then thats a different story, but I will anyway. gop to google.ca and type in roller coaster tycoon cheats this site will be the first to pop up.
http://cheats.ign.com/ob2/068/010/010759.htm
(rct1)
http://www.cheatscodesguides.com/pc-cheats/roller-coaster-tycoon-2/
(rct2)
there you have it. simple as that. Hope I helpped with out offending you or anything, I just ant you to know that these arent really the best questions to ask this site :D. Love ya,
ANgie91
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My best friend since 1st grade hates my b/f of one year. and vice versa. It's so bad that they literally can't be around each other for more then 5 seconds w/out getting in a big fight. My friend gets mad and wants me to dump him but my b/f is usually very sweet and I'm crazy about him. I hate that they fight and don't know what to do because sometimes he is at fault and other times it's her. I've basically stopped defending either of them and neither are happy about it but I'm so confused. My friend is strong and idependant so she never stops but my b/f is an idiot on this issue and doesn't listen when I tell him to back off. What do I do?! (link)
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Hey!
Well this is a tough situation. So heres what you need to do, you need to start with your friend and tell her that you are in love (or whatever) with your boyfriend. Tell her how much he means to you and that you know she doesnt like him, but sometimes in life there are people that we have to deal with that we dont like. Tell her that there is a side of him that she doesnt see. Tell her that you care about what she thinks, and if she has input (such as soething that she feels is important for you to know about him) that she is welcome to give it to you, but she has to be respectful of him and you. Tell her that you love her, and you are never going to let him come between the two of you, and that you will always be friends, its just that you cant deal with what stress she is putting on you. Tell her that both her and him mean a tremendous amount to you, and that you are so troubled by the fact that they cant get along. Tell her that if she really loves you she will try and see what you see, and at least try and make an effort to be kind to the boy you like so much.
Then go to the boy. Tell him that you love him (or if not, that you love being with him or whatever) and that you arent going to breakup with him. Tell him that the two of you just need to talk about the relationship he has with your friend. Tell him that she has her faults but he also has his, and by pointing out her faults to you it just hurts you. Tell him its not funny, and its also not fair. The reason your friend is upset is because (most likely) she fears she is going to lose you to so creepy guy she hates. So by him enforcing that fact it just makes her hurt more. SO tell him that, and tell him that you arent going to choose one or the other, because thats too hard, but instead you want them to see the stress they are putting on you. Tell him that with every mean or negative insult type thing he says about your friend, he is really just stabbing you, of course not directly, but it just hurts you more with every thing he says.
Tell them both that you trust them to be the bigger man, and to take this into their own hands. Then see which one listens. The next time their in a room together, either a) neither of them will do anything, there will just be tension or b) one of them will do something to agrrivate the other. Then call that person aside. Tell them that they disrespected what you asked them to do, and by doing that, they put your relationship in jeopardy. Tell them that you love them, and the only way that your relationship will work, is if THEIR relationship works. Yeah this will probably piss them off, but then you take the other one and leave. Leave the room, leave the party, whatever, just leave. It shows that you care about them, and you thank them for not being the first one to crack. Then later, call the one who inniciated the fight and explain that you left because of their actions, and they have to realize that their actions have consequences now. And yeah there will be times when you will be alone with them, but sometimes there will be times when the three of you have to be together and because you are adult enough to have a boyfriend, you are adult enough to handle situations, therefore, so are they.
You need to know that this is not your fault okay? There is nothing you did to make this situation like this, and I know, because I've been on the best friend side of this situation, actually, I AM on that side of the situation. I really dislike my friends boyfriend, but not long ago I realized that I was really hurting my friend and I still cant be around him because he scares me and stuff, but I still try to be there for her. And eventually they will have revelations too, and realize what they are doing to each other and you. So no matter how hard it is now, it will get better. only time will change things, with a little guidence from you. One thing to remember is, if you're getting pissed off, leave. Theres no point trying to deal with them when you're frustrated you'll just hurt one of them.
Good luck, and I hope I helpped.
Love ya,
Angie91
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i was bored so i went to a cchat room hwere you can talk 2 random people and i met this guy whos 16 and i told him i was 15 and im really 13,and i like him,and i don't think he will talk to me if i tell him.and i lied about the fact that i have big boobs(i have boobs but they arent HUGE) lol so should i tell him or just let him think im 15? (link)
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hey!
