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BOY TROUBLE!!!
Well listen, I had this great bf, but I broke with him because I was being stupid. Now when I'm basically on my knees, he won't take me back. I practically told him I love him, but that doesn't count. He really is hurting me. Should I leave him for good, or just keep hoping for him to take me back?
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Well, to start off, just remember you let him go. (Duh) What I would do is just let him go. Unless you really, HONESTLY think that you're going to win him back. If he's hurting you, whether he's the one who started the whole situation or not, any guy who hurts you isn't worth it. Just think about it, would you rather keep trying to get him back, and fail? (According to how you're saying it's going) Or, would you just let go and move on? I know moving on isn't as simple as it seems, but what would you rather do?
Also, keep in mind that he's probably hurt that you broke up him [for whatever reason].
Good Luck, hun<3
Jess♥
P.S. (Adding to your additional question)
I'm not exactly sure. I would give the whole thing some time. There;s no guarantee as to whether or not he would take you back. But, if he doesn't just know not to make the same mistake for next time.
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Hey!
Well if you keep asking whats 2 + 2 and the answer is 4 and you keep hoping it'll change to 5, then people would probably think you're crazy, so you just have to think of this as the same type of thing (I'm not saying you're crazy dont worry).
You made a mistake. Life sucks, and it's filled with times when we make stupid mistakes, but mistakes are a good thing as long as we learn from them. So think about what you did wrong in this relationship, and try not to do it in the next, if you do, then you have a problem, but I think It'll be fine.
There are a billion guys out there. You will be able to find one who is as good as him, or maybe even better.
There are lots of steps to moving on, and if you want some help with that let me know, I'm the queen of moving on tips, so I can help you if you need some.
Deciding whether or not to leave him or keep going with him, is up to you, and you never know 4 may eventually turn to 5. But most likely you hurt him, and hes tired of worrying about you hurting him again. So it's up to you, if you really want him, then go for it, but like i said there are a billion guys out there, and a billion more chances to find that great guy.
So follow YOUR heart and you will go far. I hope I helpped you make some sense of this, and let me know if you want some tips. Good luck,
Love ya,
Angie91
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Try talking to him about it. He's probably bitter that you broke up with him. Just tell him you made a mistake & you were confused, but now you know what you really feel. If he doesn't listen, then let him go. He's made his choice then. If you explain your feelings & tell him how much you love him & care, he might give you another chance. Good luck!
-hope that helped!♥
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