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Hi!My name is Melissa.I'm from G.I. New York.I love being able to help people and giving advice.I'm usually the person who people come to for advice and i'm always glad to be there for them.If you just wanna talk or if you want advice you can IM me.UnLuckyWishes3.I'm really into sports and love to play basketball.I play JV voleyball and Varsity track.

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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....

Yea thats fine i was in 7th grade last year and some of my bestfriends went out with 6th graders.Actually alot of people in my grade did.I'ts perfectly fine.Hope i helped.

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ok....theres this kid that is going out w/ the girl i love...and he knows that i still love her...(she's my ex)....and he makes fun of me b cuz he's going out w/ her and im not....he makes up all these lies saying that she said them...but she didnt just to piss me off. i want to kick his ass...but then she'll hate me forever....every one else says to forget what she thinks about it and just do it....but i dont know what to do.....HELP ME!!

Try and talk to her, tell her your happy she has a boyfriend you just wish he would change the way he treats you.And the reason you came to her was because you wanted things to cahnge adn you didnt want ot something you'll regret{kicking his ass}.I guess as a last resort you could kick his ass or threaten but try not to.hope i helped.

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Here's the deal, I hate school so much! I do really well, but I just hate it? Any suggestions?

Talk to your parents maybe ask if you could get home schooled or switch to a different school.i'm really sorry you dont liek it.Well i hope everything works out and your happy.

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hey i think i might be overweight. i'm 5'7 and weigh 105 lbs. my bff said i'm a beanpole. but i think i culd lose weight. help.

Your underweight!Please dont lose anymore weight if anything you really need to gain weight.Please take care of yourself.And dont think you need to lose weight any weight.If you need advice or just want to talk my s/n is UnLuckyWishes3.Please dont lose anymore weight.

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me and my friends have a so called"friend" named jodi.weve known her for like half a year.at first she seemed cool.but then she got really annoying.she started acting like a bytch and only do what she would wanna do.so should we keep talking behind her baq and acing like were her friend.or confront her and tell her we dont wanna be her friend
13/f

You should confront her.Your not doing any of you a favor by talking behind her back and being friends with someone you dont want to and you really annoys you.What fun is that?If you confront her just talk her confrontation isnt always the best thing.Well i hope everything works out.

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i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin

Yea it's perfectly fine alot of people dont start dating until thier 15 oe 16, possibly older.I'm in 8th grade too and a bunch of my friends are just starting to have boyfriends or still dont have a boyfriend yet.Dont worry its not weird.If you wanna talk or need advice let it in my inbox or IM on UnLuckyWishes3.hope i helped.

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Could you get pregnant if a guy had his dick like not in your vagina but right outside it and he cums, and he tries to pull away....but some gets on your clit, could you get pregnant?

- I know its confusing!!

-thanks
-Zero~

If it goes into your vagina you could get preganant.

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Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?

Thats perfectly fine, you cant help how you feel or who you are.If your parents will understand tell them and there's groups for girls and guys who are afraid to come out.Or if you dont think you can you can always tell a student consueler or even your doctor because whatever you come to them with thier not allowed to tell your parents.It's confidential between you and them.If you want to talk or need advice please let me know, i'd like to help.Hope everything works out.

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ok theres this boys and i jsut moved from georgia and goin bak in about 10 months and theres this boy bak there we dated almost all year and we broke up jsut before i moved and everytime i talk to i i start liking him agian and he talks to my friends about me all the time and he we he asks me out agian what should i do

If you like him too , you should go out if with him if thats what you want.You can make a long distance relationship intil you go back.hope i helped.

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Hey, a couple months ago me and my boyfriend got caught having sex. I'm 15 years old and my parents were not too happy with me. They had no idea that I was sexually active before. They grounded me and told me that I could never see my boyfriend again, but I talked them into letting me stay with him, thats all taken care of but how can I gain their trust back? please help..

Try and let them know things that are going on in your life.Parents love that.Just anything you can think of that happened let them know.It shows them that you want to earn your trust back and your trying. hope i helped.

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okay, ive been "talking" to this guy for the past like 2 weeks, we hang out acouple times a week and talk on the phone...how long do u think i should wait until i make out with him and NOT seem slutty at the same time? im comfortable with making out and all that junk, but how long should i wait so i wont seem easy?