Well this is a difficult question. You have to consider the chances of you ever meeting this person. Like will you really ever go out with him? Will you see him in person will you get to know him after the next couple of weeks or months. If you probably wont, then theres no point telling him. Though he may figure it out. You see when you talk to some one you build a bond with them and sometimes when you lead someone on, and you keep a lie going then it can really hurt the relationship later, so you have to think about the future, but if you want something to happen, but not something durastic like meeting him, then dont tell him the truth because you arent going to get to talk to him anymore. Like if he builds a relationship with you, then maybe a few months from now you can tell him the truth, but if you just tell him now when he really doesn't know you, then yeah it might be over.
As far as the lie about your breasts, well everyone lies about that. So dont even worry about that. And if you ever do meet in person what can he say he cant be like oh I was expecting bigger boobs.
When you go into chat rooms, theres always that instability factor. People can lie about anything and you wouldnt know. They can take a picture of a friend and put it up as them. Like theres no way you will ever be 100% sure that someone you met online is really what they say they are, and your guy knows that. So when he's talking to you, he thinks you're a fifteen year old DD or something, but you think hes a 16 year old, and you never know what he really is. Thats chat rooms for you anywa. So basically, just carry on with your relationship how you want to and let it take its course. In the end he'll probably find out the real you, but when the end is is up to you. Well I hope I helpped love ya,
Angie91
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if i only eat fruit and energy bars and drink water a lil soda and energy drinks will i gain weight or lose it..pls dont talk about how that isent heathy..thankyou (link)
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Hey!
well its hard to say, if you live a sedintary livestyle, then you'll gain the weight because the sugar in the soda and the engergy products will catch up with you, but if you are running around and drinking the energry drinks while playing heavy sports then you'll probably lose weight. The fruit is probably okay, it'll basically stay even they do have alittle bit of sugar in them though so again, it alll depends on whether or not you're working it off. Glad you know its not healthy because some people actually eat that and wonder why they get headaches (sugar high). hope I helped,
love ya,
Angie91
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why yes, I do drink 6-8 glasses a day :)
but why is it important to do so, exactly? (link)
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Hey!
Well, this is a good question, It's not so important, how much water you drink exactly, but that you are drinking a lot of water, because if you dont continue to hydrate yourself, you can have side effects (ie headaches and stomach aches), as well it helps you to clean out your systems, and if you have a weight problem, then it helps to keep your weight stable, or help you lose weight.
Water is an excellent drink replacment, because it doesnt really have anything in it, it helps you to get the hydration you need with out the sugar and all of that other stuff that is in other drinks.
I hope that answers your question, love ya,
Angie91
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How do you know when you need a break with your boyfriend? Because, part of me wants to and the other doesnt.
Any help? (link)
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Hey,
this is a tough question, what you need to do is think about this, if you break up the chances of you getting back together are slim to none, but if you want to see what its like to not be with him then this is a good sign. If he is doing things that arent right and just treating you badly, then its time for a break.
In the end its all up to you and him. Talk to him and tell him how your feeling and if you do decide to take a break outline the things that are okay and and the things that are unacceptable.
Find out if hes going to see other people or if hes going to wait the few weeks for you. Decide what kinds of things are things you both have to work on and why he makes you feel like you need this break. be gentle and no demanding. Dont turn this into a fight tell him you dont want to break up, but dont tell him its all on you if he needs to change something.
I hope I helped good luck, and don't feel bad, a lot of people have to go through this type of thing, love ya,
Angie91
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My boyfriend of 9 months, and I broke up a month ago. Ever since, we've been talking every other day for about 5 minutes each time. The only reason he talks to me is to make me happy. Honestly, I don't know WHY I want to talk to him.
I want to stop, but whenever I get home from school it's such a habit to just pick up the phone and dial his number. What can I do to stop it? I want to just end it, because it looks like I'm desperate and I want him to be running after me, not me running after him!! :[
Anyone whose been through this, just give me ideas, please! :] (link)
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Hey!
Well, first of all, we all move on in different ways, and yeah this is a habit you picked up that hasnt been making the moving process easier, but it's okay, because you're noticing that you picked up this habit and you're trying to quit. So thats a great thing!
