duudee_advicer answered Sunday April 8 2007, 12:19 pm: NEVER date a guy you don't absolutley like. I'm not sure how old you are, but the older you get the more you'll realize how special relationships are and you'll learn not to take advantage of them. I advise you to persure the boy you really want instead of giving false hope to the one who wants you. Whats more important: Having a boyfriend you actually want to be with? ... Or just having a boyfriend at all?
angie91 answered Friday April 6 2007, 3:59 pm: Hey
Well I think that if you are willing to ask a guy out and put yourself out there, then you should do that, but if you want to date a guy who you know will say yes, then ask the other one out. You have to do what your heart says if you dont like guy #2 then dont ask him out. If you like him then thats great. Only you know who you like. This is a tough decision and I wish I could help you out but I can't its up to you, and remember this, you're young (unless you're like 90 :P ) I'm sure you will have lots of other guys in your life so if this one doesnt work out theres always another shot a few weeks later.
Good luck, follow your heart! I hope I helpped,
Love ya.
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solidadvice4teens answered Friday April 6 2007, 2:50 pm: I take it you are talking about two seperate people. In the case with the first guy the only way to find out if he likes you is to approach him. Don't ask him out directly but rather invite him out with friends to hangout at a movie, bowling etc.
See if he is responsive. If he doesn't seem at all intersted or turns you down you will know to move on. On the other hand, if someone has liked you for more than a decade and wants to date you and you like him that sounds like it will work splendidly.
The decision is one we cannot make for you. It's all up to you to determine your wants and needs from a potential boyfriend. If I were you I would lean towards guy # 2 because he sincerely likes you. Guy number 1 is someone we have no idea about when it comes to whether he likes you.
Who do you like more? Once you establish that in your mind the decision will be easy and obvious. It just boils down to two questions Who do you like more? Who would be the best choice and someone who I feel secure with?
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