As long as you dont tihnk your being slutty or too easy then whenever you feel comfortable.Make sure he wants to too though.You dont want to scare him off or give him the wrong impression of you.hope i helped.

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Well my best friend is going to move in a bit and well I wont see her that much, well I have a lot of guy friends and I want to become best friends with them.. will people think i am too much of a flirt? Is it ok.. do you think its alright? I mean it shouldnt be a big deal but I am afraid people with think i am a big flirt and stuff if i do that but i have a lot of good guys friends and i wanna be a best friend with one!Tell me what i should do

I have a ton of guy friends and no really thinks anything of it.If anything alot of the girls in my school ask me to talk to one of my guy friends for them.Thats usually how it works out.There's just always gonna be one or two people who are gonna think your a big flirt but dont pay attention to anyone who thinks that because it's usually the people who no one really likes.Try not to think about it and have fun with your friends.Hope i helped.

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Okay well see.. i like this guy names Tyler! He really likes me but see.. my BEST friend that i have known since i was like 3 or 4 likes him A LOT and she doesnt know i like him. He asked me out tonight and i dont know what to say.. i REALLY need you adive as soon as possible! Please!

Talk to your friend ask her if its alright if you go out with him.Tell her that you really liek him alot too but you didnt want to tell her because you didnt want ot ruin her chances either.Let her know you really dont want to hurt her.Hope i helped.

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heyyy every time i straigten my hair in the morning it takes like an hour and its like sooo perfectly straight every morning...but then at school its humid andd it gets all curly and looks bad. do you know why it does this? is it cuz my hair kind of has a natural wave to it or cuz my straigtener is not good enough?? if you know anything thatll help this or why this is happeninng lemme know thanks

Yea it's definatly because your hair is naturally curly or wavey.My hair is just liek that.Except mine usually takes anwhere from and hour to two hours.even with regular straightners any bit of humidity or wetness to your brings out the waves if its really curly.There are some straightners that will get your straight at least from the humidity.i know at SEARS they have a couple realyl good straightners four around 30-50$.which is pretty cheap for the most part.Hope your hair gets better, let me know if you need anymore info.

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Ok me and my 2 friends lyke this guy and i found out that he lykes me should i go with it cuz i really lyke him but i dont want to hurt my friends! Plz help

I would ask your friends how they feel about it.If they say its ok and your sure they really are.Ask him out.your friends will pry be happy that one of you three got him.hope everything works out.

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im really confused.im a catholic and bieleve in everything it teaches.iv been baptised and confermed too.but i also beilieve in abortion.i think women should have the right to choose if they want.is this a sin? does this mean im goin to hell? pleaz answer.

dont feel bad i'm catholic and i've been baptized and everything and i dont believe in alot of things in the relgion.My religion teacher and priest said that there's somethings we wont agree with but as long as were followers god and jesus loves us.I dont remember everything they said but dont worry your not going to hell.

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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(

i'm not sure if can control everything in his body and know when everything can happen.i would be safe and use a condom because you never know what can happen.Please be safe.
~melissa~

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ok i know i had this questions earlier but i didnt ge tot see the answer to it... is getting your belly button peirced dangerous at all? and also is there an age where you to be old enough to get them peirced. thanx cuz i really want to get them done!!!!

You can get it peirced as long as you have a guardians permission if your under 18.It can be dangerous, it could get seriously infected but usually if u dont take care if it.

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i hate my body .. like.. im 5'0'' nd i wiegh like.. 140.. but im muscular nd all .. but like.. i could lose wieght.. nd i needa find ways to lose weight.. what kinda excersises work.. FAST.. and like.. to top it off i have like the slowest motablisim lol.. so that sucks.. but im in alot of sports.. but it seems like them never lose any thing

grr so i just need a lil help here lol.. thanks!

Portioning what you eat helps alot or it helped me alot. Like if u have three big meals a day try and do like four or five small meals a day and even with sports and stuff i try to take like 1-3 mile walks a couple times a week.It seems to really help.hope i helped,and i'm really sorry if i didn't.:/. good luck with losing weight though

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