SO what do we do? Well the first thing you need to do, is figure out why you call him. What you talk about and what this is doing to you (both good and bad). Then you need to figure out what you could do instead of calling him (ie calling someone else, or going on the computer and talking to one of your friends). Then you need to figure out how to talk about that stuff some how else. (like, say you talk about your day with him, start a journal, say you talk about problems with your friends with him, talk to your friends, instead of behind their backs) and finally how to get the good (out of what good this is doing vs what bad it is doing) some other way.
Then there is will power. So basically, heres what you dom quitting cold turkey would be very stupid. So what you should do instead is try and set a day such as thrusday (lmao I just picked a day) and call him on those days. Talk about your week so far what you're doing on the weekend tell him you won the game in gym or you cant wait till this party you're going to on friday. Little things. Make small talk. And dont call him other days. Then, to make sure you dont call him,get a jar and a roll of quarters, and everytime you come home from school and you're like oh I wanna call____ go to the jar and throw a quarter in. You'll make some money and it will help.
One of the reasons that you do this is to keep him close to you, but you arent dating him anymore, and by doing this you think you have made the moving on process easier, but really its ten times harder. So I dont know whether you ahve moved on yet or not, but you'll figure that out this week when you dont get to call him every day. So if you need to still move on, let me know, I know all the tricks okay, so don't worry this will all work out, and you know you may actually have a sucessful break up. You guys may still be friends afterward. Thats awesome. So I hope I helped, adn good luck, trying to quit. Love ya,
Angie91
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you know that girl camille from bring it on: all or nothing? well her name is solange knowles smith, so is she beyonce's sister? (link)
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hey,
Obviously you have the answer to your question, by asking and the other people said she was, and honestly, I probably wouldnt have known, but if you want to know more about this kind of thing, for future references Imdb is a really good site. It has all the actors in movies, and it also has facts about them, and you can find out about their family and all that kind of stuff. I know it's not really answering your question, but I just thought you might like to know about it so I just thought I'd tell you about it that way you can use that next time. :D
Love ya,
Angie91
www.imdb.com
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15/f. when a boy asks you out in person, what are you supposed to say? you can't just say YES. that would be weird. what else can i say? (link)
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Hey,
I think that you should be alittle hesitant, but don't sound like going out with him would be torture, say: "um yeah that sounds good." But use words that make you sound enthusiastic such as awesome or great.
ask questions such as cool, what restaurant do you want to go to, and make suggestions for yourself, like I don't really like that place, but I hear the one next door is awesome, maybe we should try there.
Saying yes would kind of make you sound eager, and it makes you sound liek you wre waiting for t to happen, but if you smile and nod and take part int he planning like its a conversation and not a request then not only will he be more confident, but you can cover up the fact that you may have been caught off gaurd.
Hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
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this boy really likes me and is apparentely goign to ask me out. Im not sure what to do, i really really like him but im not sure if i can be in a relationship right now because of other peoples cocky comments like haha hes going out with her! what shall i do, shall i say yes or no? (link)
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Hey!
Well the decision is really up to you, but here are a few things to think about before you make your decision.
Your entire life people will always have opinions that sometimes you dont agree with. For your entire life you will be talked about behind your back and questioned to your face. But it is your choice t decide whether or not you are going to let the things that people say and do control what makes you happy.
You can date who ever you want and what other people say will still be looming over you, so what you need to decide is whethe ror not that is just another excuse for a reason to not date him. It probabl isnt, but you never know what you might be subconciously holding in. So basically its up to this. You have to decide on dating him because of who he is and how he makes you feel not what other people say.
There are lots of things that keep perfectly great couples apart and I would hate to see two people who really like each other be kept apart by what other people think. Good luck, and I hope you make a decision that makes you feel right. Hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
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In a day, how many calories do you burn, without intentional exercise? (link)
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Hey!
Go to google, and type in claorie counter and it will bring up a list of foods that you eat and then figure out how many you eat. Then go to another site that has calories for like excersize or sleeping or walking or other activities, and then add those up. Then take away the food from the excersize and see what you have left.
I hope that helpped. I think it makes sense. We did a project on that in school a week ago, but I didnt do it online we used a text book. But I'm sure google will have it. Love ya,
Angie91
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