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i was bored so i went to a cchat room hwere you can talk 2 random people and i met this guy whos 16 and i told him i was 15 and im really 13,and i like him,and i don't think he will talk to me if i tell him.and i lied about the fact that i have big boobs(i have boobs but they arent HUGE) lol so should i tell him or just let him think im 15?
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If you met this guy in some random chat room, what are the chances that you'll ever actually talk to him again? I would just let this go. If you never talk to him again, who is this white lie actually hurting? Pretty much no one. Just let him think you're 15. It's really not that big of a deal.
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Well this is a difficult question. You have to consider the chances of you ever meeting this person. Like will you really ever go out with him? Will you see him in person will you get to know him after the next couple of weeks or months. If you probably wont, then theres no point telling him. Though he may figure it out. You see when you talk to some one you build a bond with them and sometimes when you lead someone on, and you keep a lie going then it can really hurt the relationship later, so you have to think about the future, but if you want something to happen, but not something durastic like meeting him, then dont tell him the truth because you arent going to get to talk to him anymore. Like if he builds a relationship with you, then maybe a few months from now you can tell him the truth, but if you just tell him now when he really doesn't know you, then yeah it might be over.
As far as the lie about your breasts, well everyone lies about that. So dont even worry about that. And if you ever do meet in person what can he say he cant be like oh I was expecting bigger boobs.
When you go into chat rooms, theres always that instability factor. People can lie about anything and you wouldnt know. They can take a picture of a friend and put it up as them. Like theres no way you will ever be 100% sure that someone you met online is really what they say they are, and your guy knows that. So when he's talking to you, he thinks you're a fifteen year old DD or something, but you think hes a 16 year old, and you never know what he really is. Thats chat rooms for you anywa. So basically, just carry on with your relationship how you want to and let it take its course. In the end he'll probably find out the real you, but when the end is is up to you. Well I hope I helpped love ya,
Angie91
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Tell him the truth. My friend has personal expeirences from lying about her age -- it got her into a big mess with the guy and his friends.
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Most people on chatrooms aren't pedophiles, that's ridiculous. There's probably 1 in every 200 people. I'd tell him the truth and see what happens. A normal teenager would be reluctant to continue talking to you. A pedophile would brush it aside. If you loose that guy, there's 450 million more fish in the internet. Just remember not to give anyone personal info.
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I know this isnt an answer you will want to hear, but I would just not talk to him anymore. Block him, as fast as you can. Most guys in chatrooms- a large majority, are pedifiles. They are just looking for teen girls to meet, and later end up meeting them somewehere, and taking them captive, using them as sex slaves, and raping them. Do not continue talking to this guy- and since you told him you had big boobs, it just makes this guy want to meet you more,and take advantage of you.
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